mzdab3000
08-10-2009, 11:52 AM
I have posted on other topics on this forum about the semi-nudist lifestyle that I share with my wife. I am an avowed nudist and she is a reluctant home nudist having only tried social nudism at a resort once about 6 years ago at Cypress Cove and declaring it not for her. I am often nude around home when our grown children are out and occasionally she will join me. But she needs to feel totally secure that we won't be interrupted.
Well, we just had a phenomenal weekend at a cabin in central Pennsylvania this past weekend. I have recently been RIF'd from work and am facing the prospect of securing a new position. We needed a weekend away and borrowed a rather remote hunting camp cabin from her brother. We drove up on Friday night and arrived just as it was getting dark. We settled in for the evening and then went to bed. I of course had gotten nude almost as soon as we had all of our provisions inside.
The next day, I got up, still nude, and puttered about getting ready for the day. We had breakfast but she wasn't feeling the best. I decided to step out on the deck to drink the last of my coffee. The cabin is on a hillside development with about 20 to 25 other cabins or whatnot. Each is about 75 yards apart and an average of 30 yards back from the road that circles through the development. There are trees and undergrowth and you can just glimpse the next properties up and down the hill. The cabins on the back are just visible at night when they are lit. I knew that no one was at either camp up or down the hill and no one at the one directly across the road. The deck is not directly visible from the road. I sat down and unwrapped my towel. She came out dressed and joined me. We discussed our plans to go to a nearby lake for the day. I remarked on the solitude and my nudism and she just smiled. She has gotten very tolerant of my nude lifestyle.
We made our trip for the day and then brought back dinner and a bottle of wine for Saturday night. I got nude as soon as we were back at the cabin, by 6:00 PM that night. We took our wine out to the deck where we shared it and she surprised me by going topless as I was completely nude. Later as we ate our dinner, and watched a movie she remained so. We went to bed with me still nude.
The next day was very nice. I got up and remained nude, and got cleaned up as she got up. She still wasn't feeling 100%. After a late breakfast, I repeated my nude deck relaxation. She came out in her sleep top and pants drinking her coffee. She went back in to do dishes. I teased her that she has not been fully nude all weekend. She smiled and joked about my nudity. After a bit of marital play that is not pertinent here, we were relaxing inside with both of us now nude. I pointed out that I had been nude for over 19 hours straight at that point. She asked if that was personal best (actually no - 53 hours at Cypress Cove). She had been stitching a decorative item for our daughter earlier. I suggested that she continue her stitching outside in the nude. She just smiled. A few minutes later, she totally surprised me by grabbing a towel and stepping out on the deck in the bright sunshine completely nude. This is a woman who has only ever been nude outdoors once before by her admission, and claimed that she was definitely not a nudist.
We sat outside in the sun and soft wind on that deck, totally nude for almost three hours. The whole time there were people going up and down the road on ATVs, walking. One gentleman drove by on a golfcart (explained why we didn't hear him). HE WAVED at us. Neither of us had a chance to coverup. What's more, my wife didn't even try, and didn't panic and flinch when she realized that he had seen us. It is doubtful that he knew we were nude from the angle he went by, but still an amazement to me at her non-reaction. She totally lost herself in her stitchery. We went back inside and came back out a few times, and she didn't even bother to cover up. Later we finished the leftover Chinese carryout from our dinner the night before, still nude. We then cleaned up the cabin for the next guests and packed to go home. The last thing we did before leaving was to get dressed.
I know that this is long, but this event represents a significant change in her approach to nudism. I told her as she sat stitching and I just sat and drank in the experience that I was amazed at how comfortable she was. She was just focused on her work. She urged me to get a book or something. I didn't tell her that I wasn't able to completely relax enough to read being in an unofficial nudist situation. I didn't want to cause any problems for her brother with the owners association. I did take the time to let her know that this is what I enjoyed most about nudism, about how relaxed and natural it made me feel. I hope that sentiment sank in with her. Looking back, I suppose that I set the stage for her comfort with my comfort, sitting out on the deck, relaxing.
Just wanted to share and let everyone know that is dealing with a reluctant spouse, family member or significant other, that things do change. Sorry for the long post, but it was such a great experience, that I wanted to share.
Well, we just had a phenomenal weekend at a cabin in central Pennsylvania this past weekend. I have recently been RIF'd from work and am facing the prospect of securing a new position. We needed a weekend away and borrowed a rather remote hunting camp cabin from her brother. We drove up on Friday night and arrived just as it was getting dark. We settled in for the evening and then went to bed. I of course had gotten nude almost as soon as we had all of our provisions inside.
The next day, I got up, still nude, and puttered about getting ready for the day. We had breakfast but she wasn't feeling the best. I decided to step out on the deck to drink the last of my coffee. The cabin is on a hillside development with about 20 to 25 other cabins or whatnot. Each is about 75 yards apart and an average of 30 yards back from the road that circles through the development. There are trees and undergrowth and you can just glimpse the next properties up and down the hill. The cabins on the back are just visible at night when they are lit. I knew that no one was at either camp up or down the hill and no one at the one directly across the road. The deck is not directly visible from the road. I sat down and unwrapped my towel. She came out dressed and joined me. We discussed our plans to go to a nearby lake for the day. I remarked on the solitude and my nudism and she just smiled. She has gotten very tolerant of my nude lifestyle.
We made our trip for the day and then brought back dinner and a bottle of wine for Saturday night. I got nude as soon as we were back at the cabin, by 6:00 PM that night. We took our wine out to the deck where we shared it and she surprised me by going topless as I was completely nude. Later as we ate our dinner, and watched a movie she remained so. We went to bed with me still nude.
The next day was very nice. I got up and remained nude, and got cleaned up as she got up. She still wasn't feeling 100%. After a late breakfast, I repeated my nude deck relaxation. She came out in her sleep top and pants drinking her coffee. She went back in to do dishes. I teased her that she has not been fully nude all weekend. She smiled and joked about my nudity. After a bit of marital play that is not pertinent here, we were relaxing inside with both of us now nude. I pointed out that I had been nude for over 19 hours straight at that point. She asked if that was personal best (actually no - 53 hours at Cypress Cove). She had been stitching a decorative item for our daughter earlier. I suggested that she continue her stitching outside in the nude. She just smiled. A few minutes later, she totally surprised me by grabbing a towel and stepping out on the deck in the bright sunshine completely nude. This is a woman who has only ever been nude outdoors once before by her admission, and claimed that she was definitely not a nudist.
We sat outside in the sun and soft wind on that deck, totally nude for almost three hours. The whole time there were people going up and down the road on ATVs, walking. One gentleman drove by on a golfcart (explained why we didn't hear him). HE WAVED at us. Neither of us had a chance to coverup. What's more, my wife didn't even try, and didn't panic and flinch when she realized that he had seen us. It is doubtful that he knew we were nude from the angle he went by, but still an amazement to me at her non-reaction. She totally lost herself in her stitchery. We went back inside and came back out a few times, and she didn't even bother to cover up. Later we finished the leftover Chinese carryout from our dinner the night before, still nude. We then cleaned up the cabin for the next guests and packed to go home. The last thing we did before leaving was to get dressed.
I know that this is long, but this event represents a significant change in her approach to nudism. I told her as she sat stitching and I just sat and drank in the experience that I was amazed at how comfortable she was. She was just focused on her work. She urged me to get a book or something. I didn't tell her that I wasn't able to completely relax enough to read being in an unofficial nudist situation. I didn't want to cause any problems for her brother with the owners association. I did take the time to let her know that this is what I enjoyed most about nudism, about how relaxed and natural it made me feel. I hope that sentiment sank in with her. Looking back, I suppose that I set the stage for her comfort with my comfort, sitting out on the deck, relaxing.
Just wanted to share and let everyone know that is dealing with a reluctant spouse, family member or significant other, that things do change. Sorry for the long post, but it was such a great experience, that I wanted to share.