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Hey fellow youth naturist, RT here again
I'm after some friendly advice about forming a relationship with a fellow youth naturist.
There is a cute girl that is always at the beach when I go and she always says hello to me and has a bit of a chat about various current events going on here in Sydney. We talked about the rugby last Saturday for about 20 minutes, when another fellow youth naturist joined in the conversation she walked away back to her group of friends.
I think she wants me to ask her out but I don't know how to aproach the situation. Every time I build up the courage to ask her out a mate always comes and joins the conversation and she walkes away.
What can I do, I really like her and I think she likes me but ....
Any advice would be very much appreciated.
RT
Hey fellow youth naturist, RT here again
I'm after some friendly advice about forming a relationship with a fellow youth naturist.
There is a cute girl that is always at the beach when I go and she always says hello to me and has a bit of a chat about various current events going on here in Sydney. We talked about the rugby last Saturday for about 20 minutes, when another fellow youth naturist joined in the conversation she walked away back to her group of friends.
I think she wants me to ask her out but I don't know how to aproach the situation. Every time I build up the courage to ask her out a mate always comes and joins the conversation and she walkes away.
What can I do, I really like her and I think she likes me but ....
Any advice would be very much appreciated.
RT
Hey RT,
If she talked to you for 20 minutes, than I am sure she could be interested. Also, she walked away when other people arrived, which would not only imply that she is a little shy around you, but also that you were the one she was interested in, which is why she left!
Maybe you could invite her to a rugby match or some such sports related event in order to guage her feelings about you a little more. You ought to make sure that there is a group of you there though if you are not sure, just in case, and your friends would probabaly be able to tell if she likes you or not better than you, as they will be seeing the way the two of you behave from a neutral perspective.
I know it may seem difficult to approach her to ask her out (and believe me I am never exactly Mr Confidence in these situations either), but sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and go for it. What can you lose? - nothing. Moreover, you will be gaining a friend whatever happens, as you can be sure that she likes you in that way already.
I hope this all makes sense and is helpful. Keep us posted, I love stories like this!
SS22
Thanks to all who sent me private messages with advice, it was all awesome advice, thanks a heap.
Well, I just got home from Cobblers Beach with my best non naturist friend Matt and all I can say
is Whooooo Hoooooo. It was an awesome day both weather wise and girl wise.
I'm on a hot date tonight with that cute girl I fancy so much. I just had to tell you all before I jump in the shower and spruce my self up.
Six of us are going out to the flicks then out for Pizza and a few beers after.
Thanks a heap guys. You are all way cool.
RT
RT with an update on the cute young naturist at the local nude beach, for those interested.
We went out alone last night to the movies and dinner after, had a totally awesome time with her (Kate). She talked me into going shopping with her today,I hate shopping !
Well, thats the latest, thanks again for all the advice.
RT, signing off to go spruce my self up so i can go shopping, mmmm. That would have to be a first, spruce up to go shopping.
Peace to all and
Aaron
09-30-2002, 08:56 PM
RT,
whats up dude! Its Aaron. Sorry I haven't got back to you in a while, I have been bed ridden with the flu for about two weeks. Hey man that is really cool that you found yourself a cute girl that is already in to naturism we're all happy for you here at headquaters. If I find a girl to settle with I usually have to intoduce her to the lifestyle. We are all still looking foward to your arrival into the states at the begining of November man. Also, Batimus wanted me to tell you that he hasen't been able to respond to your emails or get a hold of you through the forums because his computer crashed on him last week. He has a new one being delivered tomorrow (SEpt. 1st). So good luck with the young girl and we'll keep in touch throughout the month. Later dude
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