Question about nudist families [Archive]

nudefam

11-29-2006, 12:32 PM

I am a recently new nudist. My sister and I walk around naked at home often when our mom is not home. We want our mom to try being nude at home also but are not sure how to go about doing that. We also want to tell her what we do. Should we just not put clothes on when she gets home or should we talk to her first. any help would be great

OZJames

11-29-2006, 03:26 PM

I suggest that you leave your CLOTHES ON and TALK to her before she catches you nude. She would more than likely be shocked so you should avoid that.

By talking first you can explain why you both like to be nude and find out what she thinks. It is important that you do talk because sooner or later she will catch you.

Good luck
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nudefam

11-29-2006, 04:28 PM

my sister thinks that our mom walks around naked when we are not home, that is why she (my sister) suggested we just show her

NakedGary

11-29-2006, 04:45 PM

nudefam

I'm curious as to age of you and your sister in this topic/post as that has not been mention.

Your intended nude action would really backfire if your sister’s assumption is wrong.

What makes you think your mother walks around nude when you’re not there?
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nudefam

11-29-2006, 04:57 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by NakedGary:
nudefam

I'm curious as to age of you and your sister in this topic/post as that has not been mention.

Your intended nude action would really backfire if your sister’s assumption is wrong.

What makes you think your mother walks around nude when you’re not there?
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we are 17 and 18, my sister says she came home early once and our mom ran upstairs and slammed the door, then came out in her bath robe

FireProf

11-29-2006, 05:13 PM

If you suspect that your mother partakes in being nude around the house when you're not home, then I too would advise you both to sit and talk to her about your preference to be nude around the house.

The worse that can happen is that she says "no" and you're no worse off then you are now. If she is willing to discuss it, then maybe there is some common ground for the three of you to enjoy a clothes free home together.

At any rate, sit and talk with your mother about this. It would be far better than just appearing nude in front of her and either shocking or embarassing her.

Good Luck! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

nudefam

11-29-2006, 05:49 PM

mom gets home in a few minutes, hopefully by the end of the night we get to walk around naked

nudefam

11-29-2006, 06:53 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Jason Lee:
nudefam

Sleeping Nude Topic http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/8500016...870006264#7870006264 (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/8500016152/m/8150040053?r=7870006264#7870006264)

Originally posted by nudefam:
myself and my sister sleep naked. we have for along time but our mom encouraged us to be naked if we wanted to.

it seems your mother has no problem with you and your sisters nudity at home. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

she is fine if we are in our rooms, we want to be free in the house

Bob S.

11-29-2006, 07:38 PM

She who pays the bills makes the rules. If mom says no, then sorry. You still have the status quo.

Perhaps you could try to push the envelope by going to and from your bedroom to the shower au naturel. And perhaps not rushing to get your clothes on after she gets home. But do those only if you feel you can get away with it and it does not negatively affect your relationship with your mother or have a bad change of the rules.

Bob S.

nudefam

11-29-2006, 07:41 PM

we talked about it and she said she would think about it

FireProf

11-29-2006, 09:19 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by nudefam:
we talked about it and she said she would think about it </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

and.....that's what you wanted in the first place...dialog with your mother about your desire to be nude at home.

It's a first step. She didn't say "no", she said she'd think about it. Even if she sets some ground rules that limit the amount and where, at least it's something to build on.

Here's hoping she's open to continued discussion with you and your sister. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

NewShyNJGuy

11-29-2006, 09:46 PM

nudefam, i wish you and your family the best of luck with this situation and that you all will be comfortable in your own skin. I think we all would agree that it took courage to talk to your mom about it.

Again, congratulations on the first step. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/applause.gif

nudefam

11-30-2006, 04:58 AM

here is an update for people: this morning our mom said we could try being naked at home. All i can say is that it feels good

walter05

11-30-2006, 06:08 AM

nudefam;

I would suggest still doing this in a gradual way. This means that you don't have to start out having to be nude all of the time.

Since she seems open to it, if you don't shove it down her throat, you may have more success in the long run.

By the way, which one is 18, you or your sister?

FireProf

11-30-2006, 06:09 AM

Good for you, your sister and........who knows...maybe mom as well.

You are to be congratulated for taking that bold step forward and talking this over with your mother.

Good luck.

FP http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

tiger79

11-30-2006, 07:55 AM

It's probably nothing, but am I alone in having a vaguely uneasy feeling about this thread?

Nudeinbama

11-30-2006, 10:12 AM

Nudefam, I am glad for you and your sister, and hope it all works out well for the three of you. I certainly hopes mom will be o.k. with your being nude sometimes, and if you don't push or harm the issue, I think you'll find mom joining in comfortably also. Keep us posted.
Nudeinbama
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nudefam

11-30-2006, 10:40 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nudeinbama:
Nudefam, I am glad for you and your sister, and hope it all works out well for the three of you. I certainly hopes mom will be o.k. with your being nude sometimes, and if you don't push or harm the issue, I think you'll find mom joining in comfortably also. Keep us posted.
Nudeinbama
http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/eusa_dance.gif </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

After we talked about it mom said it would be ok if we were naked at home as long as no one else was home. this morning she even came down stairs topless, so it is a start

Nudeinbama

11-30-2006, 02:19 PM

Nudefam,So have you been nude in front of her yet, and how was it for you? All that you were hoping for, in being comfortable and enjoying the freedom. And how did you feel,
in your mom walking around you topless, was she relaxed and comfortable around you? I'm glad for you for your freedom. Use it wisely.
Nudeinbama

nudefam

11-30-2006, 04:50 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nudeinbama:
Nudefam,So have you been nude in front of her yet, and how was it for you? All that you were hoping for, in being comfortable and enjoying the freedom. And how did you feel,
in your mom walking around you topless, was she relaxed and comfortable around you? I'm glad for you for your freedom. Use it wisely.
Nudeinbama </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

me and my sister were both fine and our mom was relaxed. it felt great

K and C

11-30-2006, 04:56 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by tiger79:
It's probably nothing, but am I alone in having a vaguely uneasy feeling about this thread? </div></BLOCKQUOTE> I agree it just sounds fishy!!!

Lilwilly

11-30-2006, 05:17 PM

I vote for the fish as well.

NakedGary

11-30-2006, 06:19 PM

The flow of this just doesn't seem realistic.

Very strange a 17 & 18 year old sister and brother would always want to be nude together all over the house when the mother already encouraged both to be naked in their respective rooms.

Then after talking the mom she said the next morning "you could try being naked at home." [as if they havent all ready] and the son say's quote "it sure feels good."

Then later there is a reference to after we talked about it mom said it would be OK if we were naked at home as long as no one else was home.

The next morning the mother comes down stairs topless, and the son quotes "so it is a start."

To me this sounds as if this story is being made up, and the brother and sister spend way to much time together, & wanting to be nude together. Most people that age would be in school and on different schedules most of the day, and the mother would be home most of the evenings.

So I don't see or smell fish, but think it's not a very realistic story about a teen daughter and 18 year old wanting to be nude all over the house together.
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simonsebs

11-30-2006, 07:29 PM

These last few posts show something that has been bothering me lately. Alot of people on this board are so quick to judge and say someone is fake. I understand that we need to be on the look out for trolls, but some people are just too paranoid. If a person on here is faking they will be found out sooner or later. Until then we should give people the benefit of the doubt. If it turns out I'm wrong I'm sorry in advance.

Now getting back on topic, I'm happy for this guy and his family.

nudeM

11-30-2006, 09:12 PM

If in fact this is a true story, then I applaud the accomplishments these teenagers have thus so far achieved. I agree, we should give the benefit of the doubt and welcome our new 'family' nudists.

Keep us updated and let us know how things work out in the future. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/smoking.gif

Ken Palmer

11-30-2006, 10:03 PM

Hello NewShyNJGuy. I agree with you awarding a hearty congrats to nudefam regarding their situation. It looks like you beat me to the punch! But I do sincerely hope they will indeed work this situation out for the best of everyone. I think the last thing they would want to happen is having a relationship with their mother disintegrate on the count of this situation. My best wishes to nudefam as well!

Ken Palmer

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by NewShyNJGuy:
nudefam, i wish you and your family the best of luck with this situation and that you all will be comfortable in your own skin. I think we all would agree that it took courage to talk to your mom about it.

Again, congratulations on the first step. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/applause.gif </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

12-01-2006, 06:35 AM

OK I thought this thread was going somewhere until the heretic hunters started shooting at noises.

heres a noise for ya... Flushhhhhhhh!
(not watching this thread anymore)
notifications OFF

luv2bnude

12-30-2006, 09:16 AM

nudefam - congrats! Glad to hear that your mom is open-minded about the situation. I would've loved to been able to walk around nude at home.

How's it been working out lately? Has your mom started going around nude as well?

jandatxnude

01-01-2007, 09:16 PM

Nudefam,

How 'bout and update? Are you guys still going nude at home? How about your mom?

Barefoot-n-Nude in Texas!

Enjoying life

01-07-2007, 11:27 AM

I would talk with her first. Try and be as frank with her as possible, and tell her how you feel. If you can find any articles for her to read that might help too. Try and show her that it has nothing to do with anything sexual. I only wish my daughter felt the way you'll do.

katietee

04-21-2007, 02:32 PM

I never really asked for permission to go nude at home; I just started doing it when I was quite young and have never stopped. I suppose that if my parents or one of their close friends objected, I would consider not doing it. But; so far, everyone seems comfortable with it!

LeeR49

05-09-2007, 08:58 AM

So you're nude not only in front of your parents, but also their friends? That's bold.

Just wondering, how old are you?

Lee

Bobx23456

05-09-2007, 09:14 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by katietee:
I never really asked for permission to go nude at home; I just started doing it when I was quite young and have never stopped. I suppose that if my parents or one of their close friends objected, I would consider not doing it. But; so far, everyone seems comfortable with it! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Good for you Katietee. I was brought up in a body unfriendly home. Being seen naked was assumed to be a fate worse than death. Many years later my mother came to a pagan gathering that I had started attending. She mostly just wanted to see what pagans are like and learn a little bit about the neo-pagan religion. I was 48, and she hadn't seen me naked since I was old enought to put on my own pants. It was a little bit of a shock to her, what with me being naked in camp most of the time and wearing very little around the whole gathering area. I don't think she really got used to it.
Blessings
Bob

College_NudistRunner

05-10-2007, 05:18 PM

thats pretty cool that ur family is that cool with everything..i wish i grew up a naturist..how long have you been a nudist for? are your parents nudists also, and their friends dont care..?

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by katietee:
I never really asked for permission to go nude at home; I just started doing it when I was quite young and have never stopped. I suppose that if my parents or one of their close friends objected, I would consider not doing it. But; so far, everyone seems comfortable with it! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

shaved couple jp

10-16-2007, 04:50 AM

I suppose it is only the first step, which is difficult. If you take a bath before sleeping, than just get out of the bathroom an stay naked. Or get up on sunday morning and just stay without you cloths.

My family (wife and three daughters) never care even our grandparents are in the house or not. And all like it. Just try.

Good luck and stay naked.

bigmac2x2

10-20-2007, 04:48 AM

it sounds and smells a bit fishy.... however, my wife and i are not shy around the house and my 17 year old son and 14 year old son walk around naked between rooms and come in and talk to me and wife whilst in shower, so although we never officially discussed it, it's just isn't a big deal if you don't make it one

Andrey

10-21-2007, 01:00 AM