hello all young nudists

[MasterPeter]

Hello I am a home nudist from New Jersey. I am only 16 and I am looking for young nudists to talk to. I would prefer people from 15-21 to talk to. I know this is isn't the meet friends forum, but a lot of young people come here so I'm posting here. If anyone wants to talk contact my at my email address is hairjoe123@yahoo.com, and my screename is MasterLordFire. I would prefer you to contact me by screename because it's somewhat like talking, but hey if you can't you can't.

[MasterPeter]

Hello I am a home nudist from New Jersey. I am only 16 and I am looking for young nudists to talk to. I would prefer people from 15-21 to talk to. I know this is isn't the meet friends forum, but a lot of young people come here so I'm posting here. If anyone wants to talk contact my at my email address is hairjoe123@yahoo.com, and my screename is MasterLordFire. I would prefer you to contact me by screename because it's somewhat like talking, but hey if you can't you can't.

[nudeinfl]

Welcome MasterPeter. Glad to see another young person entering our lifestyle. It is good for you to regularly check this part of the forum and find those in your age group. You can PM them at anytime. Great way to make new contacts which develop into friendships.

I look forward to seeing your posts.

[littlebitshy]

I'm very new to this and I have been getting alot of resistance from my boyfriend, he dosen't see how its not sexual...Im a decent looking 25 year old...and he is very worried of losing me, when all I really want is some friends to talk to about having fun and being nude....any ideas?

[namedun]

Holy crap! Get rid of him or explain to him how rare and awsome a young female nudist is.

[littlebitshy]

Thank you ..but I was more looking for help on how to make him more keen to the idea. (im damn cute too)

[JayFromFLA]

I think the only way is to show him? What if you offer to do something he's been wanting to do (go to a race, boxing match, etc. with him) in exchange for this?

[Cal Cajun]

Very sage advice Jay

[Trailscout]

littebit,

The biggest fear is fear of the unknown. I am assuming that you want to go to a nudist resort with him. If you can ever get him to go, he will see for himself that neither of you are the center of attention. People will be swimming, playing sports, taking in some sun, cooking out, kids will be running all over the green, just like any other summer campground with a slight difference in wardrobe. But he's got to see that for himself. His imagination must be working overtime!

[Rex]

Hi littlebitshy, [Wow, what a lovely name!]

If your guy feels insecure, just give him lots of love, support, encouragement, and compliments.
[And expect the same back!]

But if he's jealous, for no good reason, then watch out.

I was divorced from my first wife, [basically incompatible personalities], when I met Kathy, at a dance. She was very beautiful, knew how to wear sexy, elegant clothes to full advantage, and was naturally confident and outgoing.

She was separated from a very jealous husband, who should never have married an attractive, eye-catching woman.

His irrational jealousy led to Kathy having a difficult time, in many ways.

I'm not jealous. Kathy and I encouraged each other, and we had a very loving 22 years together.

I lost Kathy almost 2 years ago. I forced myself to go out and socialise, and have had a very sweet lady friend since last September.

Emiko is Japanese, and led a very restricted life, before she divorced her husband.

She had not been paid any compliments, all through her marriage, and seemed to think she did not have "whatever it would take" to hold me.

I put her right on that. She's gorgeous, in all sorts of ways, and I constantly tell her so.

We all need love, in words and in actions.
We all need understanding, and support, and honesty.
And we all just love compliments.

I hope some of this makes sense to you, littlebitshy, and you have my best wishes.

[EricNY]

Hi littlebitshy...instead of dumping him encourage him to try at least one nude experience, once he tries it he may want to continue. I am also from Upstate NY, here is a local club full of great people.

http://www.geocities.com/NorthernExposureSunClub/

Good luck
ercNY

[Dawg]

Hey there Littlebit!
I think you should take it slow with him. If it is new to you i bet it is even newer and foreign to him. You two obviously have a connection don't ruin it over a single issue. But also don't let him keep you from your interests, they are what makes you ... well... you!

[Trailscout]

Rex, I gotta take your side on this one. Unfounded jealousy is a showstopper for me. I was flattered by it at first, but then I realized what a prison it put me in. I also realized that it was not my fault that she acted that way; I never gave the girl a reason to be jealous. It was all in her mind. I took the first train out of town and never looked back. There are lots of gals who are not the jealous type. (And the same is true for men too).

[Bob S.]

Oh, jealousy for me couldn't have look any cuter. There was a girl who was very much in love with me. She wanted to be with me whenever she could, and I adored her, too. But it soon got to the point of her being a bit too possessive of me. She wouldn't even let me be with any other girl without sulking by herself.

Alas, she has moved on. But what an adorable six-year-old. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Now to reply to shy,

Have you gone naked around him? Maybe you could invite him to come here and at other nudist sites to let him see for himself that it is not sexual. Of course, that is something that will be hard to cleanse him of.

What exactly have you done in nudism? Have you gone to any nude beaches or nude parks? If not, he has nothing to worry unless he is seeing the nudism as a threat to his own beliefs.

This is going to be a tricky situation. Trying to get him to disbelieve what he believes, but it is possible. Just take it slowly. Introduce him to nudism in small ways. And you may want to go to www.aanr.com (http://www.aanr.com) and look for a non-landed group in your area (if there is one). Just click on the Clubs link on the left side of the page, then click on the NY link.

Bob S.

[trailracer88]

I'm 15 years old from maryland, i'm male and i love to chat.

[florida-david]

heck, take him to any nudist event and he will see nudism is mostly an over 50 crowd and he will feel like a king with a beautiful young woman. he will quickly realize nudity is not about sex and that 99% of nudists are really interested in your mind, not your body...