if your with a bf at nude resort/beach are you allowed to kiss/cuddle?

[mollyhart]

if your with a bf at nude resort or nude beach are you allowed to kiss and cuddle? ive never been with a bf but the guy im with now is hands-on and i dont know if we should attend together in case he gets us into trouble./

[Fitz1980]

if your with a bf at nude resort or nude beach are you allowed to kiss and cuddle? ive never been with a bf but the guy im with now is hands-on and i dont know if we should attend together in case he gets us into trouble./

Basically the rules are about what they would be if you were at a textile place with your BF wearing skimpy swimsuits. Kissing & cuddling are fine; hardcore making out, petting & (dry) humping are not.

[mollyhart]

Basically the rules are about what they would be if you were at a textile place with your BF wearing skimpy swimsuits. Kissing & cuddling are fine; hardcore making out, petting & (dry) humping are not.

If kissing cuddlings fine then thats no problems then cool :) but like im on his knee for the cuddle, i guess its ok though.

[BinCo]

I think a simple way to look at it is this: If you or him are doing anything to create any sort of sexual arousal or satisfaction it is not appropriate.

[mollyhart]

I think a simple way to look at it is this: If you or him are doing anything to create any sort of sexual arousal or satisfaction it is not appropriate.

kissings arousing lol owell i guess i shouldnt go with him is wisest.

[luv2bnude]

kissings arousing lol owell i guess i shouldnt go with him is wisest.

It would be a shame for you to miss out on a great time at a nude resort with your bf because of what he might do. Just tell him that he can't be so "touchy feely" when you're there - I'm sure he'd rather tone things down a little if he could spend a day in the nude with you. Have fun!

[mollyhart]

It would be a shame for you to miss out on a great time at a nude resort with your bf because of what he might do. Just tell him that he can't be so "touchy feely" when you're there - I'm sure he'd rather tone things down a little if he could spend a day in the nude with you. Have fun!

i tried it but he kept kissing me in evil places , we ended up breaking up last week just from him being too rude not from the nude beaching problem , owell some guys are too rough with puberty things instead of respecting virginity etc.

[walter05]

i tried it but he kept kissing me in evil places , we ended up breaking up last week just from him being too rude not from the nude beaching problem , owell some guys are too rough with puberty things instead of respecting virginity etc.

What are "evil place"?

If you don't want a kiss, kissing your face cheeks is an unwanted intrusion. You have no evil body parts.

Puberty does not cause a guy to be rough. He is just a jerk and you are lucky to be rid of him. As you put it, nudity had nothing to do with his behavior. He is a jerk when both of you are clothed and would be if both of you are nude.

Walter

[mollyhart]

What are "evil place"?

If you don't want a kiss, kissing your face cheeks is an unwanted intrusion. You have no evil body parts.

Puberty does not cause a guy to be rough. He is just a jerk and you are lucky to be rid of him. As you put it, nudity had nothing to do with his behavior. He is a jerk when both of you are clothed and would be if both of you are nude.

Walter

lol ok not evil places but the private part that guys always go for.
Its my fault I love to cuddle bfs and it leads them on i've found out recently, instead of just being a great cuddle, they see it as something else.
Owell just another lesson in love lol

Mollz

[Pumpkinpie]

I really don't be seeing kissing & cuddling at the resorts or the beaches, people be either playing volleyball, in the hot tub, just lounging around the pool, chatting with each other or just taking in the sun, they keep it private.

[richinoregon]

lol ok not evil places but the private part that guys always go for.
Its my fault I love to cuddle bfs and it leads them on i've found out recently, instead of just being a great cuddle, they see it as something else.
Owell just another lesson in love lol

Mollz

Guys need to understand that women like cuddling and it doesn't mean that they want sex; it has to do (at least my wife tells me this) with relationship building. Any guy who pushes you for sex is a self centered jerk, interested only in himself. Anyone who is really interested in you would listen to what you want and are comfortable with.

Anyway good for you for dumping the jerk!

[Croydon]

Am surprise people haven't clued in to the fact that Mollyhart is a troll.

If you take a look at her post history, it always related to something sexual

[Boreas]

Am surprise people haven't clued in to the fact that Mollyhart is a troll.

If you take a look at her post history, it always related to something sexual


I was just starting to suspect s/he was a troll.......

[mollyhart]

Guys need to understand that women like cuddling and it doesn't mean that they want sex; it has to do (at least my wife tells me this) with relationship building. Any guy who pushes you for sex is a self centered jerk, interested only in himself. Anyone who is really interested in you would listen to what you want and are comfortable with.

Anyway good for you for dumping the jerk!

thanks thats exactly how i feel :p

[mollyhart]

Am surprise people haven't clued in to the fact that Mollyhart is a troll.

If you take a look at her post history, it always related to something sexual

i never talk about s3x to family/friends so its all i talk about online cos its so easy to for a change unlike the judgemental real life! its so fun to let my thoughts our thats all , but i guess i've gone too far and i am sorry for this.

[RalphVa]

I wouldn't want to kiss or cuddle my wife at a nudist resort. Can lead to a rise between the thighs. Most people don't want to see that.

[brainyguy9999]

Sorry it didn't work out. But if he's being a jerk, then you're better off. However, this advice applies to your next bf when you two are ready to try out a nudist resort.

It's always best to keep kissing and cuddling in the privacy of your tent or room. There are those first-timers who might see it and mistakenly believe that you are advertising for someone to join in. Someone who is there for the wrong reason may attempt to join you, while those there for the right reason will probably be offended by your display of improper nudist etiquette. If the display goes too far, management may ask you two to leave. You could wind up on a national nudist "blacklist" where other nudist resorts may not allow you to visit in the future based on that one episode.

That being said. Simple holding hands and "peck" kisses are common at the resorts I've been to. But, they are always more of a playful or a simple show of affection, rather than a serious amorous display.

Like someone else said: Just go and be thankful that you can spend time nude together in a social nudist setting. Make a goal of learning new things about each other by talking about where you came from as well as your hopes and dreams for the future. Leave all of the physical stuff for behind closed doors. If you do all of that, you'll both have a great time and will be closer because of it.

Until you find your next boyfriend to go with, think about getting a couple of your girl friends to go with you one day. You'll be able to observe "nudists in action" and get a feel for how to behave without throwing a guy into the mix.

Stay nude!

bg

[Croydon]

i never talk about s3x to family/friends so its all i talk about online cos its so easy to for a change unlike the judgemental real life! its so fun to let my thoughts our thats all , but i guess i've gone too far and i am sorry for this.

This is a naturist website, not a sex site.

[SkinnyDipperSigns.com]

--- Depends on the place ! Each Nudist Resort tends to have their own rules and the people who live there dictate those rules. I've mentioned this elsewhere, but there are some resorts where you cannot (or at least not suppose to) even apply sun block to your partner which is ridiculous. Some do not allow genital piercings et-al.

But most people and resorts are accommodating and for me at least, I can't seem to keep my hands off my wife.

The rule should be common sense or at least consider how you might act if a camera was rolling or when children are around - whether they are there or not ! Some clubs are just so fearful or rigid, that any act of loving touch is frowned upon. I fear some clubs go too far running from any form of sexual expression - but we don't need to see men giving each other blow jobs at the nude beach either ! The latter is ultimately what ruins our credibility - which is why we need AANR as a voice of reason. Let's just be balanced in this arena and respectful of others.

So ….. Kiss - Hug & Cuddle away !

[Naturist4Ever]

>> but there are some resorts where you cannot (or at least not suppose to) even apply sun block to your partner which is ridiculous.

"Unfortunately" as it is, for some people rubbing in sunlotion becomes - willingly - a heck more than just applying some cream on the difficult to reach places. There are always people who try to find the limits and bend the rules in subtle ways. Out of frustration some clubs might have set ridiculous rules in the hope that everyone gets it. Oh, and the guy who always finds it necessary to be "rubbing" his penis: it's just a bit of itching and the odd fly that had found a convenient landing spot. yeah, go figure.

[Ben_c]

This is a naturist website, not a sex site.

Yes but it does have a nudist and sexuality section. Its a little harsh to accuse someone of been a troll on the basis they post exclusively to one section. Someone may only have questions to ask in one aspect of naturism and be comfortable with all other aspects.

Although I will admit I havnt looked into the members post history in any detail.

[Sampson01]

Is it not normal just to act as one would on a textile beach?