Resort next thing

[JohnE44]

I enjoy being a nudest most of the time I spend doing things nude around the house I enjoy hiking a few times. But this summer I plan to go to a resort.Here is the thing I have never been with outher nudest from different photos i have seen looks like a lot of fun but most photos show people that look like they know each outher I will be going by my self and i am wondering if tis easy to fit in .

[JohnE44]

I enjoy being a nudest most of the time I spend doing things nude around the house I enjoy hiking a few times. But this summer I plan to go to a resort.Here is the thing I have never been with outher nudest from different photos i have seen looks like a lot of fun but most photos show people that look like they know each outher I will be going by my self and i am wondering if tis easy to fit in .

[goofyone]

John, I myself have been to 1 beach, and 3 different campgrounds. The beach was by myself, and 2 of the campgrounds were with my wife, but she stayed in the camper, so when I was away from the camper it was like I was by myself. Every time people were very friendly and welcoming. The last campground that we went to everyone was GREAT which is why we eventually joined and got a seasonal site.

But in general, people are great at the resorts.

[justnude]

I have visited our local club many times both with my family and a a single. I have always found everyone to be very friendly and conversations easy to start up. I am sure you will be welcomed to join in the vb game etc. Just go and have fun

[nudenwv]

it is very easy to fit in. just walk around and talk with as many as you can. you'll find nudist don't turn you away as textiles. they are more social. when my wife and i went to our first resort i was going around the pool talking to people that were relaxing reading a book.not one turned me away. they talked then went back to reading after a conversation.

[shãybare]

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Yes, we nudists are very sociable and friendly. Just go and introduce yourself to others.

[Bare in the Desert]

On our first resort visit we didnt know anyone. We just stayed near the pool where the majority of the people were and ended up talking to lots of people, even got some pie recipes. Made us feel welcome and comfortable to be there.

Keep in mind that if you stay away from the crowd they will assume you wanna be alone and will not approach you.

[NudeAl]

JohnE44,

I would say it is worth your time to call ahead and make sure they will allow you in. Some places have restrictive policies about single males as I'm sure you have heard. Second get yourself a membership in a national organization such as AANR if you want access it can help open the door. Finally just talk to them on the phone and expain how you are feeling. If you come across as a open honest guy just feeling a little apprehensive about your first visit I think they will be willing to try and make you feel at home. Now all that being said I have heard that some places will not allow a single male in no matter what.

[NudePete]

John E,

My first public foray into social naturism was to start visiting our local C.O. beach (it's great!). But when I go I am resigned to the fact that I am going for nude time, not to find companionship. (Honey, I'm home. Look who I picked up at the beach today! - not).

The next step I took was to start attending nude swims organized by a local non-landed (travel) nudist club. Again, I go not to make friends, but for the nude time. And it is great for that. The regulars are sort of clique-y, but of course its hard to have long conversations when you are doing laps. I do note however that several people are beginning to exchange a few words with me at each visit as I become familliar to them.

If you have the opportunity of having a singles-friendly nudist swim club nearby, consider giving that a try, rather then signing up/paying for a full day or weekend at a resort. Beaches are nice too.

[tanallover]

It's like any other event you'll attend. Some folks will be more friendly and some will keep to themselves.
I've been to four clubs by myself. Two I made friends at and the others I kept to myself and walked their trails or took a canoe out on the lake. My choice of activities and lack of folks on the trail didn't lend itself to making new friends.

[Bob S.]

John, don't look at them as nudists, see them as people. Meeting and getting to know other people is easier to imagine than neeting and getting to know other nudists.

Just act as you do with clothes on. Be yoursel and if your are amiable and sociable, you will meet people.

And don't fret over the pics. How often do you find pictures of strangers behaving awkwardly toward each other? Of course the pics will show friends having fun. That's the point.

Bob S.

[JohnE44]

Thanks everyone for the advice I plan to go around may or so seems like that when everything opens up here in Pa Let you know how it works out

[nekkidincville]

hi i am new to this web site. i recently moved from oregon to virginia. before leaving oregon, i had started to become a nudist. i found that at c.o. beaches, people will leave you to yourself if you stay to yourself. if you walk about, and greet people with a smile and "hello", they will usually strike up conversation. across the states, i began to explore a little more freedom. i went nude at every possible moment... not to be seen, so much as to be free. i camped the whole way, and not once did i run into anyone who felt uncomfortable about my nakedness. most poeple would leave me to myself, unless i said "hello" then they would come into my area and hang by the fire, and chat a bit. good luck. enjoyhttp://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

[cigarhog]

You will be amazed how easy it is to fit in. You can stay to yourself or you can mix right in. You will find that nudists are just people like any other group of people.

Read up on the particular resorts etiquette & rules & you will have a great time

Bruce