My Grand 3-Step Plan

[Pieguy]

STEP 1. Get my dad to declare the inside of the house clothing-optional.
STEP 2. Get my dad to allow skinnydipping in the pool.
STEP 3. Get my dad to take my brothers and I to a C/O facility.

Soon we naturists shall rule the world! Bwahahahahaaaaaa!

[Pieguy]

STEP 1. Get my dad to declare the inside of the house clothing-optional.
STEP 2. Get my dad to allow skinnydipping in the pool.
STEP 3. Get my dad to take my brothers and I to a C/O facility.

Soon we naturists shall rule the world! Bwahahahahaaaaaa!

[TV-Pilot]

Pieguy,

Sounds like a good plan. The question I have is how open is your dad to the idea of social nudity around the house and backyard? What about your mom? If they are open to it, you could have the beginning of great family times.

Like your avatar. Is it you or one you found?

Keep up the nude time and share with us how things go with your grand 3-step plan.

[nudenwv]

hahahahah - hang in there. one of those wishes may come true.

[shãybare]

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Exactly how far are you out of the closet? How many family members know you are a nudist? And yes, is there a mom in there somewhere?

[nudeM]

First of all, what is your age? Secondly, is there a Mom in the equation? And thirdly, have you ever mentioned you would like to be nude around the house? Have you ever been naked on occaisions where you were seen by others in the house?

Lots of luck and let us know how things turn out. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

[NudeAl]

I wish you much luck with your grand three step plan. I think this may me much easier that you are making it out to be just gradually begin to do more and more stuff nude, or minimumly dressed. Iin my experinence dads are more inclined to be accepting of simeple nudity than moms anyway. Goodluck

[Nudony]

Pieguy says he is 13, is often nude in his bedroom and typically sleeps nude. It appears his father is fairly accepting of him nude-within the confines of his bedroom. No mention of a mother so far.

Parental support when it comes to a child's nudity can be a tough call. My advice would be to first pursue your current venue to its fullest extent: being nude in the bedroom as much as reasonably possible. If you can get your brother(s) to join you, that will also greatly help your cause (strength in numbers). How your Dad reacts to that will determine whether your are able to pursue your "Grand-master plan."

Good luck.

[fredm74]

That sounds like a great plan. I think some fathers are pretty laid back when it comes to nudity in general, especially if its an all boy household. Your home should be a place where you can be yourself and just be YOU. I hope your Dad is OK with it. Good luck!

-Fred

[Pieguy]

Haha. Obviously my av isn't me- got it from the site. Using it cos i'm so young i feel like a baby. :S My parents are actually divorced. There you go.

[TV-Pilot]

Pieguy,

Thanks for the clarification about the mom. As I understand then, you and your brothers live with your dad. How old are your brothers? Are you the oldest, youngest, or in the middle?

If you are the oldest, I admire your willingness to lead the group into the naturalness of nudity, and even if you are not the oldest, you are showing a leadership ability that will certainly take you far in this world. I encourage you to continue.

As others have asked, how much have you explored the nudist lifestyle with your dad or brothers? Perhaps a man-to-man talk with your dad can open the possibility. Have you let them "accidently" catch you nude slowly walking from the bathroom to your bedroom? Do you share a bedroom with a brother (or three)? Do you sleep in the nude, where possibly a brother or your dad have seen you? These are all good ways to bring up the subject of nudity.

I wish you much luck in pursueing your grand plan and keep us informed as to how it is going. Your experience can certainly be a big help and encouragement to the other young members of the board who find themselves in a similar situation.

[Pieguy]

I am the oldest. Not much into nudism so far- Phase One is still hanging. Haven't let them catch me, but they have seen me plenty of times like when the entire bathroom filled with bubbles and I ran naked through them. (Don't ask where the bubbles came from. Long story.) I have my own room. Naturally I do sleep nude but door is always closed.

[KetchumMaine]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Pieguy:
I am the oldest. Not much into nudism so far- Phase One is still hanging. Haven't let them catch me, but they have seen me plenty of times like when the entire bathroom filled with bubbles and I ran naked through them. (Don't ask where the bubbles came from. Long story.) I have my own room. Naturally I do sleep nude but door is always closed. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

If you are looking for acceptance, why do you keep the door closed? If you truely want to expand your nudity to the whole house, opening the door to your room would be the next step. Also, do you close the door when you shower, or is there more than one person in the bathroom at a time?

[Pieguy]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nudony:
"....able to pursue your "Grand-master plan."

Good luck. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Grand master plan? What grand master plan? I never mentioned a Grand Master Plan. This is about a grand 3-step plan. WHO TOLD YOU ABOUT THE GRAND MASTER PLAN? Now I'll have to move the doomsday device, blow up Death Island AGAIN-oh, it was a typo. Oh. Ok. You didn't hear anything about the doomsday device.

[Pieguy]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by KetchumMaine:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Pieguy:
I am the oldest. Not much into nudism so far- Phase One is still hanging. Haven't let them catch me, but they have seen me plenty of times like when the entire bathroom filled with bubbles and I ran naked through them. (Don't ask where the bubbles came from. Long story.) I have my own room. Naturally I do sleep nude but door is always closed. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

If you are looking for acceptance, why do you keep the door closed? If you truely want to expand your nudity to the whole house, opening the door to your room would be the next step. Also, do you close the door when you shower, or is there more than one person in the bathroom at a time? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

My brothers are always asleep when I shower and I sleep under a doona. I have left my door open once when I was nude and my dad saw but not brothers.

[Petrus]

I wonder whether it is even necessary to discus it, as you are all males together. Why don’t you just take the bold step of walking nude between your bedroom and bathroom and then extend your territory by going nude into the kitchen to get a drink: next stage take the drink into the sitting room and sit down to watch TV? If anybody remarks just say that you are more comfortable nude and you couldn’t imagine they would have a problem with it. I suspect that a lot of people would like to go around nude, but lack the courage to take the first step-I would not be surprised if your father and brothers felt the same.

[Pieguy]

Criminy! The plan can't go ahead until March. The problem isn't with Dad- he in fact used to visit nude beaches in his teens. No, no. Without revealing too much, the PROBLEM is that the Australian judicial system is a bunch of uptight petty conservative JERKS (to put it nicely). Just don't ask!

[Florida Cracker]

Pieguy,
I have confidence that your plan will work for you. I know you said don't ask, but what are you talking about? I don't see how the gov. can have any impact on a plan for in your home? And BTW, you are a funny dude!
Florida Cracker

[Pieguy]

First of all, apologies to any members of the Aussie legal system who are exceptions to the rule.

If you must know.....
My parents are currently settling who gets custody. The case was to be settled by tomorrow, but the judge decided to take a sickie until the end of the week. Now the case is pending till freakin' March. The worst part is that the judicial system is ultra-conservative and might consider naturism "moral danger" and we would have had it. Kaput.

[grl66]

Hey Pieguy, do I take it from what you've said that it would be easier to "come out" living with your dad and you don't want to mess up the time you have with him?

Just wondering coz I'm having the same sort of concerns about the system with my kids and their mum.

[Petrus]

Pieguy,I presume your mother is contesting who has custody of you. If Australian courts are similar to those in the UK, they will give great weight to the wishes of the children, especially at your age. It would seem pointless forcing you to live with your mother, as you will be free to make your own choice in a few months when you reach 16 years old.. I get the impression that your father is not bothered if you go around nude, but feels it prudent to keep a low profile until the custody matter is settled- March is not too long a wait.

I can't imagine anyone at ANY age having to decide which parent they want to live with if they have a good relaltionship with both. For me that choice would have been easy; I would have DEFINITELY gone with my mother. They almost separated once when I was 15 but changed their minds--unfortunately.

[Pieguy]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Petrus:
Pieguy,I presume your mother is contesting who has custody of you. If Australian courts are similar to those in the UK, they will give great weight to the wishes of the children, especially at your age. It would seem pointless forcing you to live with your mother, as you will be free to make your own choice in a few months when you reach 16 years old.. I get the impression that your father is not bothered if you go around nude, but feels it prudent to keep a low profile until the custody matter is settled- March is not too long a wait. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

*cough*Only13yearsold*cough*

[Pieguy]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Jon-Marc:
I can't imagine anyone at ANY age having to decide which parent they want to live with if they have a good relaltionship with both. For me that choice would have been easy; I would have DEFINITELY gone with my mother. They almost separated once when I was 15 but changed their minds--unfortunately. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Yeah, but life stinks sometimes. I wish to live with my father but my mother is all.... sneaky, about how she tries to get what she wants.

Pieguy,

I've been married twice and know how women can be--especially when it comes to their children.

[Kari P]

Pieguy,

At your age you should have much to say about with which parent you want to live. One possible solution is that you live part-time at each of your parents. If you have a good relation with your mother, this could be a compromise that she can accept, and you could practise home nudity when you are with your father.

If your mother or anyone outside of your family doesn't know about your home nudity, it cannot be used in any way in the custody battle. How could they know if you don't tell? And, if even known about sleeping nude or going nude between bedroom and shower, that should be nothing to take into consideration. It's your choice, allowed by your father but not forced on you by him.

[Petrus]

Pieguy, sorry I got your age wrong, but even at 13 years old the courts would have to take serious account of your wishes. Normally when parents split up the children go to live with their mother and it is significant that you all chose to remain with your father. As your father does not appear bothered I cannot see any reason why you cannot go around nude at home all day if you wish. Just keep a bath robe/dressing gown or bath towel handy in case you have a surprise visit, so that you give the appearance of just having a bath/shower. Has you father said that he would prefer you not to go around nude at present until the custody matter is settled?

[Reece852]

Good luck on your plan ^^

*crosses fingers that it all works out*


Now me on the other hand... it might be trickier for me to do a 'plan' http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_razz.gif