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[trailracer88]

I'm new to nudism. infact, i've never been nude outside the house. I like to be nude by myself, it helps me to relax. Any way, i'm interested in talking to other nudists about whatever: Nudism, masturbation, anything boy or girl. I'm a 15 year old male, my E-mail is fuelforthought@hotmail.com

My aim is : Eduro1988 or Motorbreath1988.

[trailracer88]

I'm new to nudism. infact, i've never been nude outside the house. I like to be nude by myself, it helps me to relax. Any way, i'm interested in talking to other nudists about whatever: Nudism, masturbation, anything boy or girl. I'm a 15 year old male, my E-mail is fuelforthought@hotmail.com

My aim is : Eduro1988 or Motorbreath1988.

[S.M.A.]

If I could comment for just a moment:

I hope by mentioning masturbation, you're not making the false assumption that nudity means sex?

[NudeAl]

Yeah I think he is making that assumption. I bet he uses a bottle of lotion and a F***mag to relax or what ever.

[sawdust]

Nude Al,
There is no need or appreciation of your crassness and judgemental attitude towards other posters. Certainly, you sould consider giving a 15 year old some slack and just a bit of civil consideration. Telling us how you have handled thing in the past, is no assurance that this is what this young man is doing! Sawdust

Nate,

Some of us are quite willing to talk about whatever you want to talk about. Being only 15 and new to nudism, you probably have questions that we older nudists can answer.

You can also click on the Private Message feature to talk to any individual. I'm a 58-year-old dad and granddad and am happy to answer any questions to help a young man just starting out in nudism. I live in a nudist resort full time.

[nunne]

Nate - I agree that many of us will be happy to talk to you about any issues you may have. I remember that masturbation was a big issue with me when I was 15. (That was many years ago.) The most important thing to remember is that nudity, masturbation and attraction to girls is a natural and marvelous thing to be exploring at this time in your life.

[Trailscout]

I remember the warning that old folks used to repeat, "It will make you go blind!".

One of our local pundits wrote a book entitled, " Can I Just Do It Til I Need Glasses? (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0931948819/qid=1083955038/sr=1-10/ref=sr_1_10/104-5014669-2655144?v=glance&s=books)" /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[florida-david]

HI TRAILRACER

once again the old folks (i'm getting old also) hop all over the young on this site. why do you think that so many young people don't hang aroung on this site?? sorry for the mistreatment, trailracer. although people on this site seem to think masturbation is a bad word, it really isn't. nudists on this site are so paranoid of someone associating masturbation/sex with nudity that they can't control their rage. they feel if masturbation/sex is discussed on this site, than people will assume all nudists are perverts. well, masturbation and sex are normal natural things and it is a shame we can't discuss them here for fear of insulting some of the older nudists.

with that said, and with the nasty reaction your post received, i would suggest that you look for masturbation information elsewhere. there are some excellent websites that are not selling porn that i am sure you can find on your own with any search engine. just keep your discussions on this website in the family/PG range so none of the older folks attack you again. i look forward to answering any questions you might have....

It's no wonder young people have such a fear of talking to adults about things to which they need answers when they get this pious attitude from them. "Good people don't talk about that!"

I wish someone had been willing to answer my questions when I was a teen, because I grew up very ignorant of things I needed to know. My parents told me nothing, and all my info came from older brothers, and you know how reliable THAT info is.

[blindmanin99]

Trailscout: Is that true? Does that really happen?

[Rex]

I suppose if you met a visually impaired man with hairy hands and he told you he was in the Guinness Book of Records, you would know which section to look under to find him!

[Trailscout]

blindmanin99,

In 1919, a prominent medical doctor travelled widely in the United States speaking before Rotary clubs and the like, speaking alternately before audiences of women and men on the subject of sex. He was sincere and quoted the medical opinion of the day, which said that 10% of semen is cerebro-spinal fluid and that frequent masturbation would deplete the body's spinal fluid, leading to nerve damage to the eyes. He also said that sex more frequent than once a month would wear out a woman's delicate constitution and she would die prematurely.

Faced with these grim "realities", married couples did their best to restrain their animal impulses and limit their marital intimacies to once a month as the good doctor sternly warned. Likewise, fathers across America kept a vigil to make sure their boys had not given in to a life of secret lust and the consequent nerve damage that would ensue. The doctor went on to warn the men that they must talk frankly with their boys about the facts of life. The doctor met a lot of resistance when he made this point, but he warned the fathers of the tragedy that would emerge a few years later as their sons, emboldened by cheap whiskey would wend their way to the red light district and in their naivete, catch some loathesome disease that would forever shame the family and produce pitiful disfigured offspring. Faced with this grim reality, the fathers with one voice shouted their willingness to speak of the unspeakable to save their boys from such a fate.

Many of this man's audience went back to their quiet lives as farmers and merchant in small towns. As medical science went on to refute the outlandish science of those early years, the folks who heard that message and passed it on to their neighbors were never privy to the advances of science since those repressive days.

[freehiker]

Trailracer88
Welcome to the forum. Being able to be nude in the house is great. Try being nude outdoors. There should be some forested areas near you home in MD where you can go and not be seen by other people. Get your clothes off and enjoy the feeling of the sun and fresh air on your body. Turn you back to the sun and concentrate of the feeling of the sun shining on you back, you buttock, and the back of your legs without the interuption of clothing in the middle. I find this to be really relaxing.
Welcome to the forum. Hope the above posts haven't scared you off

[blindmanin99]

Thanks Trailscout. That was very interesting. Actually, let's see if you can figure me out. A hint: I have no depth perception. No, I don't have hairy palms.

[missouriboy]

No depth perception = working vision in only one eye.

Your username made me want to ask, "Do you have a monitor that displays in Braille?" /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[melissastarr]

Actually, a person with vision in only one eye can have pretty decent depth perception. I say this because I am blind in my right eye and have been since I was around 1 year old. Yet I'm doing just fine. The state of Pennsylvania even considers me a safe driver because of my excellent driving record- something that would be impossible if my depth perception were severely impaired. So now you're all educated /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Regarding visual impairment in both eyes, my close friend Rebecca who lives downstairs from me is blind and is active on the internet. There is screen-reading software installed on her computer so she misses nothing. The computer is a huge help to her in everyday life as she scans her mail onto her computer so that she can read it, receives work information (she's a teacher) that the other employees receive, and helps in all the ways that those not affected by visual impairments are helped.

Dag- can you tell I'm a teacher?

Melissa

I'm near-sighted in my right eye and far-sighted in my left, and I have no depth perseption. The eye doctor said I'm becoming more far-sighted in both eyes, and that's not good. I have enough difficulty reading small print as it is. I have to keep getting stronger and stronger reading glasses to make the print big enough to read.

[blindmanin99]

Missouriboy: You are correct. I am blind in my right eye. It happened in an automobile accident 4 1/2 years ago. My optic nerve died from the blow to the head, but luckily the eyeball looks normal. I also fractured my C1 vertebrae in four places, but that healed just fine after 6 months in a neckbrace. With vision in only one eye, you can't have depth perception, you can only adapt. I can drive fine, but parallel parking is a real *****. You don't want me trying to disarm a bomb.

Melissa, I may have to PM you and ask you some questions, if you don't mind. Thanks.

[melissastarr]

I think the difference between us, blindman, is when we lost the sight. As I was a very young child I probably have more adaptations. For example, I'm an excellent parallel parker. Being a Philadelphian, I can actually parallel park with only an inch or so on each end left over. But I've heard that when I started walking, around age 1 when my eye was hurt, I used to walk into things alot. So there may be hope for your parallel parking yet! LOL Regarding disarming a bomb, I haven't tried it and I certainly wouldn't volunteer for the job. But that has NOTHING to do with depth perception! Feel free to pm me.

Melissa

[blindmanin99]

Melissa, I tried to PM you, but I keep getting a message to login or register. I've done both and nothing works. May I email you? My email is (of course): blindmanin99@hotmail.com

Thanks .)