Convinced a friend

[gopher]

I recently convinced a female friend of mine to accompany me to Mazo beach next spring/summer time. This was a big step for me.

[gopher]

I recently convinced a female friend of mine to accompany me to Mazo beach next spring/summer time. This was a big step for me.

[DJ Guy Productions]

Well that was great of you to ask her, I am sure she would go. If she's new to being a nudist that's a big step for her as well. You both might have a wonderful weekend


Happy Holidays


Kristopher


<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by gopher:
I recently convinced a female friend of mine to accompany me to Mazo beach next spring/summer time. This was a big step for me. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[garynudist]

it is great when you cantalk someone into our life style, word of warning do not push her into, give her time to grow into. Iam having type of thing going with me, I have been a naturist for 23 yrs and my new girl friend just started having interests in nudism, because I have shown her a vcr tape, it is called " welcome to my world" and right a way she had an interests in it. she goes nude in her home all the time, and she tells me, she loves the freedom it gives, but she has never did it front of someone new, I tell her only take off when you feel comfortable around other people. I believe in not pushing anyone into our world. One they get a desire, it will grow, unless you water it too much.( be Pushes). Yes it is very cool when you have a partner that likes join into our world.yours truely Gary

[Rabid_Clam]

Most likely she is comfortable with nudism but if she has any doubts she may find great help talking or at least reading to the folks on here.

Good job! Best of luck!

[gopher]

she said that she is still unsure whether or not she will go nude, or fully nude. She said that she has body image issues but i told her, the people there obviously accept people for who they are. I also told her, it may be the only time she goes, so she should make the most of it. Does anyone have any other suggestions of how i could put her more at ease about it?

[garynudist]

ladies have body issues, so do men, if she has a desire, and not sure going nude around other people, it is best she goes nude at home, as long she is comfortable at being nude at home, time will tell the story, if she she will go nude around others.I see as I read what you are saying, she is unsure what she is doing.Home is a safe place. In time, she will want to go outside and feel the freedom as we all enjoy. I hope this helps, do not push her.yours truly gary

[tinner666]

That's why The Naturist Society brought out, the video Real women, Real Stories. It's probably the most powerful video tape, that I have ever seen, to show any female newcomer to the naturist lifestyle. In a nutshell that video, can do the inviting by it's self. All you have to do is put it into the VCR. Trust me on that one, I have seen it happen.


Whitestokes.

I caught this on another thread. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[dan t]

tinner666, where can one get a copy of Real women, Real Stories?

[EricNY]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dan t:
tinner666, where can one get a copy of Real women, Real Stories? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

The video is available through TNS and can be prchased on line HERE (http://www.naturistsociety.com/shop/detail.jsp?itemId=60842&category=21252)

The Naturist Society (http://www.naturistsociety.com/index.html)

[tinner666]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by ercNY:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dan t:
tinner666, where can one get a copy of Real women, Real Stories? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

The video is available through TNS and can be prchased on line HERE (http://www.naturistsociety.com/shop/detail.jsp?itemId=60842&category=21252)

The Naturist Society (http://www.naturistsociety.com/index.html) </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Thanks for the input. I hadn't seen the question and hadn't even bothered to look the movie up. Again, thanks. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[carbuff]

I love to read stories like this , Gopher good luck and keep us posted.

[Pieguy]

Our grand master plan is working! *thunder and lightning* MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA!

[EricNY]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by gopher:
she said that she is still unsure whether or not she will go nude, or fully nude. She said that she has body image issues but i told her, the people there obviously accept people for who they are. I also told her, it may be the only time she goes, so she should make the most of it. Does anyone have any other suggestions of how i could put her more at ease about it? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

My wife had body issues as well. When we first went to a nudist campground she quickly got over it when she found that she was actually quite normal, and many of the bodies there had the same sags and wrinkles, dimples etc.some even had more

Ever since we went her view on herself was better than I have ever seen. All the issues she had with herself completely disappeared. She is fine with herself now, and I am so happy she finally left her mental baggage behind. She is a better person for it.

I think some people that have never experienced it feel that these places are full of perfect super model types, when in actuality they are full of everyday people with everyday "less than perfect" bodies.

Just get her there, and let her know that no one will make her rip her clothes off, and I think that in her own time (or in no time at all) once she realizes that she is normal and commen she will participate. Just be careful that you don't push too hard too fast. Talk her into being nude around the house and gradually work up from there.

Good luck....she'll thank you for it some day!

[NudeAl]

It's really important not to push her into getting nude, can not over state this point. Let it be her choice. Just comment on how great it is that she is there with you and how greatful you are for the company. If it happens consider that a bonus. Once she is comfortable and feels safe and secure she will likely follow your lead but it may take a little time, or not at all.

[foux003]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Pieguy:
Our grand master plan is working! *thunder and lightning* MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

You shurly can't get a tan in there. So COME ON OUT COLSET NUDISTS COME ON OUT
STEP OUT INTO THE LIGHT AND BE FREE