What happens when men get erections?

[takeitontherun]

Since i havent gotten to experience a resort yet, i cant fully give my opinion but i would have to say that if i could see that he was indeed fully hard and that it wasnt a case of repositioning stiffening (for lack of a better way of putting it), then i would likely just remove myself from the area and let someone else deal with it.

[janie4x]

I've seen it a few times as men were coming out of the water. They calmly returned to their towel on the beach and sat down. No problem. I've seen them before and do not feel threatened.

[soundman]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Jason Lee:
soundman [URL/Link deleted by Moderator "NG" due to adult content]

that erection policy applies to Starkers a bar and nightclub for nudists in London U.K. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
That erection policy gives young people the freedom to go there without having to worry about erections. The erection taboo at most clubs is the number one reason young men are scared to go to nudist resorts.

[NudeAl]

This is a night club not a naturist resort or club. I haven't been there but judging by their web site it would appear there is some interest in it. I don't know about their erection policy though. I have seen some dance moves that if they were done naked with an erection would consitute sex. I don't know if I would want that. But it is a private club and they can set the rules they want.

[Fresh Air]

I prefer the answers on the FCN and AANR sites. I agree there is nothing wrong or unnatural about an erection. I just feel the natural nature of it can be misinterpreted by how an erection is handled. Disco Clubs in general are more of an adult sceene and more liberal. If that is the rule there, then that is fine with me. But, I don't think the rules of dance clubs should apply to public settings or to family oriented resorts.

Dan

[JF1569]

This topic never ends, and there is a good reason...it's a valid topic - especially for new nudists. I would say I am a "seasoned" nudist and have visited many nude beaches and several resorts. While 95 percent of the time (maybe more) erections are of no worry. But, the facts of anatomy and life is that they do on occasion happen. I agree with several folks here in that there is a distinct difference between merely having an erection and having one and flaunting it or showing off. I have never seen anyone flaunt an erection at a nude resort; once on a beach. Those things said, even though normally it's not an issue, I have had occasional erections while at a resort. I will not go into full details, but one time I got an erection while working out in the gym. This happened while a fellow resort member who was a woman was also working out. She did notice and did not care. She even commented about it. Eventually the erection subsided and we both continued our work-outs.
Bottom line? Just don't flaunt it or do anything inappropriate (i.e. touching, etc..) and you should be fine in the rare event one occurs. We are men, and we have no control over it. It's natural, but how you handle it can be key.

[Tara]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by soundman:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Jason Lee:
soundman [URL/Link deleted by Moderator "NG" due to Adult content]

that erection policy applies to Starkers a bar and nightclub for nudists in London U.K. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
That erection policy gives young people the freedom to go there without having to worry about erections. The erection taboo at most clubs is the number one reason young men are scared to go to nudist resorts. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I don't think Starkers erection policy is a really relevant example when speaking of policies at family naturist/nudist resorts...

According to people I have spoken to who have been there, there is a much more sexually charged atmosphere than a typical nudist resort, and it is primarily single gay men. I would have gone to see for myself (I still think the idea sounds fun and it could be really cool) but the last time I was in London it didn't coincide with one of the nights for the club.

I don't think there is anything wrong, they can run their club however they want and attract whomever they want, but I'm sure erections would probably be much more commonplace at Starkers than at your typical naturist club. It seems like a very different environment. (Notice 2 of the 3 web sites on the "links" section are for swingers - something no nudist club's website that I know of would do).

[Rabid_Clam]

Nudism or Naturism is absent of sexual activity in either mind or body. Starkers is sexual in both with intention. That is what it was created for and that is quite fine. But what happens there is not the demeanor for a nudist and family setting.

Back in 248 BC, Prefaberous said "When in Rome, do as the Romans do!" and his comment stands true to this day. So when at Starkers, then keep a stiff upper lip, or something like that, and when in a naturest setting, then be natural!

It has been pointed out that at resorts and all erections are not unheard of, they are rare and not 'cultured'. Nothing to worry about or be concerned about. It is the behavior behind it all that would be a concern if it is other than acceptable. Again, this would be the 'Rome' of the place and time.

[scottb75]

I don't get some of you guys. You claim to be nudists/naturists because it is natural and because it makes you feel free. Yet a simple natural bodily function in males known as an erection seems to really freak some of you out and offend you.

I myself am a closet nudist who is considering trying it out in public but some of the responses here make me wonder whether I should even bother. I'm 25 and random erections still do occur on occasions, rare yes but they happen. The thought of being on a nude beach, getting a random erection which is a natural occurance and having to dive for a towel to cover it up, or running to the ocean to me seems to defeat the purpose of naturism.

I long for the days when naturism means accepting the whole human body and all of its natural fucntions as something that should be accepted and not covered up.

[Christian]

scottb75 - I aggree with you that sometimes it shouldn't be a big deal. You may not experience too many problems when on a public beach versus a private resort. I think it is all about how you handle it.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by scottb75:
I don't get some of you guys. You claim to be nudists/naturists because it is natural and because it makes you feel free. Yet a simple natural bodily function in males known as an erection seems to really freak some of you out and offend you.

I myself am a closet nudist who is considering trying it out in public but some of the responses here make me wonder whether I should even bother. I'm 25 and random erections still do occur on occasions, rare yes but they happen. The thought of being on a nude beach, getting a random erection which is a natural occurance and having to dive for a towel to cover it up, or running to the ocean to me seems to defeat the purpose of naturism.

I long for the days when naturism means accepting the whole human body and all of its natural fucntions as something that should be accepted and not covered up. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[dan t]

I think it would be more so at the resorts, than at the beach.
But I have not been to a C/O beach yet.

[Journeyman]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by scottb75:
.. The thought of being on a nude beach, getting a random erection which is a natural occurance and having to dive for a towel to cover it up, or running to the ocean to me seems to defeat the purpose of naturism.

I long for the days when naturism means accepting the whole human body and all of its natural fucntions as something that should be accepted and not covered up. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I guess then it's OK for you to urinate a few feet away from where you're sitting on a nude beach, next to where other people might be sitting or laying down. I guess it's OK for you to break wind and ignore the discomfort of those close to you. I guess it's OK to belch loudly and continue on with your eating while those around you are grossed out. Those are all "natural functions", too, but as civilized humans and not apes, we have socialized ourselves to think of the feelings of others.

Yes, erections are normal and there's nothing wrong with them. But like other bodily functions that might occur in public, naturists prefer to keep them quiet and unassuming, so to speak.

[tinner666]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by scottb75:
I don't get some of you guys. You claim to be nudists/naturists because it is natural and because it makes you feel free. Yet a simple natural bodily function in males known as an erection seems to really freak some of you out and offend you.

I myself am a closet nudist who is considering trying it out in public but some of the responses here make me wonder whether I should even bother. I'm 25 and random erections still do occur on occasions, rare yes but they happen. The thought of being on a nude beach, getting a random erection which is a natural occurance and having to dive for a towel to cover it up, or running to the ocean to me seems to defeat the purpose of naturism.

I long for the days when naturism means accepting the whole human body and all of its natural fucntions as something that should be accepted and not covered up. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

It's not as likely to happen as you think. But relax and cover up with the towel you have handy. And not knocking you, but Journeyman put it well also. It's not something you would want to 'flaunt'. Ok http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

[DoctorSurferDude]

I havn't done a national survey or anything, BUT....

It seems to me that the people who support the free display of public erections are either 1. Male , or 2. CyndiAnn (explanatory comments deferred).

Based on that I can only speculate that perhaps there may be a secret wish ,among such individuals, to display one and/or to see one displayed.

It's not a tremendous force of nature, it can be overcome. Some are offended by it, therefore it is best to be polite and keep it to yourself. It's not hard to hide, not too difficult to cover up, and nobody has to know about it. In the event that it is an inevitability, it is best to distance yourself from crowds and from others which might take offense to such a display.
[ The previous paragraph refers to erections and farts ]

Be Polite.

[Journeyman]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
It seems to me that the people who support the free display of public erections are either 1. Male , or 2. CyndiAnn (explanatory comments deferred).
</div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I think this is either a cheap shot and unbecoming of you, who is normally so reasoned....or a misunderstanding on your part.

In any threads I've been on where Cyndiann has participated re: this type of topic, she has not been in favour of men flaunting erections on public beaches or at resorts in common areas.

Hasn't that woman taken enough bashing here -- even getting banned, for goodness sake?

[Bob S.]

Christian:"I think it is all about how you handle it."

Actually Christian, wouldn't that be how you don't handle it http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wiseguy.gif

scott:"I long for the days when naturism means accepting the whole human body and all of its natural fucntions as something that should be accepted and not covered up."

I don't think eredtions were ever seen as something that should be ignored all the time. Back in the early days, nudism was a health lifestyle and it involved exercises. Now I am sure that the occasional man/teen did get a workout erection that was ignored. And that is how it is today--if you are playing a game like volleyball , an erection may occur due to the increased blood flow. But those erections are almost always seen as normal and accepted.

The same for sleep erections. Nobody is going to get upset at you if you happen to doze off while sunbathing and get an erection.

As for the random erections, yes they are going to happen and it is up to you, the owner of the erection, to assure that it does not become a problem. And there are ways to do that that have been discussed to death.

Bob S.

[karrenlandry]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by GMiller:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Cyndiannaked:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by GMiller:
It's a non issue guys. I've never seen one at a sanctioned club; only at a nude beach. But even then, if I notice it, I look the other way.
Ginger </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Why do you look the other way? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Maybe because I equate an erection as being a sexual response and, as such, should not get any type of acknowledgement from me.
Ginger </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
We're all conditioned to think an erect penis is solely a sexual response, but as others have commented here, guys can get stiffies for many reasons that have nothing to do with sex and aren't even under one's control--air temperature, having to pee, morning wood, etc. I would look the other way because staring isn't polite and I'd hate to embarrass the poor guy. I got a taste of this one day when my husband and I were walking in a cool breeze and he pointed out that my nipples were hard--something I had no control over.

karrenlandry

[karrenlandry]

I suppose one more woman's perspective is superfluous, but you're gonna get it anyway. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/beam.gif

In my 20+ years visiting nudist resorts, I've seen one erection. I was a bit surprised, but reminded myself that it's normal and not entirely controllable. He wasn't flaunting, I didn't identify it as a weapon, and when I saw it again the next week I realized the guy had an implant. No problem. Also no problem if it was just an innocent, autonomic response of his body.

On the other hand, if anyone flaunted a stiffie in my presence, I'd have plenty to say (not complimentary!) to the owner of the penis and the manager of the club. I'd say the same things to a woman doing an obvious strut in, say, stiletto heels and a wisp of lingerie, or being overtly sexual in some other way.

Y'all have got it right: it's not what happens, it's how you deal with it.

And to those who say it's a non-issue, I beg to differ! So do six pages of responses in this forum. Until erections are completely voluntary, and maybe even then, it's an issue.

karrenlandry

[DoctorSurferDude]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Journeyman:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
It seems to me that the people who support the free display of public erections are either 1. Male , or 2. CyndiAnn (explanatory comments deferred).
</div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I think this is either a cheap shot and unbecoming of you, who is normally so reasoned....or a misunderstanding on your part.

In any threads I've been on where Cyndiann has participated re: this type of topic, she has not been in favour of men flaunting erections on public beaches or at resorts in common areas.

Hasn't that woman taken enough bashing here -- even getting banned, for goodness sake? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I think you're right, it was sort of a cheap shot I guess. Sorry.

I'm familiar with where she stands on the subject, she and I have debated this subject at great lengths in the past. I pretty much steer clear of it now, it's fruitless debate.

[Ceilican]

Well, i´m new on these.....i only be in nudist places twice and random erections were one of my main problems....a web-friend of mine that is 30 Y.O. tell me that some people still have that problem when ages (at least to his age) and that not necesarily ends when you are accostumed to being naked......

I agree with Totally with Jason Lee, and i have a question on the subjet.....if you get offended for beig stared at your breasts....why do you pay so attention to the situation of the penis of the person you are near from?...if you are not being aroused....why it is disturbing? this web-friend also tell me that sometimes an erection last more than it must just because the attention (and embarrassement) it gets,......

Sincerily, if i had to jump to the ground o go to water if i have an erection, i cannot really feel confortable naked....looking the other way seems more reasonable..OBVIOSULY if the guy if flauting or touching himsef it is another story....

I have very little experiencie on the subjet, i´m just talking teorically....perhaps when i get accostumed to be naked i will not suffer more on that...but i dunno.....i think that a guy with an erection that is acting normally would not be so censured..........

[citizenfordecency]

nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent

[EricNY]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

That is your opinion. Do you have any proof of that?

Oh and btw, I have already deleted one of your posts, that was a direct violation of the TOS here. I suggest you get familiar with them and use some caution and tact in your posts.

I would also suggest when making a comment that you base them on some facts, or your visit here will be VERY short lived. You will be watched very closely.

[Nudeinbama]

I was trying to figure out where this guy was coming from and how to reply to that non nudist statement he/she made. I'm glad you beat me to it.
nudeinbama

[BackpackerBrian]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

We must have compassion for your total ignorance.

[shomymojo]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by stephen russell:
Are they OK or not.
Many posts say OK, some say be careful.
Was at Glen eden meeting some people & got suddenley Horny & stiff erection & told by woman it was OK.
I was 48 yrs old then.
Im 50 now look 33.
Non issue?
Women please comment
Just paranoia?
Old school mindset? </div></BLOCKQUOTE> its rare...but when it does happen...from what I've seen...its usually..." no BIG deal"...LOL

[Red Baron]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

If you really believe that, why are you even on this board?

[shomymojo]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>...that is just so wrong...

[Fresh Air]

Treat it like you would with pants on....

1. If you have pants on, you don't (I hope) unzip them and let the thing hang out so that you can relieve some pressure.

2. In fact, most guys usually position it discreetly, so there is not a noticable bulge.

3. Why would you use any less discression in a nudist setting?

It is true that there is nothing wrong or unatural about it. But there is also no reason to make a bigger deal out of it than it has already made for itself.

...pun intended. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wiseguy.gif

[EricNY]

Great advice Fresh Air!!!!

You could probably add #4 the fact that it most likely will not happen anyway.

[tinner666]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Fresh Air:
Treat it like you would with pants on....

1. If you have pants on, you don't (I hope) unzip them and let the thing hang out so that you can relieve some pressure.

2. In fact, most guys usually position it discreetly, so there is not a noticable bulge.

3. Why would you use any less discression in a nudist setting?

It is true that there is nothing wrong or unatural about it. But there is also no reason to make a bigger deal out of it than it has already made for itself.

...pun intended. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wiseguy.gif </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Took me 3 readings to figure out what you had written. My mind must be completely gone, fried, wooosh, right by me. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/clown.gif

It is very good advice. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/applause.gif

[Garry]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nudeinbama:
I was trying to figure out where this guy was coming from and how to reply to that non nudist statement he/she made. I'm glad you beat me to it.
nudeinbama </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

DITTO!!

Jr.

[Jason Lee]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Nudism is non sexual. (nudist camp/club/resort)

Nudity can be sexual. (at home)

[Frodo]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by citizenfordecency:
nudism is about sex. It's male dominated. It's not decent </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I find it interesting that often people claiming to be speaking in the name of religion think that the body God gave you is perverse, indecent, and shameful. Don't scold me, scold God.

Also, it would have been interesting to read the post that was deleted and see just how blissful ignorance is. I am just greatful reading posts like this that I am not full of shame, fear or hate.

I have found that when people don't hide their bodies they don't hide their souls either.

[krcNY]

The post here was not deleted.

What was quoted is all the original poster said. This is his only post on this thread.

[Ceilican]

I´m new on this, but i have been in many forums,,,,,,,that guy only wants to disturb because he do not like nudism

Frodo, the idea about "nudism is evil" come to CHistrianity by Maniquean influence in the early Dark Ages...that´s why is so profoundly believed (because is old) and is so illogical (because it did not come from Christianism in the first time)

[Rabid_Clam]

I would be walking around naked with my wife and totally outside of sexual stimulation I would at times get semi erect. My wife would only comment that it was a compliment and would make her smile from thes vote of confidence! Good!

[ncnudlady]

Never paid any attention to notice any turgid appendages it just hasn't been on my radar screen.
I have more important things to occupy my time and mind.
Does anyone know a five letter word for letter?

[BackpackerBrian]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by ncnudlady:
Does anyone know a five letter word for letter? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Brief??

[Silverback]

Those were the good old days!

[jon71]

For ncnudelady. Is it "vowel"?

[JamieC-Ireland]

im 35 and have been frequenting Clubs and Beaches since i was 18, and have been bringing my 2 daughters for 15 years. in that time ive seen numerous erections, and only 1 has offended me. it was at a beach in Ireland and the man in question was dispatched accordingly.

all the others have been at clubs in Ireland and France.......and its OK!!!!! It happens, hands up how many men have gotten erections at inapropriate times when CLOTHED???

most men, out of embarassment, cover it, every man i know carry a cushion for sitting on and its perfect for covering. but even if you dont cover it, as long as you dont make an issue of it then i personally dont have a problem

[jason_boomer23]

ive gotten an erection on a number of occasions at clubs and beaches, and out of self-consciousness ive covered it with a towel or gone for a swim

its all about how you deal with it, the majority of people at resorts are decent people with no sick motive, so dont be embarassed, just have some respect for others around you.....and think to yourself, would i parade around with a stiffy in your jeans when you are at work???

if the answer is no then why do it nude, and if the answer is yes then you shouldnt be at the resort!

[sportkid]

i think it is natural and shouldn't be offensive. unless you are doing rude actions, etc... shoot, i am still goin through my puberty and high horomone(misspelled?) era and i get an erection, and i get an erection in math class doin study sheets.i get it at least 8 times a day. how am i suppose to be relaxed at a camp or beach, if i have to worry about someone thinking i am rude or distasteful, If i could stop an erection, trust me i would have gotten out alot of embarrassing situations. I thougth that nudism is freedom and connection with others and not about sex, like the media likes to express. It seems that some people are being a hypocrit because they believe that an erection is bad and means someone is thinking about sex. it is in different situations but still the same idea that close minded people thinking being nude is bad and about sex.
that is my 10 cents

[NakedGary]

i think it is natural and shouldn't be offensive.
Interesting, no one has posted to this topic thread for over three years since May 18th, 2003.

Most other nudists in public social nude recreation venues would not take offense over a natural temporary non-sexual erection if you didn’t flaunt it and just sat down, covered your self, or went into the water.

In a textile situation as you mention in class I don’t think you would offend many, [maybe a couple of giggles or smiles] only embarrass yourself only if you were asked to come to the front of the class for something and had visual notice or outline of an erection showing through your clothing. Otherwise you could just place a book or piece of paper over you pants while sitting, or excused yourself until it subsided.
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[David77]

Sportkid,
You make a really sensible statement!

[sportkid]

lol i just saw the date. I was trying to find a post about erections, cuz that was really the only thing that worried me, cuz for the most part I usually have no controll over it. My friend and I go skinny dippin and camp in the woods nude sometime and we have popped a couple before but didn't really think about it. I know it wouldnt offend me, if someone got an erection, unless they were being rude or something about it.

[NakedGary]

sportkid

Being a new member you probably havent come across the CFF Forums Search Engine page button or hyperlink at the top of most forums pages or clicking this direct link:

Link to CFF Search Engine Page (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/ubb.x/search)

An entry of "erections" in the top search window and selecting "[sort] Order by Date" near the bottom will give you these results: 33 pages of 20 posts each mentioning "erections" since February 19th, 2002 :

Link to CFF Forums Search for "erections" mentioned in all forums posts [Results]. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums?a=search&sortType=1&groupType=1&reqWords=erections&forumOID=all&exactAuthor=Y&authorOID=&ptyp_msg=Y&ptyp_poll=Y&ptyp_album=Y&x_display_post_details=1&p=33)

Nudist Explorer is another very usuful tool in finding Nudist links, and facilities only listing non-sexual family nudist sites and pages.

Direct link to CFI/CFF "Nudist Explorer" The Nudist Search Engine. (http://www.nudistexplorer.com/index.html)

Use and learn these Search tools - They are fast, and you can find information, links, or locations most any place in the world almost instantly.

Enjoy

[johny]

Look into the
http://e-stends.lv/indexen.php?mod=mod8_6_06_17

There is a short video about theme You are interested (in the sauna).

Hope it will help to realize erection-fobia isnt worth to aware too much.

[jon71]

With all respect we need a f.a.q. page.

[NakedGary]

jon71

There is a FAQ forum and page in "General Forums" named just that.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
This area is for questions and topics that frequently appear in naturist discussions, including erections, body piercing & jewelry, shaving, general etiquette, etc.

re:

Link to - CFF General Forums "Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) page. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/frm/f/1680074143)

It hasn't been used much if at all. I believe the topic was intended to post Hyperlinks or search results links on frequently asked questions to very large posts to topic/threads that were closed, locked, or went on for 10's to over 50 pages such as mentioned above in the Forum Introduction, Plus "Circumcision" "nudity and religon" and others.
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[NakedGary]

johny

Your link is a very comical and funny collection of commercials and ads, although there was no erection it has one fooled until the climax.

Why don’t you post that in "General Forums", "Fun and Humor" also, as it has ads not dealing with naturism, but funny general commercials and ads; and the forum would enjoy seeing the link/video.

Thanks for your input and Video/Link.

[shãybare]

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/cool4.gif
Those commercials are a real hoot. Still laughing.

[nacktman]

what happens when men get erections?

Evidently old thread spring back up! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wink3.gif

*************

Those commercials are FUNNY.

[jon71]

I hadn't noticed the f.a.q. page before. Normally when a site has one it just lists questions and their answers and isn't done in a forum style. I wonder how this will work. Thanks for pointing it out though.

[philnat]

Women like men to have erections all the time in the bedroom and never at the beach...

[Fuzzy Nuts]

at my age its still nice to have the odd unexpected erection!!!!

[Fuzzy Nuts]

Its nice at my age having the unexpected erection arise!!!!

[nekkidskier]

I remember years ago being at a beach at Evergreen State Collage and there was a guy laying on his back with an erection. A couple of the gals there were a tad bit offended because he was very obvious. I remember the date (June 15) because of one of the comments made by one of the female regulars- "Somebody should tell him that Flag Day was yesterday!"

[earthpassenger(Kevin)]

I've never been to a nudist camp. I remember once being at Baker Beach on a crowded day. There was a group of a couple women and a couple men next to me. An unusually well-endowed guy happened to be standing about thirty feet away from where we were and he had developed an unusually big erection. One of my male beach neighbors commented--"He's sure pronounced!" The women didn't say anything. Shortly afterward, one of them gave her much less well endowed friend's penis an affectionate flick.

Peace,
Kevin

[fre2bnude]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by hairyballs:
at my age its still nice to have the odd unexpected erection!!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Yep, I know what you mean and agree. I seem to have to work a bit harder for them nowadays, they always happened too easily when I was young, now I make the most of them.

[Pac1]

I did a nude fun run after my friend told me it was not painfull to run nude, but to my embarrament I had an erction about a mile in to it, I was not feeling aroused in any way, but I only had my running shoes and nothing to hide it with, I had some funny looks, so I decided to fake cramps sit for a bit and walk the rest of the way.
I have hiked and biked nude many times without this happening....Strange how our bodies work!

[Matt King]

I really don't care unless someone is shaking it at me and yes I have seen that. Sometime erections happen. The ones not planned seem to go as fast as they arrive. We were playing volleyball and I did notice almost all they guys got one at one point or another. Nothing sexual just all that jumping around I guess.

[Big-Thinker]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Pac1:
I had some funny looks, so I decided to fake cramps sit for a bit and walk the rest of the way. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I also haved "faked" having to tie my shoe, to buy some time and think of something disgusting or stressful. In a healthy male, erections are going to happen, often for no reason at all. All you can do is try to make it as inconspicuous as possible and make it go away as fast as you can.

[Wiggle It]

Hey, let's be careful, guys.....
all this talk about <span class="ev_code_BLUE">unwanted</span> erections is depressing the value of Viagra stock! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/beam.gif

[Fuzzy Nuts]

Reminds me of when I was in high school and the damn thing popped up whenever and for no obvious reason - OH FOR THE GOOD OLD DAYS!!!

[Liam]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by hairyballs:
Its nice at my age having the unexpected erection arise!!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I know what you mean Mr. Balls! I can't even see mine under my belly when I am standing. They are so infrequent now tht I really enjoy the novelty!

In any case, I love a good erection anytime no matter whose it is or where it occurs!

Liam, the limp.

[Boomhousedriver]

I usually avoid this topic but I have had erections in nude settings many tmes, so it does happen. Mostly, however, at nude beaches. I just went back to my spot and cooled out until it passed. It was not an issue and noone seemed offended.

a quick beach story: I was lying in the sun at a nude beach relaxing when I sensed someone approaching. I opened my eys and two clothed young women were appoaching. As they approached it was very obvious that they were checking me out and were looking at my package. At that moment, I quickly became fully erect. t was an involuntary reflex, but I satisfied their voyeuristic walk.

[nudebushwalker]

I'm quite happy being erect, when noboby seems to mind ...
but if in a situation where it seems somebody nearby might find it offensive (like on some - but not all - of the more populated public beaches, which I generally tend to avoid anyway..), it's always very easy to simply roll over until it goes down ..
I have had the occasional, though relatively rare, erection when modelling for Art classes and Art groups, and nobody seems to mind there, either .
And like other contributors above, I've never had any complaints from the ladies...

[CCNude]

Good job, Boomhousedriver! You sure know how to compliment the ladies!

[RCH44]

I agree with you. Errections happen. When I am at the beach I get them all the time. I just go into the water and cool off.


<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nude in the North:
Here's a Mans input.

If for some reason you get an erection while nude you don't need to be ashamed.
If you are getting your Jollies by making sure everyone sees it. You need to be REMOVED.

Steve </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[Enjoying life]

They do happen, and one should not be ashamed of it. It really is natural for men, and happens wheather we like or not. If you are a real nudist then it is OK when it happens, and they will go as quickly as they came. I find no offence in someone getting one, as long as they don't exploit it.

[bnudes]

they definalty happen,, but ive not been to a nude resort yet and if it would happen to me there id be ssooooo embarrased.

[RCH44]

don't be embarrased. It happens and it has happed to me lots of times. You have nothing to be embarrased of.

Ralph



<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Enjoying life:
They do happen, and one should not be ashamed of it. It really is natural for men, and happens wheather we like or not. If you are a real nudist then it is OK when it happens, and they will go as quickly as they came. I find no offence in someone getting one, as long as they don't exploit it. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[Fuzzy Nuts]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by RCH44:
don't be embarrased. It happens and it has happed to me lots of times. Like the other Men have said in this wedsite as fast it it arrives it goes away as quikly as it comes. Be proud of who you are and most importanly you have nothing to be embarrased of.

Please edit your posts! - Sorry just the teacher in me coming out.

Ralph



<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Enjoying life:
They do happen, and one should not be ashamed of it. It really is natural for men, and happens wheather we like or not. If you are a real nudist then it is OK when it happens, and they will go as quickly as they came. I find no offence in someone getting one, as long as they don't exploit it. </div></BLOCKQUOTE> </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[barefoot0]

I hope people are still reading this thread.

When I first met my wife we were taking a class together and she confessed to me later that she would somtimes get horny in class thinking about me even though we were not dating at that point. The class was just on philosophy and was about as no sexual as you could get but sometimes that kind of stuff just happens.

I would like to think that if I was single and being nude was a big part of my life and met someone at an event that I was atracted to and happen to get a little hot that I would not have to excuse myself and go run for cover if we were having a good chat.

To me it just seems like if you get hot you get hot and while it is creepy to go somewhere just to watch nude people it should be acceptable from time to time like any ordinary person your body might want to salute.

It really bothers me that so many women think that it is something you have direct control over. If a woman gets pointy boobs you dont see her go running for cover. But for a man it is just one step away from being a child mollester.

We dont complain about woman walking around in clothed society whith push up braws and low cut dresses. This is a decision to flaunt their boobs but nobody complains.

I guess this has kind of become a rant on my part. sorry for that. It just gets me pissed off.

When I go nude it is always because I want to be free. It is because sometimes I just feel like society is crazy and I just want to rip off my clothes and run through the woods or swim in the ocean. It is becaused I dont want to be judged. Having to worry about being dragged out by security because some girl was offended by an erect penis would ruin that for me. It is part of why I decided I never want to go to a nudist club. For me the only way to do it is with close friends who I know are rational or when backwoods camping.

sorry for the rant,
barefoot zero

I am not really a nudist but my close friends and wife and I like hot tubbing together in the nude. Whenever someone new is invited and is squeemish we just tell them "fair is fair".

[Matt King]

Recently I was in a meeting. Nothing sexual about it and everyone was fully dressed in professional clothing. For no reason I got an errection. Nobody could tell as I was sitting wearing a suit. I actually had to rearrange myself before I could stand but sitting as I was at a table nobody was the wiser. I had to stand up and give a speech. I was wearing suit and tie and nobody could tell that I was errect when I got up to speak. I was terrified that anyone could tell. It went down as I talked thankfully. Sometimes it just happens. It this had been a nude event I would have been so embrassed.

[Pete Knight]

At a naturist swim recently I was chatting to a lady who I find attractive, and I think she feels the same way about me, anyway the sexual tension was more than my constant companion could take, so he started to come up for a look, luckily I was carrying my towel so was able to cover my embaressment. This had to happen whilst we were gathered for a coffee break and I was surrounded by people, but I don't think anyone noticed, and if they did they were either to polite to mention it, or it didn't bother them.

Pete Knight

[K and C]

I think it is normal. And I dont think anything of it but do cover up. Off-subject Fuzzy why are you always so critical of other people post as far as spelling and what not? I mean as long as people get their point across it shouldn't matter. You mis-spelled Proud in the post just before this one and no one is correcting you because we know what you meant. None of my business just seems rude to me. Thanks

[Liam]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Christy and Kevin:
Off-subject Fuzzy why are you always so critical of other people post (....) </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

That should be post(s). Why would you think that your post is not rude? Watch yer punkteration too....you missed one even in this brief clip.

[Fuzzy Nuts]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Christy and Kevin:
I think it is normal. And I dont think anything of it but do cover up. Off-subject Fuzzy why are you always so critical of other people post as far as spelling and what not? I mean as long as people get their point across it shouldn't matter. You mis-spelled Proud in the post just before this one and no one is correcting you because we know what you meant. None of my business just seems rude to me. Thanks </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Sorry if I came across as rude - I guess it is just the school teacher in me. Seems I spent thirty some years correcting grammar and spelling mistakes and now can't learn to ignore it. I know I make a lot of mistakes but I think it is due to my poor typing skills. I do try to edit my own posts but sometimes I make mistakes and the one you pointed out I have now corrected. But I will try to be not as critical in the future.

[K and C]

Fuzzy That is no problem at all. I know we are far from perfect. I can understand the school teacher aspect. I was not trying to be rude myself Just wanted to know why so critical. Now I know why After being a teacher so long it would be hard to ignore. Thanks for the reply

[CCNude]

As I've suggested before on this and other subjects, I think everybody ought to just Lighten Up.

[Liam]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Christy and Kevin:
Fuzzy That is no problem at all. I know we are far from perfect. I can understand the school teacher aspect. I was not trying to be rude myself Just wanted to know why so critical. Now I know why After being a teacher so long it would be hard to ignore. Thanks for the reply </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Nicely said. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif I therefore withdraw my defense of my friend Mr. Nuts. And we lived happily ever after. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/yes.gif

[K and C]

Thanks, Wasnt trying to be rude sometimes I come off that way. Thanks for understanding

[Fuzzy Nuts]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">
posted by Liam:


http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif I therefore withdraw my defense of my friend Mr. Nuts. And we lived happily ever after. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/yes.gif </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

But I suppose you still expect to be Paid!!!

[Liam]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Fuzzy Nuts:
But I suppose you still expect to be Paid!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Of course. The usual rate.

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/smoking.gif

[alt76]

At times my penis easily erected so I think it's normal. Whenever I was nude in the house, my penis always erected for the short period but gets back to normal afterwards. My wife didn't mind seeing it, she just don't really care.

[RCH44]

It happens too me as well. When I first take off my clothes at the beach I get an errection. Same at home. I think it's normal.


<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by alt76:
At times my penis easily erected so I think it's normal. Whenever I was nude in the house, my penis always erected for the short period but gets back to normal afterwards. My wife didn't mind seeing it, she just don't really care. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[RCH44]

It happens to me as well. When I first take off my clothes at the beach I get an errection. It's normal.


<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by alt76:
At times my penis easily erected so I think it's normal. Whenever I was nude in the house, my penis always erected for the short period but gets back to normal afterwards. My wife didn't mind seeing it, she just don't really care. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[bnudes]

I think it will happen to me to but I wont know for sure till it happens i guess. I just hope im not completely embarrassed if it does and no one makes a big deal out of it

[CCNude]

Anticipation, Bnudes, is your biggest problem. If you just go out there and be natural, you'll probably be just fine. But just in case, carry a towel.

[shãybare]

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/cool4.gif
If you get an erection at a resort, all the women at the resort line up to take turns to make mad passionate love with you until you scream for mercy. No, wait... that was just last nights dream!

[Jim M]

Originally posted by shãybare:
http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/cool4.gif
If you get an erection at a resort, all the women at the resort line up to take turns to make mad passionate love with you until you scream for mercy. No, wait... that was just last nights dream!

Nice Dream lol http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/applause.gif

[Fuzzy Nuts]

Would be nice to be that age again where erections popping up were a constant problem.
Fortunately or unfortunately the unexpected erection is now considered a pleasure not an embarassment.

[fre2bnude]

Originally posted by Fuzzy Nuts:
Would be nice to be that age again where erections popping up were a constant problem.
Fortunately or unfortunately the unexpected erection is now considered a pleasure not an embarassment.

I second that!

[nakedjohn]

Erections go away after a while, so only a problem for a short time.

[Nudony]

If you get an erection at a resort, all the women at the resort line up to take turns to make mad passionate love with you until you scream for mercy. No, wait... that was just last nights dream!

You could also use an erection to carry your towel, or a bag. I wonder why no one ever brings up the potential practical uses of an erection? http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/goofy.gif LOL!!

[Lilwilly]

Back when I had them I used to bring donuts for my friends.lol

[CCNude]

Also, it's something convenient to hang your beach towel on.

[Fuzzy Nuts]

How about a game of ring-toss on the beach?

[Pete Knight]

Don't anyone suggest horse shoes PLEASE! ! !

Pete

[kphoger]

i'm remembering the scene from "the cowboy way" wherein the main character is playing nude hide-and-seek with his lover. he comes outside with his hat in front of his penis, and at one point lets go of it with both hands yet it stays at his middle.

let's add another connotation to the original question: what reaction do people ACTUALLY have when a man gets an erection. we can all discuss how they should or should not react, but what happens in reality?

[EricNY]

I honestly do not understand what all the fuss is. I have been a naturist for a long time and have never just spung up for no reason. I have been to naturist venues and have never seen anyone with an erection.

I honestly beleive that some people just like talking about them. Anyone that has been out and about knows it doesn't happen

[PascoDoug]

Originally posted by kphoger:
let's add another connotation to the original question: what reaction do people ACTUALLY have when a man gets an erection. we can all discuss how they should or should not react, but what happens in reality?


What happens in reality?

Hmm well lesse.. blood flow to the penis increases while blood leaving the penis is restricted.

Nuff said.

[NakedGary]

kphoger

ACTUALLY have when a man gets an erection. We can all discuss how they should or should not react, but what happens in reality?

If your a young adult, surly you should know what happen when you or any male gets an erection.

Go to Wikipedia web dictionary main page and type in "erection" in the search window for a complete description on when, and what happens when a male gets an erection in technical terms most already know or have experienced.

Link to Wikipedia Web Dictionary Main Page (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page)

Erections at nude social venues are a very rare occurrence, and almost 900 posts on the subject may be found since 2002 in past posts by typing "erection" in the forums search engine with 43 pages of 20 posts each = 860 posts.

Link to CFF Forums Search Page. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/ubb.x/search)

Link to Previous 860 posts on "Erection" in the forums. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums?a=search&reqWords=erection&exactPhrase=&optWords=&notWords=&f=all&subjectOnly=N&afterDate=&beforeDate=&authorName=&exactAuthor=Y&sortType=1&ptyp_poll=Y&ptyp_album=Y&ptyp_msg=Y&ptyp_count=3&x_display_post_details=1&groupType=1&search=Search)

This particular topic/thread will be closed to further posting but readable as the other 860 posts are on the subject.

[kphoger]

no, no, i didn't mean what physically happens to the penis. i meant what actually happens in the real world as people react.

[tiger79]

Originally posted by kphoger:
i meant what actually happens in the real world as people react. It's no big thing (as my wife has said!) http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/shocked.gif

[NakedGary]

kphoger

It’s such a rare occurrence you might have to wait years to find out yourself. I’ve only seen two indecencies of what I would call semi or almost full erections in twenty years of social nude venues. One being a young couple on a 1st tour and visit for the day at the main pool deck, the other a teenaged boy and girl taking a shower together in a outdoor shower between the women’s and men’s bathroom at the same resort during busy periods. Neither flaunted their erection so nothing was said or done as is the case at most resorts.

By reading the link to 860 posts on erections, you will find out what peoples reaction or thoughts are on the occasional but rare experience of seeing an erection at a social public nude venue. I understand that this occurrence is more common and flaunting such on free or public nude beaches does occur infrequently but more so than on private nudist resorts, probably by non nudist and naturists.
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[Red Baron]

Originally posted by NakedGary:
kphoger

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">ACTUALLY have when a man gets an erection. We can all discuss how they should or should not react, but what happens in reality?

If your a young adult, surly you should know what happen when you or any male gets an erection.

Go to Wikipedia web dictionary main page and type in "erection" in the search window for a complete description on when, and what happens when a male gets an erection in technical terms most already know or have experienced.

Link to Wikipedia Web Dictionary Main Page (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page)

Erections at nude social venues are a very rare occurrence, and almost 900 posts on the subject may be found since 2002 in past posts by typing "erection" in the forums search engine with 43 pages of 20 posts each = 860 posts.

Link to CFF Forums Search Page. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/ubb.x/search)

Link to Previous 860 posts on "Erection" in the forums. (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums?a=search&reqWords=erection&exactPhrase=&optWords=&notWords=&f=all&subjectOnly=N&afterDate=&beforeDate=&authorName=&exactAuthor=Y&sortType=1&ptyp_poll=Y&ptyp_album=Y&ptyp_msg=Y&ptyp_count=3&x_display_post_details=1&groupType=1&search=Search)

This particular topic/thread will be closed to further posting but readable as the other 860 posts are on the subject. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>


Right on Naked Gary. Like many others here, I cannot honestly say that I have ever seen an erection in a social nudity setting. It is simply not an issue. The topic is way over done and I salute you for closing it down (although I am sure some clever person will find a way to resurrect it -- oops, no pun intended http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wink3.gif)

[kphoger]

It's no big thing (as my wife has said!)
was that a joke? or am i the only one who saw the humor in it?

[NudeAl]

Originally posted by kphoger:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content"> It's no big thing (as my wife has said!)
was that a joke? or am i the only one who saw the humor in it? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

A little one

[tiger79]

Originally posted by kphoger:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content"> It's no big thing (as my wife has said!)
was that a joke? or am i the only one who saw the humor in it? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>Yes, a joke, not a very good one. Sadly, humour is remarkably absent from these forums. Religion seems quite popular though...

[Fuzzy Nuts]

sorry tiger thought you were serious - didnt realize you were joking. Guess we shall see at Sorobon!!!!

[tiger79]

Ah, Mr Nuts, you'll have heard the phrase "many a true word spoken in jest".

[johny]

The straigh answer on a question WhatHappensWhen... is - just the nitric oxidule is produced a drop, and really soon it is evaporated, so erection calms down. I have never seen a man with day-and-night-and-day-and-night long erection. Never.

[NakedGary]

It is a known medical fact that if one has an erection four hours or more it's considered a medical emergency to call your doctor and get to an emergency room at a hospital where they can prevent permanent damage and possible loss of future erectile function.

A doctors comment on the condition:

Hate to bring reality into this thread but if a man sustains an erection for over 4 hours for any reason, pills incuded, it's usually can only be relieved medically. Apparently, because the blood can't flow back out of the organ it causes a great deal of pain.

The treatment for this condition called priaprism typically involves draining blood from the erection via needle aspiration. I've seen it done quite a few times in my medical career and that is probably the only procedure that makes me queasy.
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[orange]

i think it depends.. cauz sometimes you can just get an erection for no reason whatsoever.. like i could be sitting in math class and get one when I lest expect it. theres a difference between getting an erection and actually being aroused..if a guy is acting sketchy then thats one thing but 9/10 the erection is prolly an accident

[NorthVanNudist]

The topic of erections in a nudist environment never seems to go away. Yes, men do have erections when they are naked, either alone or with others... and I believe people should treat it as the natural situation it is. I don't think its sexual necessarily, but perhaps more due to the pleasant feelings of being naked, the breeze, etc. Like others here, I have experienced erections when first taking off my clothes outside, but I don't make a big deal about wrapping up in a towel, etc. I just sit down and generally keep things out of sight until it subsides. Just don't call attention to it. I have seen several men with erections at our nude beach and many many more with partial erections who don't make a big deal about it and nobody seems to care. Its just not the end of the world. It seems to have more to do with the person's attitude and whether or not they are trying to call attention to it or ignore it. Many times when nude hiking by myself, I will find myself with an erection, either on first disrobing or at some point during my day's hike. Since there's nobody around, I just carry on and don't worry about it. Nobody around to upset, so its just another pleasant sensation like nudity itself. Common sense in all things.

[luv2bnude]

I've been a nudist for about 18 yrs. now. Not once have I ever seen anyone w/ an erection, or have ever had one myself while at nude beaches or resorts. So what we're talking about is something that's a very rare occurence at best.

Yes, guys get erections for many reasons. The difference lies in what that person decides to do with it. Parading it around & flaunting it is not the right thing to do & yes, can be very offensive.

But if I was at a resort & happened to get aroused, I'd simply position myself as to not draw attention to it, or just go in the water. If a woman happened to notice & commented about it in a joking manner, I wouldn't be offended. In fact, I'd probably take it as a compliment that she even noticed at all. But I'd hope that I wouldn't be kicked out of the place for a basic natural bodily function.

[Sweaty]

This question always bugs me because it seems to me to assume a connection between nudity and sexual arrousal. Society teaches us that, but for anyone who simply enjoys being nude that connection fades fast. I started going to nude beaches at 16 and, at first, I was erect constantly but by the end of that first day I had it under control; I knew how to manage it. You can roll on to your stomach, you can jump into the water, you can drop a towel or tshirt over yourself. Sure random erections happen but to any real male nudist, it's relatively easy to deal with 99.9% of the time. I think the real interest in this question is for people who find being nude sexually exciting. Which for me isn't really a nudist.

[gideon]

Before marriage I was an active club nudist in UK,after marriage had to give it up as wife does not approve of nudity. However, regarding erections, in all the years I was a member, erections were rare, but some did happen as do happen even when clothed, it is natural. I know this thread is about male arousal but I have noted that women and young girls get aroused as well yet nothing has been said about this.

[hikingman]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sweaty:
This question always bugs me because it seems to me to assume a connection between nudity and sexual arrousal. Society teaches us that, but for anyone who simply enjoys being nude that connection fades fast.

Sweaty : Ditto, I agree with your post.

[gymnoboi]

The question never goes away because there are new people coming into the lifestyle that are fearful or just want to know whats ok and not ok. Long time nudist here (pre internet) and I had to rely on printed info from the old ASA. At the gate I almost back out just over this one fear. I don't mind responding in the least if it can relieve some of the concern over what is to be expected

[Rabid_Clam]

I have visited nude beaches on Marthas Vinyard and also at Narrgansett bay near Point Judith and at each place have seen erections. No one seems to pay much attention to them as the owner does not 'handle' it. Is just part of the male thing and most natural. Personally I find an erection normal and think a male with one looks fine.

[Fire]

I'm kinda new to naturism but it's easy for me to see that I'm about the only one walking around with an erection all the time. I'm happy with the erection, but I see a lot of people looking at it and it's kind of embarassing. Any ideas?

[Fire]

I'm kinda new to naturism but it's easy for me to see that I'm about the only one walking around with an erection all the time. I'm happy with the erection, but I see a lot of people looking at it and it's kind of embarassing. Any ideas?

[Journeyman]

The only solution, quite clearly is to chop it off. It's dangerous to have an erection "all the time" anyway... http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/clown.gif

Seriously, though, you are kidding, right? If not, you're an exhibitionist and not a naturist, and people are looking at you knowing exactly that.

[Naturist Mark]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">The only solution, quite clearly is to chop it off. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Be a man.

Set it free.

------------------

If by any chance you are serious ... you have nothing to be happy about. An occasional erection is nothing to fret about, just be discrete. Walking around and proudly showing it is offensive - naturism is not a sexual activity, but exhibitionism is.

Most beach exhibitionists have to work very hard to maintain their erections. I've never heard of anyone who was erect all the time. You may be unique among all of humanity.

-Mark

[NakedGary]

Fire

If you experience an erection anywhere near 4 hours call "911" or get to your nearest hospital [ER] emergency room or permanent penile organ damage will occur and you could end up with permanent erectile dysfunction.

If you’re taking erectile dysfunction drugs all the manufactures warn you exactly as above.

Flaunting an erection has no place in social nude recreation venues.

Fire, If you plan to flaunt or display an erection at any U.S. sanction resorts in the U.S., San Diego, or Southern California as you mention being in San Diego area in July; You will be asked to leave and not come back, and could be put on a do not admit list for all AANR sanctioned resorts]

Link to "Fire's Post" July - San Diego (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/3600016152/m/9190079974?r=9190079974#9190079974)

[Zorro]

I believe such a problem is called "priapism," and it can be dangerous if left untreated. Check this out: http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1133.html

[gamblefish]

I told some of my female co-workers about your post and they want you to call them right away at 555-555-5555.

They said to tell you they have lots of money.

[Florida Cracker]

Journeyman and Naturist Mark, you hit the nail on the head, this is unlikely to be a serious post. You guys have me rolling on the floor laughing again! And gamblefish, that's a wicked looking avatar!
Florida Cracker

[krcNY]

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/rolleyes2.gif

[nudeM]

The only embarassament you will receive is when you are tapped on the shoulder and asked to either cover up or leave. True, erections are one thing, but displaying them in public is another, one that is not advised. An innocent one can happen at any time, but it is the way they are handled (or not)[no pun intended]). http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/smoking.gif

[Fire]

Thanks for the comments. Of course, the erection is not constant. It just keeps popping up like it has a mind of its own. And I did carry the towell, and everybody knows what that means when you're holding it in front of you. LOL. I found the thread in another part of the forum and agree a hundred percent. I'll probably be all right with more "exposure", but these erections do make me reluctant to go back out. In the mean time, its in the water or under the towel ... and thanks for your support. Thanks for not thinking that I'm to wierd.

[walter05]

Fire;

I have a post of my first experience at a nude beach. http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/1600016...070023454#6070023454 (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/1600016152/m/9170025354?r=6070023454#6070023454)

In it, I state that I expected and had an erection when I first went to the beach. It did not last much time however.

The second time I went to the nude beach, it was not erect for as much time as the first.

This is the young naturist section. I am assuming if you posted here that you are young. That means you have a young penis and young penises get erect more often and for longer periods of time than older ones.

My opinion is a minority opinion here. But others do share it. If it is okay for you to expose your penis, sometimes it will be erect and that is okay also. If a resort has a problem with this, I would avoid the resort.

The issue is not the appearing and disappearing erections. It is what you are doing when you have them.

If you are ogling women or doing things that are aggressive, that is a problem made more so with a naked erect penis.

If you are prancing and posing to call attention to any body part that is a problem made more so with a naked erect penis.

However, if your penis gets erect, you ignore it, and it goes away, that seems okay to me. Most people know the difference between natural reflex and rude.

[Fire]

thanks for the narrative ... maybe i'll get the hang of this, but right now I feel like a pop up ad that sneaked past the google filter.... http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif...I'll just go practice.

[BlobbyBob]

I haven't been nude in a social environment outside of the changing room at the pool, but at home if I'm nude and find myself starting to get erect I just look down at my penis and just sort of control it, I think to myself 'down, down, down' and try to relax it to stop the blood pumping in, and it works, in a few seconds it is totally flaccid again. Not hard (pun intended :P) to do lol

[nudenwv]

i think if you divert your mind away from it the erection will go away. try not to draw attention to it or keep thoughts of having one on your mind. try sitting in a chair with a towel over it til it goes down.

[fre2bnude]

The older I get the happier I am to get an erection!! I think they look just fine, in the right place.

[fre2bnude]

Well I can remember getting all those embarrassing erections when I was a LOT younger, without being nude on a beach, they would just happen anytime. Now I'm older they don't happen enough! But, that's life.

I suspect that Fires problem is that he's full of hormones as he's posted in the Young Naturists section.

[walter05]

fire;

I sent you a private message. If you think I am more sympathetic, just go ahead and respond. I will not make you feel embarrassed.

If I lack the answers you need, I will ask those that do have the answers.

[RCH44]

Erections are normal. Nothing to be ashame of.

Be proud and be nude.

Ralph


<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Fire:
I'm kinda new to naturism but it's easy for me to see that I'm about the only one walking around with an erection all the time. I'm happy with the erection, but I see a lot of people looking at it and it's kind of embarassing. Any ideas? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[Naturist Mark]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Erections are normal. Nothing to be ashame of.

Be proud and be nude. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

But please resist the urge to show your pride.

[jo.more]

I'm 45 and have been to a few nude beaches,sometimes I do get an erection and I will try to hide it to a point(never Flunt it)but if I draped a towel around me everytime or got in the water everytime,I Might as well keep my clothed on.I'll still get erections but you won't know it.Getting one is natural,it's going to happen,for those that claim they never get one...well they are the ones that proabably have to take a pill to get one.I't a very natural thing,as long as you are not handling it and flaunting it around.It will go away and might come and go,It happens

[Rabid_Clam]

I do computer repair and was called to a gentleman's home to install software. When I got there he opened the door a crack announcing he was nude. I stated that that was ok and i didn't care and he let me in a bit hesitatingly.

He was naked and I just went to work as usual. He came back in a bit and had a full erection. He looked perfect and was not doing anything to cause that. Just happened I guess but he looked quite fine.

Is just part of being a male I guess !

[Michail]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Fire:
I'm kinda new to naturism but it's easy for me to see that I'm about the only one walking around with an erection all the time. I'm happy with the erection, but I see a lot of people looking at it and it's kind of embarassing. Any ideas? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
Just don't worry about it too much, Fire.
Once you've experienced it a couple of times,
you'll relax and you'll be ok. It happens to all of us (males) from time to time, and the less you worry about it, the sooner you'll get over it; you'll be alright.

[boganguy]

Don't worry Fire. It is natural. But don't make others feel awkward by 'flaunting it'. It isn't a sexual environment, It is purly exhabisionism

[nakedjohn]

Erections are natural, just try to control them. After a couple of times, you will manage to keep it down and there will be no problem anymore.

[Bobx23456]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by RCH44:
Erections are normal. Nothing to be ashame of.

Be proud and be nude.

Ralph </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Exactly Ralph. "Body Acceptance" has been the admoniton of nudism for a century, and erect men are NORMAL male bodies. Men are acceptable in public nudist areas and should not be made to feel ashamed or have to hide our genitals. Men can not control erections one way or the other. They are not controlled by consious command like moving your hand is. If a man's body responds to some sensual feeling of air movement or a view of naked females that is how men's bodies work. Shaming men for beng men is rude and sexist, in my opinion. Men should not be ashamed, should not have to "grab a towel" or run and hide.

Be proud to be a man, and remember that a man's body is just as much "body acceptnace" as anyone elses.

Blessings

Bob

[Bobx23456]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by nudeM:
The only embarassament you will receive is when you are tapped on the shoulder and asked to either cover up or leave. True, erections are one thing, but displaying them in public is another, one that is not advised. An innocent one can happen at any time, but it is the way they are handled (or not)[no pun intended]). </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Rant: If I was tapped on the shoulder and asked to cover up or leave I would react with anger rather than embarassment. "Body Acceptance" has been the mantra of social nudism for a really long while. But some still think that men should be embarrased and shamed, or asked to leave because of our male bodies. That misandrist attitude is the antithisis of "body acceptance" in my opinion. It says that bodies are acceptable except male bodies are not. Its sexist and offensive. An erect man is no more offensive and no less acceptable than a woman with erect nipples. Men need to demand body acceptance for men, and refuse to be treated as some kind of unacceptable offensive creatures who have to cover our genitals or run hide. End of rant.

Blessings

Bob

[johny]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Fire: I'm about the only one walking around with an erection all the time. I'm happy with the erection, but I see a lot of people looking at it and it's kind of embarrassing. Any ideas? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
Oh dear. When I was 11 I got the same. Even dressed properly. Be sure after some dozen of years you will be HAPPY to have like that. While try to calmly thing about PROPER things and your hard-on will go away by it`s own will.

[Naturist Mark]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Bobx23456:
Rant: If I was tapped on the shoulder and asked to cover up or leave I would react with anger rather than embarassment. "Body Acceptance" has been the mantra of social nudism for a really long while. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Then you are probably emotionally too fragile to visit naturist venues. People WILL be offended by an adult who flaunts an erection when he could easily show discretion. They will make allowances for a kid and especially an adolescent, but a grown man will get nowhere whining about body acceptance.

I'm not saying it is fair or right. Just is.

-Mark

[MoonShadow]

Hi, I am new here! And this is my first post.

I have been reading this thread and find it interesting that anyone find a man with an occasional erection at a nudist function, facility, or activity, offensive. And as is proper etiquette, a man with an erection does have discreet ways to cover his erection.

Bobx, with all due respect, I do not find the expression, "be proud to be a man" has anything to do with whether or not he has an erection. Just be proud of who you are....man or woman.

Further, someone who taps you on your shoulder about your erection is not being rude or sexist; they are simply relaying what is generally observed at nude venues. And yes, an erection is much different than erect nipples. Temperature changes can cause both men's and women's nipples to be erect. A chill or a hot flash if you are an older woman in menopause.

You will find at nudist's gatherings that most will not be offended of the occasional erection. And no one would shame a man who does.

Sher

[Michjoe]

Haven't seen this topic for a while although it does seem to pop up every now and then!

[bigjohn45]

Originally posted by Krepta3000:
Well, I'm just appalled by this opinion that so many people share. Really. I just don't understand it. Why would an errection be offensive, I just don't understand. How can a simple errection be concidered rude, crude, or lude? This whole thing might turn me off to public nudity before it can even start. Man, this is really upsetting me a lot. I think I'll just stay off this topic from now on. Jeeze.

The human male experiences an average number of uncontrolled errections, I don't remember the number, per day. They can be caused by many things that have nothing to do with sexual attraction or sexual desire or sexual activity of any kind. One thing that causes it in ME is the need to urinate, rather badly. So, if for some reason I find myself needing to use the rest room, and someone, male or female, becomes offended by my errection, I might very well get into a yelling match over it. I mean, really. Just because my penis happens to be errect does NOT mean I'm behaving inappropriately. It doesn't mean I'm masturbating in public, it doesn't mean I'm grabbing myself and wiggling it around at people, it just means my penis happens to be blood engorged, for any number of reasons.

And any Offense that anyone else feels over it is totaly THEIR problem, not mine. Hide myself, indeed. How could I be a nudist with the need to hide myself?! Come on, people. Is logic not part of the thought process at all in this group? Is emotional or physical response banned entirely in all males of the human species?!

I agree that there are certain behaviors that are just rude and inappropriate and should not be done in any kind of clean, family oriented, environment, but THIS is just too much!! Really.

Ok, thats all I'm gonna say on this topic for a long long time, I'm getting way too upset.

[nakedjohn]

When a man gets an erection, nothing happens.

[usmc1]

Originally posted by kphoger:
no, no, i didn't mean what physically happens to the penis. i meant what actually happens in the real world as people react.

Depends. Most places the biggest guys at the resort grab you and hold you down while the owner approaches with a brick in one hand and ball-peen hammer in the other.

[nacktman]

Originally posted by usmc1:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by kphoger:
no, no, i didn't mean what physically happens to the penis. i meant what actually happens in the real world as people react.

Depends. Most places the biggest guys at the resort grab you and hold you down while the owner approaches with a brick in one hand and ball-peen hammer in the other. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Yeah, what he said! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wink3.gif http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/bonk.gif http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/eusa_dance.gif http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/laugh.gif

Though it has been known for a cleaver to make an appearance on occasion as well. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/freak.gif

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/poke.gif

[shomymojo]

Originally posted by usmc1:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by kphoger:
no, no, i didn't mean what physically happens to the penis. i meant what actually happens in the real world as people react.

Depends. Most places the biggest guys at the resort grab you and hold you down while the owner approaches with a brick in one hand and ball-peen hammer in the other. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>..or just two bricks...LOL

[Rabid_Clam]

Has been said many times before by me and many others. Erections are a most natural event in males. This is normal and reasonable if the erection is not due to manipulation or petting.

I think a male looks just fine erect. There is a time and place for everything and for this there is that time and place but there are times when it cannot be controled... so what? Let it be!

It will go away in time if left alone and so it goes. But is fine to see while it is present.

[usuallylurk]

Originally posted by Rabid_Clam:
Has been said many times before by me and many others. Erections are a most natural event in males. This is normal and reasonable if the erection is not due to manipulation or petting.

I think a male looks just fine erect. There is a time and place for everything and for this there is that time and place but there are times when it cannot be controled... so what? Let it be!

It will go away in time if left alone and so it goes. But is fine to see while it is present.

Well, in a REAL nudist environment it's considered rude to strut around with one.

In reality, it is a natural event. You cover it up until it subsides.

[Bobx23456]

Originally posted by usuallylurk:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Rabid_Clam:
Has been said many times before by me and many others. Erections are a most natural event in males. This is normal and reasonable if the erection is not due to manipulation or petting.

I think a male looks just fine erect. There is a time and place for everything and for this there is that time and place but there are times when it cannot be controled... so what? Let it be!

It will go away in time if left alone and so it goes. But is fine to see while it is present.

Well, in a REAL nudist environment it's considered rude to strut around with one.

In reality, it is a natural event. You cover it up until it subsides. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>


I guess I'm not a "REAL nudist." I agree with Rabid that men look just fine. "Body Acceptance" was once a motto of nudists.

Personally, I'm offended by the assertion that a natural man's body is "rude," and needs to be covered up even at a nudist resort.

Blessings

Bob

[Naturist Mark]

I guess I'm not a "REAL nudist."
I reckon not.

[tinner666]

Lurk and Mark are right. It's not natural. It's a sign of some form of arousal. Not normal to the nudist/naturist enviroment. Considered offensive by most.
If it 'just happens' and subsides right away, especially after covering up, it can be laughed off. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/embarassed.gif

[Naturist Mark]

Lurk and Mark are right. It's not natural. It's a sign of some form of arousal. Not normal to the nudist/naturist enviroment. Considered offensive by most.
If it 'just happens' and subsides right away, especially after covering up, it can be laughed off. Embarassed
To be clear, I think that erections ARE normal.

But it is easy to discrete about them on the rare occasions (for adults) that they pop up unbidden. The clear consensus among practicing nudists is that it IS rude to leave an erection on display, 'natural' or not, and it is also perfectly obvious to anyone who visits a nudist resort that it isn't an impossible task to be discrete.

Occasionally it will be tolerated, especially if you can't really do anything about it - no one thinks an erection that happens while jumping around playing volleyball means anything, nor expects you to leave the game until it is over. Everyone remembers being an adolescent and has nothing but empathy for a teen who pops up from time to time for no reason whatsoever.

But an adult who habitually displays an erection when he could easily be discrete will be the subject of scorn and ridicule. I'm not saying it is fair or right, but it certainly IS.

A person who brags that they never coverup their frequent erections at resorts, and that no one objects, is blowing smoke. They are either too self centered to register how the people around them are reacting, or they are making up stories.

-Mark

[nacktman]

Originally posted by Naturist Mark:

A person who brags that they never coverup their frequent erections at resorts, and that no one objects, is blowing smoke. They are either too self centered to register how the people around them are reacting, <span class="ev_code_RED">or</span> they are making up stories.

-Mark

Mark, I would have used the conjunction 'AND', myself in lieu of 'or' in the sentence above. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wink3.gif

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/dizzy2.gif

[tinner666]

Thanks for clarifing my comments Mark. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif I'm not always able to express myself properly, but you got to the heart of what I 'tried' to express. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

[usuallylurk]

Originally posted by Naturist Mark:

A person who brags that they never coverup their frequent erections at resorts, and that no one objects, is blowing smoke. They are either too self centered to register how the people around them are reacting, or they are making up stories.

-Mark

We've read a lot of 'stories' from people in the last few weeks. As you say, erections are natural. But you don't walk around a nudist environment with one.

There was also a doozy of a question in another board -- where someone truly thought that nudist resorts don't allow you to eat dinner in the nude.

There are others -- but we must do our best to dispell erroneous stories about what happens in the world of nudism.

[Nude in the North]

I'd like to thank bigjohn45 for reviving this old thread.

But he failed to make any comment himself. Just a quote.

I wonder what he thinks... After all I'm sure it took him awhile to get the courage to make his first post.

[Sanslines]

Well, in a REAL nudist environment it's considered rude to strut around with one.


I have seen the occassional guy strut up and down a beach with an erection. It was so obvious as to what he was doing - basically showing off, acting proud, as if to say "look at me, notice me,.......I am the king of the jungle". He wanted all of the women on the beach to notice him and to admire him.....lol.

There are, of course a whole variety of reasons for erections, including medical conditions for which the male has may or may not (abuse of Viagra) have control over his erection. For whatever the reason for the erection, the problem with an erection is that it brings control to only one part of the male's body. Nudism is not about erections or only about the penis. It is supposed to be about the entire person - both inside and out. With an erection, in cases where the male is showing off, the male is pretty much reduced to a brainless, walking penis and who wants to be around a brainless, walking penis? lol

[Rabid_Clam]

The person intentionally demonstrating his erection is not cool. If he just went about his normal business he actually would make a much better impact.

[Naturist Mark]

what happens when men get erections?
... they make sure everyone sees it and explains how normal it is?

NOT

[usmc1]

Personally, I've learned not to get up and strut around with an erection. The weight causes me to stoop and gives me low back pain. rotflmao..

Sorry, this has got to be about the dumbest sequence of back-and-forths in a long time.

Some things just ought not have to be explained to people past a certain age. Yeah, a toddler needs to be told not to stick their finger in the fan or a fork into the socket, but, having to explainin to a grown man why in a legitimate nudist setting one does not exhibit his erection (which by the way, ARE FREAKING RARE, to the point of NEVER HAPPENING!) is absolutely beyond my comprehension.

Nude beaches are a tad different which is why there the real nudists and naturists tend to cluster together and establish boundaries away from the lookie loos and exhibitionists.

Damn, y'awl! Just tell the bozo there's a two brick solution and let it go at that.

[JohnE44]

What about group sports.I got invieted to join in a weekend volleyball game and i though about what happens if I get a erection during the game

[Naturist Mark]

Originally posted by JohnE44:
What about group sports.I got invieted to join in a weekend volleyball game and i though about what happens if I get a erection during the game

I thought we explained this. An erection is very unlikely. But if it happens no one will care as long as you don't. If you are playing, keep on playing. If it is still there when you finish, cover it up. 'nuff said.

-Mark

[hm0504]

Originally posted by JohnE44:
What about group sports.I got invieted to join in a weekend volleyball game and i though about what happens if I get a erection during the game

Try to remember NOT to dive for the ball.

Following usmc1's recent post, I would have to think that getting an erection during even mildly intense volleyball game would be next to nil. Of course, if one is on a Viagra drip or something, there may be exceptions.

[Terrace Casual]

I've never been nude in a public situation before, so I guess if I didn't have a towel, I would just put my hand on my penis to make sure it doesn't offend

[eaglepeakpete]

At my resort erections are accepted as a normal thing and nothing to get uptight over. We have all seen one most men get them,and most ladies enjoy the view, after all its a normal body function.Provided an erection is not perceived as threatening its accepted and is of no consequence. With all the problems going on in the world, all the crime and violence why make a fuss over something that should not even be worth mentioning. I am often asked by newcomers "What happens if" my reply is "Just dont get it sunburnt"
In my reception on the wall there is a picture of me with an erection with the caption "Life is full of ups and downs" which helps people feel relaxed and enjoy there holiday with us without fearing they will be evicted it the problem comes up.

[Fuzzy Nuts]

eaglepeakpete - You really seem to have a great attitude and I can see that your resort will be very popular if it is not already. Your attitude will do much to promote naturism.

I can hardly wait til my wife and I are able to visit your resort - hopefully in the fall of 08.

[MJ_KC]

The only time that I have had this happen was when I had been resting for a while and then decided to get up and go for a walk. My heart rate went up quite a bit from walking in the sand. I just stopped for a minute or two and no more problem as soon as my heart rate dropped. There wasn't anyone nearby when this happened.

I have seen the guys before who will walk up and down the length of the beach while sporting an erection. This is real stupid and shows just how clueless the individual is.

[RCH44]

When I first take off my clothes at the nude beach I always get an erection. I just go into the water until I cool off.

I admit I don't mind showing off my erection, but so I don't offend anyone I go into the water as soon as possible.

Originally posted by MJ_KC:
The only time that I have had this happen was when I had been resting for a while and then decided to get up and go for a walk. My heart rate went up quite a bit from walking in the sand. I just stopped for a minute or two and no more problem as soon as my heart rate dropped. There wasn't anyone nearby when this happened.

I have seen the guys before who will walk up and down the length of the beach while sporting an erection. This is real stupid and shows just how clueless the individual is.

[Matt King]

Once playing volleyball but it went down as fast as it came up.

[nudebushwalker]

Most of those times when I might get a spontaneous and "innocent" erection, first I will look to my particular situation -
* if on the beach : if there are others nearby who I feel may be offended, I can either roll over or sit up (depending on where they are..); or otherwise simply ignore it;
* when modelling, I ignore it and stay in the pose I'm in;
* when giving a massage, I let it be - and allow the client to decide what, if anything, she could be doing about it;
* when I am out in the bush, or on a secluded stretch of beach, I can always take things in hand if I become suitably aroused - the keywords here are seclusion and (relative) isolation..

It's not that difficult to show some consideration and courtesy towards others, nor some respect for yourself..

Having said that, while different women may be amused, aroused or titilated at the sight, simply enjoy it, or maybe feel a little embarrassed even; I personally have never experienced a lady who was either shocked, disgusted or scared of an (innocent and spontaneous) erection in-and-of-itself - maybe that's more a problem for certain parts of the world - like the more conservative parts of the US and UK, and much of the Middle East ?

[Cosine]

Fire,

I know exactly how you feel. That is one of my worries about trying nudism but what I have read and heard is to carry a towel with you when you first try nudism for the first time. Also you could try it with a small group of friends and see how that goes. I think I might just take baby steps into nudism and hopefully find a group close to home to try it with. I am guessing if you let them know you are new to this lifestyle, they will understand and give you great advice.

Cosine

[NorthVanNudist]

This surely must be one of the most common question relating to nudism. Erections do happen, but I don't think it is necessarily a sexual thing. I think nudebushwalker nailed it with the term "innocent erection". I have been going to our local nude beach for 30 plus years, and enjoy nude hiking and boating. If you have been to nude beaches or other settings with other nude people, you rather quickly get over the "look at all the naked people" state, and don't get erections because of other their nudity. But erections do occur regardless of nudist experience, and I think it may be due to very natural stimulus, such as the pleasure of a breeze or warm sunshine. Its happened to me at our nude beach when reading a book, walking out of the water, etc. I don't necessarily call attention to myself by flopping over on my stomach or grabbing a towel. Usually I just ignore it, but don't make a big display of it either. Its just a natural thing. It happens as well when out in my boat or hiking by myself, when there are no other nude people around. Again, you can usually just ignore it, unless there are other persons close to you. Then its just a matter of showing respect for other people. It is fairly common at Wreck Beach to see nudists with partial or full erections from time to time, and nobody seems to pay it any attention.

[trudysmith1965]

I don't have a problem seeing a man naked with an erection.

[Georgia_Nude]

I don't have a problem seeing a man naked with an erection.


Nudist or not, I would imagine most women wouldn't. ;):D

[BackpackerBrian]

How can you all seriously spend almost 70 pages of replies talking about this topic??? I mean, geeeeez.

Brian

[MoonShadow]

LOL Isn't that the truth!!!!

[chuckincville]

How can you all seriously spend almost 70 pages of replies talking about this topic??? I mean, geeeeez.

Brian

Think it may have something to do with being our favorite "state of being"? :sneaky: :rolleyes:

[Rabid_Clam]

This topic is continiously brought up, there are those that complain about that and others that welcome it. As to erections, it is a very natural event. It does not have to be sexual or it can be. That is what the observer needs to learn about the holder. If in a nudist environment, then is sexual erection appropriate? If no then do what one must. Otherwise let it be. I find an erection to be acceptable in non sexual situations if the holder is not phsycally causing it. Erections happen, and if it does, then just keep on keeping on. Many pay good money to get one but at appropriate times and places. Natural ones are fine and are just part of life.

[Nude in the North]

Sure there's 70 pages , but that's compiled over the last 6 years. So that's only around a dozen comments a year or once a month, on average.

Personally, I think erections should come up more often than that.

[fre2bnude]

Sure there's 70 pages , but that's compiled over the last 6 years. So that's only around a dozen comments a year or once a month, on average.

Personally, I think erections should come up more often than that.

Yes, when you think this topic has now been on the go for almost 6 years it must be something that people like to talk about, and I suppose that 70 pages in 6 years is not that much. I wonder how much longer it will run.

[baregreg]

Personally, I think erections should come up more often than that.
Nice play on words. :laugh:

[nakedcowboy]

regarding the original question, I think the sun causes the same reaction in me. For members who don't have penises perhaps they do think it's disgusting. For any member with a penis (pardon the pun) I can see it might be considered many things, but I am not sure why it should be disgusting. We all have had it happen at times we didn't want. Sometimes we happen to be nude, but that doesn't mean we need to be ashamed. Yes people will use it as an argument against us, but that illustrates society's preoccupation with sex more than any inherent problem with nature's design of the male system. It's one more opportunity for education. I know it won't be won in out lifetime but that does not mean it should not be fought for. IMHO the mere fact of having an erection is not the same as intent. If you are in a situation where someone takes offence, they are just as able to avert eyes or not stand within 3 feet of you too. What if you fell asleep on the beach and had one, is that intent? I think not.

[Westcoaster]

Well, it DOES happen, but I agree with everyone here that if it happens in a nude social situation (beach, resort, etc.), the best thing to do is not flaunt it, but turn over or whatever until it subsides.

It does seem there more people you are with, the less likely it is to occur. For example, it just doesn't seem to happen to me at the beach. But I have gone nude hiking with two other friends, and it did happen from time to time on that occasion to all of us. Pretty apparent, but being all guys we just laughed about it and carried on. Just became something to joke about.

But particularly in mixed company, you really don't want to offend anyone. A big part of naturism is respect for others.

[alhefner]

I have had erections at resorts and felt very embarassed and guilty. I usually managed to hide it behind a book, towel, or just turn over until it went away.

there does seem to be a bit of a "double standard" though. Every nudist/ naturist I have spoken too, at least in private, says "no big deal! I't only natural". In public though, the reaction is one of some type of disgust or accusation and that only a perverted male would get an erection in a nude setting.

[fre2bnude]

I'd be quite happy if they happened more often, but I suppose that's a bit like wishing I was younger - when I was young they happened all the time! Now I appreciate them they don't happen so often!

[Christian]

I've been nude in a number of different places and on different occasions and have not had random erections sprout up for no apparent reason. I'm always a little confused why this seems to be a problem for so many people. A little fluffiness here and there just happens but full sprung poles just seem out of place in most non-sexual environments. Maybe I'm the weird one. . . :laugh:

[sergo or gayle]

As mentioned before this subject seems to come up periodically ,,, an as true nudist
true nudist know there generally no problem with this Issue, I have also notice
that many of these questions or generally asked by net nudist or so call wannabe nudist
or someone associates early years when simply getting undressed meet and awakening .

Now I'm not quite sure if the questions are being asked by responsible adults or teenagers
trying to get a cheap thrill in either case ones an individual has truly experience nature
and the outdoors nude , they will find their fears of showing whatever manhood they
think they have is unfounded as most nudist realy dont care or look for that ,,,

But I am sure that the question will, rise up from time to time just like the leaking question
which by the way,, hunmm oh what the hell ,,, if you find yourself leaking clear your mind.

wishing everyone a wonderful warm nude weekend

sergo

[Nashoba-nowa]

I find at the beach or river, that if I feel an erection coming on, a quick dip into the water will usually take care of the problem immediately, sometimes they just happen.

[Dave5]

I"ve never been to a nudist resort/beach but hope this is the year for me. Probably why the erection issue keeps coming up (no pun intended) is because what is my biggest fear about going? Yep...what if I get an erection. That though must be hard wired into our brains. Too bad they can't come up with the anti-Viagra pill. We could take it when there are times we absolutely do not want to get an erectiion.

[jon71]

Not that I'm actually recommending this but there's always salt peter. It will diminish/kill the sex drive but it's temporary. I don't know enough about it to say if it's completely safe although I think it'll pass harmlessly out of your system like anything else you eat or drink. You'd need to ask a doctor to be sure. I've heard that in the 50's they'd spike kids food with it at summer camp to the boys wouldn't play with themselves (I doubt they realized that girls even did that too) but I don't know how true those stories are. It sounds like a fifties kind of thing to do.

[jon71]

I just looked at wikipedia. It said that this is a common belief about salt peter but it's not realistic so you probably don't want to try it.

[MoonShadow]

LOL I still see the myth about saltpeter still lives

There are no properties whatsoever in saltpeter to do anything regarding one's sexual arousal or offering impotence.

Saltpeter was one of the key ingredients to black gun powder and is still today used in many different types of fertilizers.

I wouldn't recommend anyone ingesting it.

[I. B. Nekkid]

It would seem that the first thing men do when they get erections at a nudist resort is to come on this site and talk about it!

[Naturist Zoar]

This past week end at a local naturist fest, I was in the coed showers when a younger couple entered , all smiley and huggy. They proceeded to go under a shower together and he became perky. They then quickly left and jumped in the pool , where they continued to hug.
Oh to be young and carefree????? or what do you think.

[Navigator]

This past week end at a local naturist fest...


A "naturist fest"? Really?

I've been a nudist since I was a teenager and I can honestly say I've never heard anyone refer to a weekend at a resort as a "naturist fest".

Just out of curiosity...what resort were you "festing" at?

[Naturist Zoar]

I was enjoying the sites and sounds of Brushwood, which was hosting their annual Sirius Rising Festival in Chautauqua NY
NZ

[HabaneroSting]

I'm disheartened to hear that many men stay away from beaches and resorts for fear of an erection. It's natural, it happens, take care of it discreetly, and continue socializing.

[EricNY]

I'm disheartened to hear that many men stay away from beaches and resorts for fear of an erection. It's natural, it happens, take care of it discreetly, and continue socializing.

Funny thing is it really does not happen all that much....Much of it depends where the mind is.

[Pete Knight]

Funny thing is it really does not happen all that much....Much of it depends where the mind is.
It also depends why some men go to nudist beaches, I often have reason to question the motives of some guys I meet, but in all my time of visiting naturist beaches and clubs I have never had the problem, I did think I had the problem once, as I woke up from a nap on the sun lawn of a club I was visiting I thought I may have had the problem but I didn't, panic over.
.... phew!

There are a few simple precautions you can take, always have your towel to hand, and if sitting on a beach you can easily cover you embarresment by lifting your legs up to chin level.

Don't let the thought of an erection stop you from enjoying social nudism, you'll find that its not a sexually charged atmosphere and within minutes you'll have forgotten you're naked, of course if you're just there to perv then there is no hope for you.

Pete Knight

[Nudekj]

Erections are simply a natural phenmenan, however, it is associated with sexual connotations. When I get them I try to hide them in order not to offend any one, but sometimes u can´t (there ar no towels near by for example, or when rolling back & sleeping on ur belly is not an option), & in this case people around you should put up with it.

[Bob.M]

This thread has been going strong since 2002. It is time I added my 2 cents worth:

To begin with, after 23 years, it is still a rare event for us to see an erection on a naturist beach.

First visit to a naturist beach: Moonstone Beach, Rhode Island 1985. (Since closed).
On arrival, there was a young woman by herself, spreadeagle at the entrance where people from the clothed beach arrive. My experience since then, is that very few women "pose" provocatively like that. I think she was just trying to cause reactions. I got an erection, had to sit down, knees up, cover up with towel. We talked about those boats out there as a distraction.

On later visits, to Sandy Hook, New Jersey, my wife would make a game of it to see what was the minimum she would need to do to cause me to have an erection. At that time, if I could sense that she was looking at it, up it would go. Sometimes she would put her hand on my leg if looking did not work.

But that was a long time ago. She doesn't play that game anymore. This spring we were at Haulover, and just due to the breeze off the ocean, up it went. I tried to conceal it with knees up, but she noticed, and said in a critical disapproving manner "What's that?"

[roid3551]

ive never actually had one but ive been close a couple times. i just cover up for a min and take my mind off everything and im fine.

[AarDee]

This subject goes to the over-sexualization of nudism. Once, visiting Sandy Bay on the Cape atlantic seaboard, I remeber one man in particular who sported a massive erection and continued about his business along the beach as if he didn't even know he had one. I secretly admired the man for his absolute rejection of shame and for displaying so majesticaly the freedom to just be him - to enjoy all the pleasurable sensations nudism brings and for so blatantly saying: I'm a man and I've got a penis (that works) - get used to it.

If this man was lurking behind rocks and bushes it would have been another thing, but he was in both male and female company and it clearly bothered no one. Since then, whenever it happens that I get hard in company or in view of others, I remain discreet but certainly do not panic or run for cover - it depends on yuor thoughts and your actions whether displaying an erection is lewd or not. The human body in all its complexity and marvel is beautiful and there is nothing wrong with being appreciative of that too.

[NudonyII]

This subject goes to the over-sexualization of nudism. Once, visiting Sandy Bay on the Cape atlantic seaboard, I remeber one man in particular who sported a massive erection and continued about his business along the beach as if he didn't even know he had one. I secretly admired the man for his absolute rejection of shame and for displaying so majesticaly the freedom to just be him - to enjoy all the pleasurable sensations nudism brings and for so blatantly saying: I'm a man and I've got a penis (that works) - get used to it.

Well...in many nudist venues, "a proud display" such as the one you described will get you nasty looks; if not tossed off the premises. Does one admire this person for his rejection of shame; or reproach him his lack of sensitivity to his surroundings or nudist etiquette?

Of course, there is the issue of erection during the course of playing or conversation. We all know how to roll over or grab a towel when sitting or lying; but what if you're in the midst of a conversation or playing a game of volley-ball? That's when I think it can get a little tricky. Do you excuse yourself, run off or act casual?

[Triker]

Well...in many nudist venues, "a proud display" such as the one you described will get you nasty looks; if not tossed off the premises. Does one admire this person for his rejection of shame; or reproach him his lack of sensitivity to his surroundings or nudist etiquette?

Of course, there is the issue of erection during the course of playing or conversation. We all know how to roll over or grab a towel when sitting or lying; but what if you're in the midst of a conversation or playing a game of volley-ball? That's when I think it can get a little tricky. Do you excuse yourself, run off or act casual?

You act casual, because despite what some fellow nudists might tell you, it's completely natural and nothing to be embarassed about, and eventually it will go away by itself.

[Dolby]

"Of course, there is the issue of erection during the course of playing or conversation. We all know how to roll over or grab a towel when sitting or lying; but what if you're in the midst of a conversation or playing a game of volley-ball? That's when I think it can get a little tricky. Do you excuse yourself, run off or act casual?"

What to do during volleyball? Umm... serve?

[PhotoBuff]

What to do during volleyball? Umm... serve?

I thought that guy was hanging onto the ball for an awfully long time:laugh:

But, seriously, as someone who has only been a practicing recreational nusdist for a couple of years, I still find this topic both interesting and useful as it is something that I still have some concern about myself. Probably the most useful aspect of the topic is that it does keep popping up (no pun intended) in virtually every forum I've ever visited. This lets me, and other newcomers to nudism, know that we are not alone in our concerns and the thoughtful responses from those with more experience helps to re-assure. So I am always a little disappointed by calls from some who call for banning the subject altogether.

I agree with those who say not to let such concerns stop you from trying and enjoying nude recreation and that the more that you do it, and get used to being nude around other people, the easier it gets and the less of a concern it will be. I am still looking forward to playing volleyball (and other sports) out of the water and I still tend to avoid concentrated groups of people but, otherwise, doing it despite my anxiety while following the good advice of others who know (such as carrying a towel or other cover -up, rolling over, and being respectful of others), has worked just fine.

[bernardc]

I some time find myself also falling asleep on the beach and then wake with a huge erection.Its a normal reaction.The more you fret on it,the longer it persists,just tyhink of something else.I was often caught waking up with an erection on the beach,and people around me.I just dont worry about it,and let it be.But the problem comes when you go showing off.If it realy bothers you,cover it with a towel or turn on your stomach,or else,ignore it.Its no reason to be ashamed.Thats what makes us male.Its part of our make up.

[NJNude1965]

Seems like this issue of a guy falling asleep and get an erection has raised more that a few well you know.

Studies have shown that a health guy will get 5 erections while sleeping during the night or day.


As the human race we need to accept the fact and not make such a fuss over it.

[Rabid_Clam]

This subject comes up allot. Erections are normal. It does not offend me in the least. There is a time and place to manipulate it but not in public and as long as it is just 'there' then no objection at all. That happens. In fact I find a male with one to be quite acceptable to look at, as long as it is not being phsycally manipulated.

[rone]

What happens when women get erections? We've all seen it. Obvious in t-shirts or nude, too. Who cares? It's just normal human reactions. Many of you need to just join the human race, IMO.

[kxix]

there are times when sunbathing that I find myself sprouting an erection, especially on a warm afternoon when I sometimes fall asleep. so, the question is, do the majority of nudists find this disgusting or is there an understanding that it is a natural event while being naked outdoors? /infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif

a nudist would know that erection is a natural thing for guys...

[alan1973]

I fell asleep once at nudist campground out by the pool. I woke up and was sporting major wood. Luckily, there were only about 12 or so people there and I was facing away from where they were sitting, but I'm sure if someone walked by, they got a good look. It only took a minute to go away, and I got up and roamed around like nothing ever happend. That is the only time in public it has ever happend to me.

[Liam C]

I some time find myself also falling asleep on the beach and then wake with a huge erection.

Braggart! :laugh:

[razjeep]

Erection is normal case. I had experienced erection on nude beach, everybody's watch it just like that, (not a long staring) and my reaction also just like that, not to show uncomfortable in front of them, also not to show comfortable in front of them. If you just relax, they will not try to staring at it. It is normal dude,... no worries. As long as you don't wank it, purposely hold it in sexual maner, then you should get out of that beach.

[willy26]

I agree with those who say erections are normal for a male and should not be a big deal when with other nudists. It happens. However, there should not be flaunting nor sexual inuendos. Civility is important and respect for others.

[Westcoaster]

I agree with those who say erections are normal for a male and should not be a big deal when with other nudists. It happens. However, there should not be flaunting nor sexual inuendos. Civility is important and respect for others.

I think willy26 has got it right. Erections do happen, and have happened to all of us. So long as you aren't calling attention to it, its probably best just to ignore it. It will go away. I don't think its necessarily a sexual thing, but may have to do with just feeling good all over in the sunshine. Heck, its happened to me while sitting reading a book, and while sitting playing chess. I don't stand up and start walking around or anything, but I didn't say to my chess partner "Wait a minute while I lay on my stomach" or suddenly throw a towel over my lap. I just ignored it, nothing was said, we kept playing, and it went away on its own (just as it appeared). It DOES happen. Its a natural thing, and I think should just be ignored.

[ajnaturist]

Well, it seems that every nudist i've met so far is always talking about how nudism represents being natural and free. I haven't been a practicing nudist long but to me that says being free and "natural" is the purpose. So if i'm enjoying the natural way of life, i shouldn't have to hide my natural male functions. To force me to hide an erection is to make me ashamed of how my natural body works. It would be different if some guy was purposely causing himself to get an erection for sexual gratification. But sometimes i get an erection when i'm laughing or when i just feel really good. Why should i hide it?

[ajnaturist]

That's how i see it!

[nakenone]

I am 59,i still get erections at nite on a regular basis,my wife thinks i am hot,i try to hide them but its not the nature of it not to be noticed,i have not experienced an erection at a resort or co beach,if you experience one that noticable so what ,just do something different to change its mind set,

[walter05]

Why would you hide an erection from your wife?

[nakenone]

At the age were currently living my wife shows limited interest in reciving it,note this is a family web site,so twice a week is lucky,so i dont press my luck,so i keep it were its not so visual,iam happy with this i have friends that have not done it in many years for one reason or another .How about you?

[Pete Knight]

How long have you been married? Does she not realise that they happen spontaneously, and being 'hot' is least often what causes them.

If you can't just be yourself at home I feel sorry for you. It's often said that an erection is seen as a threat by some women, but your wife!

Pete Knight

[walter05]

First of all, my wife and I are very active. At least twice a week, and often more. We enjoy it and each other.

After, when we huddle up skin to skin and fall asleep together, it is very special.

Women sometimes start to think they are less attractive. If they get older and have menopause, this is more often an issue.

People lie with their mouths. However, we men get erections whether we want them or not.

It is important for your wife to know you find her attractive. You are married, when you have one, You should show it off. Even give her a hug. If she knows you find her attractive, she will feel more attractive. If she does, you could be a lot busier.

Pete;

I find it wrong that a man naked with his wife would have to excuse an erection.

Walter

[MoonShadow]

Walter, have a question for you.

Why shouldn't your wife feel attractive whether or not you have an erection?

[Pete Knight]

Pete;

I find it wrong that a man naked with his wife would have to excuse an erection.


Absolutely, that's why I asked the question, I'm at a loss to understand why a guy should need to hide himself away from his wife, unless of course she has suffered traumatic circumstances in previous years that left her with issues of self loathing, rather like our resident gymnophobe.

Pete Knight

[walter05]

Pete;

I reread your post. I understand where you are coming from.

Moonshadow;

I agree with you. However, we all need positive reinforcement from others at times.

It is nice when a non-verbal positive reinforcement is available.

Men also need positive reinforcements from our wives.

As a husband, I appreciate that I am able to point out how excited I am about my wife. If that helps to reinforce a positive self-image for my wife, that is a wonderful capability my body has.

Walter

[MoonShadow]

...rather like our resident gymnophobe.

Pete Knight


LOL Good one, Pete

[MoonShadow]

Ah, Walter, Yes, I agree with what you said. I was just confused with the earlier single statement you made.

[walter05]

I am happy to respond.

As long as the question is on a single question or two, I am able to keep up.

Walter

[SpiritSeeker]

Well, it seems that every nudist i've met so far is always talking about how nudism represents being natural and free. I haven't been a practicing nudist long but to me that says being free and "natural" is the purpose. So if i'm enjoying the natural way of life, i shouldn't have to hide my natural male functions. To force me to hide an erection is to make me ashamed of how my natural body works. It would be different if some guy was purposely causing himself to get an erection for sexual gratification. But sometimes i get an erection when i'm laughing or when i just feel really good. Why should i hide it?

I understand your feelings and respect them. At parks in the early morning I have observed guys popping one but they do their best to be respectful of others...and with that said, just use common sense when it happens...they are natural and part of who we are as guys so don't sweat it if you have one but be considerate if others are near by.

[Naturist4Ever]

Well, it seems that every nudist i've met so far is always talking about how nudism represents being natural and free. I haven't been a practicing nudist long but to me that says being free and "natural" is the purpose. So if i'm enjoying the natural way of life, i shouldn't have to hide my natural male functions. To force me to hide an erection is to make me ashamed of how my natural body works.

No, not at all, you are simply ignoring the context, extrapolating your post you might as well go naked through the high street but you don't do that either, just as you would not be sitting in swimmingtrunks in a 3-star restaurant etc.
An exposed erection might not always be natural and it is not up to the offended to find out if yours is or not. From personal experience I know there is a large gray zone that we simply do not want to be confronted with. If yours is natural, fine for you but deal with it.

[Waanudist]

hmm what should i do if i get an erection. heres what i would do make as big a show about it as this thread is. maybe people will not notice then.shocked

[walter05]

Unless a man uses Viagra or something similar, erections are always natural.

[barenaked1]

Erections are natural, but have their place. As many have stated before, you need to be respectful of where you are, who you are with and the environment you are in. If I'm sitting on the edge of the pool with any of my peers and something 'arises', it is up to me to be discreet and not bring notice to it. Be it jump in the pool, use a towel, or as some are young and it just won't go away, go to a restroom and relieve it. I believe that most nudist are tolerant to a point (no pun intended), but there are limits.

[Naturist Mark]

I don't understand the magic of the word 'natural'. Lots of things are natural; defecation, killing, disease, nose picking, maggots. That doesn't mean we happily put them front and center. Nudism skews social norms in that we don't object to ordinary nudity. That doesn't mean we reject all social norms. Avoiding display of an erection when practical is part of the nudist social norm. Simple fact, not an endorsement. "Natural" is immaterial to the issue. When you argue that it is natural you risk being set up to accept anything else that is "natural".

I think a better argument is to say it is harmless, it is (usually) not intended as offense - indeed not intentional at all, it is essentially meaningless, it is worthy of neither pride nor prejudice.

-Mark