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nudenwv
03-03-2008, 09:34 AM
it is difficult for me to post this but need support from friends. yesterday march 2 my mother and father were in a terrible car accident. my father did not make it and my mother is critical. they were life flighted to a medical center in pittsburgh,pa. the other party that hit head on was drunk. today is our wedding anniversary. i think with this said everyone knows the rest. i will be checking often

Boreas
03-03-2008, 09:45 AM
I am sorry to hear that nuedenwv. Do take care. I hope your mother heals well.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

David77
03-03-2008, 10:25 AM
I am so sorry for the loss of your father and wish your mother a speedy recovery from her critical condition. My condolences in your grief.

Journeyman
03-03-2008, 10:59 AM
My heart goes out to you, buddy...to lose your dad and to have your mom in critical condition - that is an awful thing to have happen in one day. And a result of a drunk driver? Shameful and so, so unnecessary.
My sincere sympathies.

Nudeinbama
03-03-2008, 11:22 AM
God bless you man. I am so sorry to hear this has happened to your family.
I too, hope your mother recovers well and that you too can recover from this tragedy. I don't know what else to say, but wish I had the words or wisdom to take away some of your hurt, as I know how bad it hurts to have a parent taken away so suddenly, and saying its hard doesn't even start to describe the loss.try not to forget your anniversary and what you still have, but I know your wife will understand it not being a special day. take care and stay strong freind.
Nudeinbama

1Ace
03-03-2008, 11:59 AM
Godspeed brother...

Balloon_Artist
03-03-2008, 12:00 PM
You, your mother, and your family will be in my pairs.

Sorry for your loss and for your mom's loss and may your mother have a speedy and proper recovery.

Qikdraw
03-03-2008, 12:25 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope your mother gets better soon.

Our thoughts are with you and yours.

Qikdraw

jon71
03-03-2008, 01:17 PM
My prayers are with you and your family.

nuada
03-03-2008, 01:21 PM
God bless and keep you and yur family in this time of tragedy, my prayers are with you.

SpiderThug
03-03-2008, 01:28 PM
So often the offending driver is drunk. :(

Sorry about your parents, mate.

tiggy
03-03-2008, 01:47 PM
Will keep you in my thoughts.
Tiggy

allthetimenude
03-03-2008, 01:49 PM
Hey, I'm just one of the many visitors here and we have previously never communicated. I always enjoy your insights on these forums and the fact you keep everything positive and well-meaning. We put a lot of ourselves on this site...just being here is a risk, because it shows we are not "mainstream" textile, materialistic people. At times like this, know you and your family are in the thoughts of others and that you are appreciated. Take care, allthetimenude

Al Bundy
03-03-2008, 02:35 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. In all of my years I have not been able to come up with words I feel would help relieve the pain of losing a loved one. My thoughts are with you and your family.

nacktman
03-03-2008, 02:38 PM
Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Sigmund
03-03-2008, 02:45 PM
There is nothing I can add except that she can get some of the best care in the world in Pittsburgh.

naturalmanwa
03-03-2008, 03:50 PM
My sympathies are with you. Drunk drivers are a terrible thing and should be prosecuted criminally. My son was hit by a close friend this AM and I spent the nite in the emergency room with him. I turned it into police and had the person arrested. It was very difficult as she was a close friend to our family and very special to my son. She was also drunk and on medication. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family in this terrible time of tragedy.

OZJames
03-03-2008, 05:59 PM
Most of us cannot imagine the suffering that one must feel when a parent is lost by an accident. Your Mum will need a lot of support which I am sure you will be able to give. When she recovers you will all need to focus on the good times you have all had together in the past. She will need a lot of support so as get her life going again.

A very sad and difficult time for all your family,

JAMES

brainyguy9999
03-03-2008, 06:11 PM
10 years ago on March 20th my father passed away. I know the hurt that goes with never being able to talk to him again. But, like you, I had to be strong for my mother. Know that the pain does subside with time, but you will always miss him and remember him with a tear in your eye and a smile playing at the corner of your mouth.

Stay strong for your mother. She will need you in the near term and in the long run. I'm sure your father would have told you to take care of her if anything ever happened to him.

I sincerely hope that your mother recovers in short order.

My thoughts are with you and I wish you strength and calmness as you move through this difficult time.

bg

luvnaturism
03-03-2008, 06:24 PM
Thanks for letting us know of your family tragedy. Please know that we care.

hickory1945
03-03-2008, 06:42 PM
So sorry to here of the accident. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Hickory

bare-belly
03-03-2008, 07:08 PM
My deepest condolences. As you can tell, wv, we are all trying to be strong for you around here. I had a relative imprisoned for drunk driving once, and I haven't spoked to her since. It is very doubtful that the murderer in your case, once caught, will get off as she did by going into rehab. Embrace your mother for us all!

scubare
03-03-2008, 07:08 PM
I can only add my thoughts of sympathy to the very kind words already expressed. In time the suffocating nature of the sudden shock will ease, and you would do well to hold the good memories close. My prayers for a quick recovery for your mom, and strength for your whole family.

scubare

Sacramento Jesse
03-03-2008, 07:18 PM
I am so sorry to hear this. People who drink and drive only think about themselves and how he/she hopes they don't get caught, when the truth is they should be worried about whom they hurt.

Nu
03-03-2008, 08:00 PM
Rough news.
Peace be with you.

DenitaLC
03-03-2008, 08:22 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss and your heartache.

nudenwv
03-03-2008, 08:32 PM
UPDATE: it is monday 3-3-08. i love you all with all my heart! just reading these comments makes me feel touched and somewhat calm! the family was called in this afternoon for my mother. she needs emergency surgery tomorrow and they told us due to her age (79) and the trauma she has gone through the prospects of recovery is grave. an autopsy has been done to dad. i belive the state mandates it when a death occurs. to make things more difficult to understand...the woman that hit them i worked with in the plant. holding on to your prayers and thoughts. thank you all!!

BinCo
03-03-2008, 08:42 PM
Help your Mother thru this very difficult time. We'll be here for you.

BEE-1
03-03-2008, 08:49 PM
You are in my prayers Brother.............

Bob S.
03-03-2008, 08:54 PM
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Bob S.

toofeelgood
03-03-2008, 09:20 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Much aloha.

nudeM
03-03-2008, 09:31 PM
HW and myself send you our condolences for the loss of your Father. I know how rough it is for you in times like these, and your Mother is in our prayers for a speedy recovery. Hang in there and hope things work out for the better.

Take care and may God be with you.

jandatxnude
03-03-2008, 09:55 PM
Our sympathies for your loss, and we'll pray for you and your family with your Mother's surgery. We'll hope for the best, but trust in the God's will.

Barefoot-n-Nude in Texas!

NudeJanice
03-04-2008, 01:41 AM
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family, you are in my thoughts and prayers

Janice

Free2bnaked
03-04-2008, 03:29 AM
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this tragic time, may you feel the love of God and friends, to help you through.
God be with you all.

Nude and Tanned
03-04-2008, 04:31 AM
Very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers I also hope everything works out ok for your mom.

Christian
03-04-2008, 04:53 AM
My condolences to you and your family.

NudeTopher
03-04-2008, 05:43 AM
I will join everyone else in expressing my most sincere sorrow for your loss. Please rememeber to take care of yourself during this ordeal. You won't be able to be able to be there for your mother unless you take care of yourself.

Connude
03-04-2008, 07:21 AM
So sorry to about your Mom and Dad. Thoughts and prayers for you, your Mom and family.

MoonShadow
03-04-2008, 07:39 AM
Deeply sorry to hear of the lost of your father and the criticalness of your mother. My sincere condolences to you and your family; may his legacy live on within each of you

haystack
03-04-2008, 10:36 AM
my prayers and thoughts are with you and wish your mother god speed recovery from england

krcNY
03-04-2008, 01:27 PM
My condolences to you and your family.:grouphug:

baregreg
03-04-2008, 02:52 PM
I'm sorry for the passing of your father. I hope for the best for your mother.
I lost both of my parents in 2004.

Be strong and take care of yourself.

threadbare
03-04-2008, 03:30 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are also with you!!!

nudepartime
03-05-2008, 08:31 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss and it is so sad this had to happen to your family. My prayers and positive thoughts for your family and your Mothers recovery are with you.