new friends

[Nicky]

hey all..my names nicky and i'm 17. i'm a girl nudist, i know they're hard to come by. i have been since i was 14 i think. i have lot's of stuff to talk about if anyone wants. my aim is:

<span class="ev_code_RED">[Email address edited by Moderator, due to under 18 minor status].</span>

The only other thing about me, and maybe i shouldn't say it here, but i'm bi. i hope you'll still talk to me but i wanna be honest w/ you. i'd really like to talk to another girl, even if she's just thinking about nudism, b/c i feel i relate to girls better, but i'll talk to guys also...hope to hear from you.

[Nicky]

hey all..my names nicky and i'm 17. i'm a girl nudist, i know they're hard to come by. i have been since i was 14 i think. i have lot's of stuff to talk about if anyone wants. my aim is:

<span class="ev_code_RED">[Email address edited by Moderator, due to under 18 minor status].</span>

The only other thing about me, and maybe i shouldn't say it here, but i'm bi. i hope you'll still talk to me but i wanna be honest w/ you. i'd really like to talk to another girl, even if she's just thinking about nudism, b/c i feel i relate to girls better, but i'll talk to guys also...hope to hear from you.

[Nature\'s Hangout]

Hi Nicky
Hope you find a lot of friends to chat with , most people here are open and willing to talk.
I would not worry to much about telling your prefrecnes, its out and open, but not like this is a dating board, just a good o'l naturist board.

[pek1]

Welcome aboard, Nicky! Your being "bi" has nothing to do with being nude. I am a Christian, but, does that give me the right to treat you like other Christians probably have already (pun intended)? No, I don't think so. You can post, read everything you want, even look at all the pics (the one to the left is not me, btw).

Also, welcome to you, too, Nature's Hangout! Enjoy!!

I look forward to seeing more posts from the both of you!!

[jon71]

Hi Nicky, Welcome. Feel free to always speak up and make yourself heard. Like Pek I am a Christian who is accepting of people regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or whatever. You are how GOD made you and he made you inerrantly. Again, Welcome. You too Nature's Hangout.

[tidoublegerpb4]

I've had several people AIM me randomly by seeing my profile. If you're not shy, why don't you try looking some folks up at random?

[Sauna]

Here is no reason to be shy. Nobody can see you and nobody knows who you are. After this experience it is easier to go to the beach where it is just the same situation. There is nobody you know and if there is you are lucky when you can safely go to them and talk a little because you are in equal position.

[PaulS]

Hi Nicky, It really doesn't matter. As Sauna said don't be shy.

[Nudeinbama]

And remember, to you young men on the board, Bi, does mean there is still an interest in you guys too...
That being said, A big Welcome to the forum, I hope you'll open up, enjoy yourself, not be afraid to ask questions, and don't be shy...
Nudeinbama

[Danee]

*sigh*....
It doesn't matter (sexual leanings) and we all know bi is a part of each of us growing up but sometimes I tire of the "new newdist, young, and I'm bi/cheerleader/14/15/16/17 wannatalktoanothergirl" posts. Skeptic? Absolutely. Why post a msg. saying you are bi? Now, let the flames begin...

[FireProf]

Bullseye Danee! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[shãybare]

http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif
NO Flames. I agree with you, Danee. This is not a board for picking up dates or the like. This is a great place to learn about naturism and life as a nuturist.

I do accept people for face-value, however, and welcome Nicky to the board. I look forward to your posts to see what type of person you are.

[Sauna]

I agree with Danee and Shaybare. If I have understood it right here are all kind of naturists yet. One more is always welcome.

[Nicky]

geez... i'm not sure i understood what you all were meaning... i only told you that so you'd know before we ever started chatting on aim or whatever.... i figure if i was going to tell you i'd just tell you up front, i didn't mean to cause such a stir about it... if yo uwant to judge me by my posts, be my guest, but all i wanted was to talk to other nudists, since the whole topic is kinda taboo here and there aren't many others who share my views either. combine that with being bi and that makes me kinda lonely. i'm still willing to talk if you are

[Nicky]

one more thing...i wasn't intentionally treating this like a dating board either.

[Shoobie]

Nicky --

People here are very nice but also very protective of not having nudism sullied with sex. Members are quick to rid the place of losers that pretend to be something they are not / looking to get off, who make perverse assumptions about nudity...

Combine that with teens mixing with possible adult predators and so forth, apart from looking out for younger members, then you also have legality issues re what the forum is being used for, even if not promoted by the forum.

So, when a "young, bi F" shows up innocently looking for others to PM them in a first post - well... You get the drift-- its happened before.

That said, you'll help yourself by posting publicly until folks get to know you. Until then, you may find some folks are skeptical. But with genuine interest, most all will be helpful.

Also, young nudists figuring out how to approach this in their community / family is a common thread. Look around a bit, and if you feel like it, add on to those -- you adding on will bring them back to life. Keep in mind, many of us are parents and have that perspective, too.

[Nicky]

i understand shoobie... but what if their "assumptions" or whatever about me turn me off from the whole thing? i just think they should have given me a chance before "assuming" i "could" be some young sicko looking to get off

[Trailscout]

Nicky now you are doing the right thing. You are on this forum talking to people. Keep it up!

We have had some posers who really burned us bad. We've had one person who said she was a woman but was actually a man. Another person used two identities and argued with himself. WEIRD!!!! Not that you are one of them, but everyone's been real suspicious and edgy lately. It's not you. Just keep making friends here. It'll be okay.

[naturalgar]

Well Put Bringing Nicky up to speed on the happenings on this board trailscout!

[Nicky]

just curious...how did you find out about the "imposters"? did they just confess?

[nudistmatt]

Nope, corky or someone found out technically or something. Just follow these rules and you'll survive.

Don't talk about being bi
Don't talk about sex
Don't talk about dating

[Shoobie]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nicky:
i understand shoobie... but what if their "assumptions" or whatever about me turn me off from the whole thing? i just think they should have given me a chance before "assuming" i "could" be some young sicko looking to get off </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

No doubt its a two way street. They really intended no offense to someone legit --besides, life's too short to let that chap your hide, especially when dealing on the internt.

As most have said, stick with it and you'll blend in pretty quickly. Overhwhelmingly you'll find this place as valuable as most genuinely interested folks do. So far i have nothing but good things to say about the regulars.

[Nicky]

after reading it again, maybe my post did sound a little suggestive...i think i cleared most of it up, but the part about me elating to girls better...well, i've never hung out nude with a guy before. plus i hear they have different "guy" problems when they first start sometimes:-) anyway i just wanna be treated like everyone else here...

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Trailscout:
Nicky now you are doing the right thing. You are on this forum talking to people. Keep it up!

We have had some posers who really burned us bad. We've had one person who said she was a woman but was actually a man. Another person used two identities and argued with himself. WEIRD!!!! Not that you are one of them, but everyone's been real suspicious and edgy lately. It's not you. Just keep making friends here. It'll be okay. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

I remember the two identities, but don't recall the man presenting as a woman.

[Naturist Mark]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Oldman:
I remember the two identities, but don't recall the man presenting as a woman. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Sarah (female) and Micah (male) were the same person.

Rocket (Male?), Scud (Male?), SandyK (female), and SpanishGuy (male) were all the same person. This person spent the most time posting as a female, but I suspect she was a male; At one time while posting as SandyK she displayed ignorance about how a tampon is worn ...

-Mark

[dancin\'bare]

This is really getting ridiculous.This web site is meant to share information about a nudist lifestyle-run by young people-and to encourage young people.But if I was a young female I don't think I would ever post here.It seems people doubt without giving them a chance and run them off.It started with Adelle (but that was the moderators decision which I understand)and Kim and now Nicky.I defenitely agree that imposters are dangerous to a point but if a 13,14 or 15 yr.old was to post here who is more vulnerable?A young girl who asked a question or a 40-something yr.old who felt decieved because he wasn't talking to a young girl.Let the moderators do their job and let it be.

[jon71]

Nicky, I hope you aren't scared off. We are a good bunch overall. Just be yourself and don't worry about anything else. As long as you are real and don't flame we will accept you. On some threads we argue but disagreement isn't the same as nonacceptance. Again welcome, and feel free to speak up.

[Danee]

It is getting ridiculous, I agree. And yet another suggestive lead-in. As I said, let the flames begin, and they did. Wonderful. "Nicky" you have rec'd some good advice, some background, some reasoning. I am as liberal as they come, believe me about any subject. However I stand by my original post. Done.

[dancin\'bare]

You know, Danee you are getting more doubtful about people which isn't a bad thing.The only thing I question is :You have been a nudist all your life and I think of you as an ambassador to all young women interested in naturism.You have great insight and experience to share.Maybe try and feel people out before you jump to conclusions.I'm sorry if I'M wrong about 1st impressions,but I try to give people the benefit of doubt.And I'm also sorry if I put you in a role(ambassador) you don't want to undertake.

[Trailscout]

Beachlovers and Mountain Man were the same person. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde were... wait a minute that was in a book, not here on this forum! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[jon71]

Some people claim that Superman and Clark Kent are the same person but Clark wears glasses so probably not.

[DoctorSurferDude]

Welcome back Danee....long time no post.

There is this sort of etiquette when it comes to addressing cross-dressers. They seem to like to be refered to as "she" even though they are male. Since they went through all the trouble of arranging to be percieved as a female, the polite thing to do is apease them and just say "she".

.....but it doesn't mean I don't think they're MALE.

I've been doing the online/internet/aol/yahoo thing since the time Nicky was starting kindergarden. I think Danee may be able to say the same. It is absolutely nothing personal, it's just that a person learns from the mistakes of their past and I've found that there MUST be a certain level of skepticism of those online if you are to remain safe.

So I'm with Danee on this, only because the "just underage, bi, nudist, female" combo has been used and abused so so so many times that I've grown callused.

BUT...that being said, if you want to be she, I'll call you she. If you want to be he, I'll call you he. I don't care if you are a male or female, 80 or 14, obese or a supermodel.....you are a MIND with an OPINION and that is all that really matters on here.

So Nicky....welcome to the forum! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[PaulS]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">the benefit of doubt </div></BLOCKQUOTE> is always good, but lets hear from Nicky or who ever she/he is!

[Nudeinbama]

AS always Doctorsurferdude, Well stated, and I agree with you.This is a place for people to communicate, ask questions and express their thoughts,there should be less judging of all the young posters. I just hope they'll deserve that respect.
Nudeinbama

[Nicky]

i'm almost sorry i ever said anything now... would it have been better if i had said, hi how are all of you and let you ask me if i'm a girl, how old, or whatever? is that some etiquette rule i broke and now the damage is irreversable? i'm sorry, if you can't trust me maybe i'll just go away. remember, however, that you didn't chase me, i left of my own will. this isn't worth it and i'll try it all on my own, which is a little boring sometimes. to those who tried to be nice and give me a chance, thank you, to the others...i can really only think of one...and i mean NO disrespect, but don't you feel like a minority too, and don't you like talking about nudist experiences and how you started and all that? anyway, i'm sorry if i offended any of you all. i tried my best

one more thing...in regards to DoctorSurferDude 's post...since i'd still like to post here, maybe i'll try back in a few months as a 30 year old male...that may work. anyway i mean no disrespect, but still...

and i never flamed anything i was just kidding around if i do post again, i guess i'll watch what i say. no jokes...someone might get ofended

[carbuff]

Nicky,

I hope you come back to read these messages .Please dont run off this is a great place to share your thoughts and adventures . Just give it a chance you will like it .
Hoping to see futeure posts from you .

[JayFromFLA]

Add me to the "I don't buy it" list. Sorry, skeptic from the day I was born... or was I really born? Is this site real?

[Unwired]

Yeah, I'm going to have to concur with the skeptics on this one. The "hi, I'm a teenaged/bi nudist girl, anyone (especially gurlz) wanna chat?" routine is really starting to get old. (Hee hee http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif ) http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif



Unwired, still unconvinced

[Naturist Mark]

Oh come on people. There is no reason to suspect anyone of being anything other than what they claim to be until their actual behavior suggests otherwise.

Nicky, welcome to our suspicious little circle of nudists. Don't let them skeptics get yer goat. Ask anything you like, we're pretty nice once you get to know us.

-Mark

[Nicky]

i wasn't going to, but reading these make me so mad... i just wanna know...do you believe that such a "combo" can exist? i guess not. couldn't you even give me a chance? i'm not asking you to believe me yet, just can't we talk about normal things, and i'll prove that i'm more than what you think

[jon71]

I believe you and I welcome you. People come in all shapes, sizes and combinations. I hope you give us a chance and the vast majority of us will give you a chance. As was mentioned the forum had a bump on the road or two recently and you're a victim of bad timing as much as anything. I hope you choose to stay and make your voice heard. Over time I'm sure you will sway the doubters.

[jon71]

P.s. feel free to p.m. about anything. I like penpaling and I know plenty of others on the forum who are accepting too.

[l2ltlarry]

Lily Tomlin once said, "When it comes to being cynical, you're never going to be able to keep up." How much of what's happening in our responses to each other is just healthy skepticism and and how much crosses the line into cynicism? To me, being cynical means being "simply unconvincible", (to borrow the metre from Robert Palmer's song 'Simply Irresistible'). I don't think that's a good thing. Being hard to convince is one thing; being impossible to convince is something else.

Back in the old days, a few months ago, the posters on this board had wide-ranging and deep discussions and with only a few notable exceptions, nobody got mad at anyone. Now it seems that everybody is so very sensitive. And almost everything is considered out of bounds by someone. Gosh, you guys were lots more fun way back when.

[fladan]

Yup! Hey Nicky Post to your heart's content and have fun.

As far as the other junk in the past with the other posters , forget about it already whats done is done. Hey all in all this is an internetmessage board no one is solving world hunger here.

lighten up Have fun

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by l2ltlarry:
Lily Tomlin once said, "When it comes to being cynical, you're never going to be able to keep up." How much of what's happening in our responses to each other is just healthy skepticism and and how much crosses the line into cynicism? To me, being cynical means being "simply unconvincible", (to borrow the metre from Robert Palmer's song 'Simply Irresistible'). I don't think that's a good thing. Being hard to convince is one thing; being impossible to convince is something else.

Back in the old days, a few months ago, the posters on this board had wide-ranging and deep discussions and with only a few notable exceptions, nobody got mad at anyone. Now it seems that everybody is so very sensitive. And almost everything is considered out of bounds by someone. Gosh, you guys were lots more fun way back when. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[Swanee]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nicky:
hey all..my names nicky and i'm 17. i'm a girl nudist, i know they're hard to come by. i have been since i was 14 i think. i have lot's of stuff to talk about if anyone wants. my aim is NickyNudie87.
the only other thing about me, and maybe i shouldn't say it here, but i'm bi. i hope you'll still talk to me but i wanna be honest w/ you. i'd really like to talk to another girl, even if she's just thinking about nudism, b/c i feel i relate to girls better, but i'll talk to guys also...hope to hear from you. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
Hi from Australia, i hope you enjoy the site. I'm sure you will fit right in.

[BaronVonchesto]

hello people! Im 16(will be..not just yet) n m male. Haha sorry if this sounds like one a those date finder thingies or sumthin but i really couldnt think of any other way to say it. BTW im a closet nudist cuz being in Malaysia there aint any places that i can go n society here is pretty much closed up. i hav 1 friend that agrees with nudism n openess but we havent got on the boat to the nudist direction yet.(if you know what i mean) yet i can safely guess that hez a closet nudist too!. Anywayz.... enough about him. Just felt like posting so thats wat im doing.
Sad to say that my parents, my mom especially are all closed up.(my dad aint soo much wen it comes to guys only) n with the coming of my maid, i dont have any chances to actually be nude anymore cause she is always at home. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
well can't really think of anything to say right now so ciao!

[bossman]

The identidy one adopts here is unimportant just as the screen name that one uses. With the proper education of our children, making them more aware, the chance that 40yr old pediphiles can simply adopt the 17yr/f/bi persona and lure young girls out to prey on them is very low. So y condemn nicky? because we will most likely never meet in person it doesnt matter who we truly are for all u guys noe I can be the 17yr/f/bi LoL juss respect each other as we present ourselves no use speculating cuz there is if they haf deviant goals, they will b rooted out quickly by the admin anyway

[pek1]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nicky:
i wasn't going to, but reading these make me so mad... i just wanna know...do you believe that such a "combo" can exist? i guess not. couldn't you even give me a chance? i'm not asking you to believe me yet, just can't we talk about normal things, and i'll prove that i'm more than what you think </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Nicky,

I am giving you a chance. By the way, did I mention to you that I am partially deaf and have a hearing dog? No, I did not...because it is not important in being a naturist. Being a naturist has NOTHING to do with sex or anyone's sexual orientation. It also has nothing to do with a person's disability (being gay or bi is NOT a disability). You can go back to your original post and click on the the delete/edit to take it out, because, seriously, it doesn't matter here. When I started here the tail end of December, just 2 1/2 months ago, I never even mentioned being partially deaf and wearing two hearing aid, accompanied by a service dog. Get over the anger, no one's mad.

However.......I have talked personally with Corky and was thoroughly explained the episode with Adelle. She is gone, cio, probably not coming back, get over it people...plus, she had x-rated links on her website, a big "no-no" here. Tsk, Tsk.

[fred950]

Nicky, Pete is right. Without re-hashing what was said by the others, sexual orientation of others means nothing to me. I am truely sorry if some of the posters made you feel uncomfortable. Please keep on posting. I, for one, look forward to hearing what you may have to say.

BTW, could you please explian to this computer know-nothing just what AIM is?

[DoctorSurferDude]

Nicky,

The goal of my last post was to be completely honest with you about why myself and others may be skeptical. I'm sorry if my words discouraged you.

Just remember....you don't have to answer to or prove anything to me or anybody else on here. You are who you are no matter who you are http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

I hope you'll contribute your thoughts and opinions on other topics in the forum and not take all this too personally. Afterall...can any of us really prove our claimed existance on here? hehe.

[Nicky]

as i said, i only put that there b/c i felt it was a pertinent piece of info about my life, however, due to better discretion, i shall remove my original post.

[Cinnamon Alice]

Well, I don't know if you're on right now or not, but I'll add you to my buddy list either way.

We have at least 3 things in common and I would like to talk to you. Laters.

Alice

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nicky:
hey all..my names nicky and i'm 17. i'm a girl nudist, i know they're hard to come by. i have been since i was 14 i think. i have lot's of stuff to talk about if anyone wants. my aim is NickyNudie87.
the only other thing about me, and maybe i shouldn't say it here, but i'm bi. i hope you'll still talk to me but i wanna be honest w/ you. i'd really like to talk to another girl, even if she's just thinking about nudism, b/c i feel i relate to girls better, but i'll talk to guys also...hope to hear from you. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[Sanslines]

Those who are social nudists that go to nudist resorts and beaches pick up on certain characteristics of nudism fast. One of those characteristics that I consistently find is that most nudist resorts are places where people are just themselves. The atmosphere is generally free of pretense and game playing. People talk and say what they mean. You can also see that in this forum. The genuine nudists tend to say what they think. Agree with someone or not, at least you have to respect somoene for sharing their honest opinion. People will get to know you here by sharing your thoughs and opinions. Fakers will always play games and are always discovered in time.

[JoshuaZ]

Hey all. I'm 21 (almost 22) year old male in Lincoln, Nebraska. Wondering if there are any other nudists in Nebraska that would like to get together and do something. Could watch movies or just chill out.

jozimmer@bigred.unl.edu

[florida-david]

people on this site a re sceptical and jumpy. i think we all need to get out of the hosue and away from our computer. i for one believe people until proven otherwise. i have been jumped on before by the wacky people on this site; had i been a teenage female, i would have left. but i stay around to try and answer people's questions, wether they are who they say they are or not.

you people need to be a little nicer.....

[nudist_teen_03]

sup nicky i am 15 from canada

[Matt in Sydney]

Hi Nicky.

I'm Matt from Sydney, Australia. Would love to chat with you if you want. Feel free to write back to me if you want to chat.

Cya

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Nicky:
hey all..my names nicky and i'm 17. i'm a girl nudist, i know they're hard to come by. i have been since i was 14 i think. i have lot's of stuff to talk about if anyone wants. my aim is:

<span class="ev_code_RED">[Email address edited by Moderator, due to under 18 minor status].</span>

The only other thing about me, and maybe i shouldn't say it here, but i'm bi. i hope you'll still talk to me but i wanna be honest w/ you. i'd really like to talk to another girl, even if she's just thinking about nudism, b/c i feel i relate to girls better, but i'll talk to guys also...hope to hear from you. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[bodyrocker]

Hey Nicky

I'm 17 aswell and am new. I'm from the UK. Feel free to talk or email me whenever about anything.

Ben

[richiee]

Hello all,
i see like me you are new to this as well, please fell free to reply, email, what ever.

Many thanks all


Richiee

[JaxJ]

I'm Steffen from Germany. I'm 26 years old and I'd like to find some frinds to from around the world. All my friends here are not into nudism.