18-35 at Haulover

[nude305]

Anyone in the 18-35 age group intersted in meeting up at Haulover? I love to go there but find it hard to meet people my own age their.

tyler

[nude305]

Anyone in the 18-35 age group intersted in meeting up at Haulover? I love to go there but find it hard to meet people my own age their.

tyler

[PascoDoug]

Maybe it would be easier if you included males in your search for nudist friends

Or are single males poisonous? http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/beam.gif

[DoctorSurferDude]

I'm part of a couple, but...with your "must be a female present" approach, I'd find it hard to meet you too.


I was a single male though....I know the phobia and how "other single males" can be. I'd recommend finding a fun friend who may not be a nudist, somebody you trust, male or female, tell them about your interest in nudism, and see if they take the bait. You might be suprised to find that the company you'll keep....and a nudist you might find....is among the freinds you already have.

[nude305]

I'm not homophobic and do have male friends that I do things with on a regular basis. My hangup with meeting single men on the internet is that many have hit on me, asked if I'm bi, offered sexual favors stuff like that. I'm not saying any male responding to this on here is bi/gay, this forum may be different then the ones I experienced in the past. I dont mean to pre-judge its just because of my past experience. I do enjoy haulover though because for the most part I dont have is issue at all. I'm well aware that there and numerous gay/bi men there. The generally hang out at their own section, and dont go around hitting on people. The only time I can recall getting hit on at the beach was when I stayed till after sunset and one offered me a "massage" back at his place. I have also been offered oral sex. I have nothing against gay or bi men, but I understand how single females that go to Haulover feel when guys come up to them and hit on them. I have no problem taling to other people including men when I'm nude and they are as well, as long as no one is hitting on anyone. I do love to meet new friends, especially those who share my interests.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
I'm part of a couple, but...with your "must be a female present" approach, I'd find it hard to meet you too.


I was a single male though....I know the phobia and how "other single males" can be. I'd recommend finding a fun friend who may not be a nudist, somebody you trust, male or female, tell them about your interest in nudism, and see if they take the bait. You might be suprised to find that the company you'll keep....and a nudist you might find....is among the freinds you already have. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[John Spooner]

Dear Doctor and Mr. Doug.
Agree with your comments, the gentleman does seem to be discriminating against single males which is unfortunate.
Regards. John S.

[nude305]

You guys have brought up some very good points. By eliminating single males I was discriminating. As a single male myself I would not like to be discriminated against. This is a problem with certain nudist reorts I try to go to. They only allow males as part of a couple or have a "quota" on single males. I'd love to meet nudist friends male or female. I go to Haulove once a week if I can. I edited my origional post. I have to realize like these nudist clubs who discriminate against single men, that not every single man has some alterantive agenda. I have had my bad experinces with single men, but I realize this is not the norm, and is the exception rather than the rule.

[Trailscout]

nude305,

My friendships with single males have led to dates with their sisters or friend of a girlfriend. Just get out there and make friends.

By the way, the uglier your buddy, the prettier his sister. The theory is that a man and wife can only produce so much beauty and ugliness in their children. If one child gets all the genes for ugly, the remaining child gets all the genes for good looks!

[DoctorSurferDude]

I understand your plight Nude305....

I was actually in your very shoes a decade ago. I was a new nudist who knew no other nudists, doing the tango with single-male resort policies and wishing for at least one nudist FEMALE friend who could save me from the discrimination and legitimize my presence on a beach or at a resort. I too became very turned off to the idea of meeting single males for the same reasons you have....cause most of the, unfortunately, seemed to want to meet me for their own "motives".

The wing-dinger and the final betrayal of state is that you too...are indeed a single male.

So basicly you're not going to earn a ton of trust by sending out a mass request for company, and that trust will be even more questioned by limiting the company to necessary females (even though I understand your reasons). It is difficult being a single male.

But like I suggested before.....chances are somebody you know or talk with is already a nudist waiting to happen. So....don't let your singledom stop you from going to haulover, and don't let another dude's singledom stop you from striking up a conversation. Forgive the swingers and soliciters....they are fools and are truely missing out on the bigger picture. And keep up the search....chances are your company is much closer than you think.

[DoctorSurferDude]

Also....don't limit your age range. Most nudists are well beyond 18-35. Older nudists are awsome company and they are gurus who can teach you so much that there is to be learned about nudism. They also have kids, and grand kids.

The second nudist friend I ever made was a lady probably in her late 40's or early 50's. She was awesome and she was the social butterfly that I was not....so she seemed to know half the people on the beach, young and old.

[Pete Knight]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
But like I suggested before.....chances are somebody you know or talk with is already a nudist waiting to happen. So....don't let your singledom stop you from going to haulover, and don't let another dude's singledom stop you from striking up a conversation. Forgive the swingers and soliciters....they are fools and are truely missing out on the bigger picture. And keep up the search....chances are your company is much closer than you think.


Also....don't limit your age range. Most nudists are well beyond 18-35. Older nudists are awsome company and they are gurus who can teach you so much that there is to be learned about nudism. They also have kids, and grand kids.

The second nudist friend I ever made was a lady probably in her late 40's or early 50's. She was awesome and she was the social butterfly that I was not....so she seemed to know half the people on the beach, young and old. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

All great advice, and although I'm at the wrong end of the age sprectrum, I too find myself single and looking for someone special, but I don't limit my nudist friends to females, because as the Doc says, the guys are often the connection to single girls.

As for the "swingers and soliciters", they can be tiresome, but don't let them get you down, there are far more decent naturists well worth waiting to meet than there are fools, get naked and enjoy.

Pete Knight