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walter05

08-08-2007, 06:48 AM

We have several threads focusing on attracting new nudists. We also have threads wondering what it will take to get more acceptance for nudism.

Zammit registered on July 27. He has been on the forums for two weeks. He is told he has a stupid post, a trick question, etc.

Y'all claim that no one cares. However, there are long threads talking about circumcision or not. There are also long threads talking about erections. It is clear that nudists do look and do care.

If you want to attract more people to nudism, you need to be inviting. In order to be inviting, you have to accept all questions, even those already addressed.

For Zammit;

If you want to send me a private message, I will attempt to help answer any questions without criticism.

As far as your question is concerned, one's penis has a variety of states and sizes. Erection or not, temperature, coming out of water, etc. affect penis size. If someone sees your penis, that person will not really know what the size is. Therefore, don't worry about it.

For everyone else;

If you want to attract new people to nudism, you must be inviting. Please be warm and gracious to new nudists.

simonsebs

08-08-2007, 08:02 AM

Originally posted by walter05:
We have several threads focusing on attracting new nudists. We also have threads wondering what it will take to get more acceptance for nudism.

Zammit registered on July 27. He has been on the forums for two weeks. He is told he has a stupid post, a trick question, etc.

Y'all claim that no one cares. However, there are long threads talking about circumcision or not. There are also long threads talking about erections. It is clear that nudists do look and do care.

If you want to attract more people to nudism, you need to be inviting. In order to be inviting, you have to accept all questions, even those already addressed.

For everyone else;

If you want to attract new people to nudism, you must be inviting. Please be warm and gracious to new nudists.

You have to understand that there are some grizzled veterans on this board. When you've been here for a long time some questions start to get redundant. Topics about the penis being the most often.

The reason I think some people have said what they have is out of worry. If a person visiting the forum sees numerous topics devoted to penis size, erections, and shaving they'll think thats all nudists care about. You're right that we should be nicer to people, but after awhile it gets to be too much. Also, not to sound like a jerk, but a quick search of the forum would have given the answers he was looking for.

But in closing, from what I understand no one cares about it. If a person gives you crap about the size of your penis then they're not a true nudist and you shouldn't be bothered with them. Be happy with what God gave you. Because as small as you think you are, there is probably someone out there even smaller.

David77

08-08-2007, 08:16 AM

Physical anthropology is a branch of anthropology which is concerned with the physical attributes of all groups of persons around the entire world. Thus they measure persons body parts around the world. They find that there is a high correlation between length of penis and length of thumb.

However, you may simply come from "a long line of short penises" in your family.

If you are fat, the suprapubic area of fat may lop over your penis making it merely appear short.

P.S.
Definition of Physical Anthropology
The scientific study of the physical characteristics, variability, and evolution of the human organism.

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All physical variations are accepted at nudist venues, and there are "all" variations.

walter05

08-08-2007, 08:20 AM

Simonsebs;

As usual, you make some valid points.

I just want people to be more civil and welcoming.

I agree with your statement that people don't care. I also agree that no one would say anything about it.

As has been pointed out the Frequently Asked Questions section is not working. Perhaps if it was visible, someone could get the question answered without starting a new, redundant topic.

Also, I think that the moderators could take a post of a new topic, and if they see that it is related to an older topic, add a post that the post was being copied to that topic and close the new topic. After a sufficient amount of time, the new topic would be deleted.

This would enable someone to get his question answered either from the frequently asked questions or via an existing topic. Do you think this would work?

blackbare6

08-08-2007, 10:41 AM

Yo Zammit; the truth is , no one cares! It is after all your dick. Just be glad you have one. Personally , I was never so glad to be a guy than when I saw my kids being born!
Henry

RCH44

08-08-2007, 10:56 AM

I would not worry about the size. In nude beaches and resorts you see all shapes and sizes.
Be nude and happy.

Ralph

Originally posted by zammit:
I never measured myself with anyone, but I sort of have a small penis. What will people think?

Fuzzy Nuts

08-08-2007, 11:54 AM

Just wondering if anybody posted that they wouldn't go naked because their penis was too big?

simonsebs

08-08-2007, 12:10 PM

Originally posted by Fuzzy Nuts:
Just wondering if anybody posted that they wouldn't go naked because their penis was too big?

Someone (http://clothesfreeforums.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/3400016152/m/9270030374) did. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/laugh.gif

Buzzer

08-08-2007, 01:36 PM

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif A smile is always the right size!

Rabid_Clam

08-08-2007, 02:22 PM

Social nudity is not a contest of penis size, reast size, butt size or any other attribute other than your personality. And that is all that counts. If your penis works, gets erect and passes urine, then it is normal and fully acceptable in all forums.

David77

08-08-2007, 03:01 PM

If your penis works, gets erect -----, then it is normal and fully acceptable in all forums.

Clam,
In response to your statement, what if you have ED, problems of erection? Does that mean that you are not "acceptable in all forums"? http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/rolleyes2.gif Just kidding!

tinner666

08-08-2007, 04:54 PM

Originally posted by walter05:
We have several threads focusing on attracting new nudists. We also have threads wondering what it will take to get more acceptance for nudism.

Zammit registered on July 27. He has been on the forums for two weeks. He is told he has a stupid post, a trick question, etc.

Y'all claim that no one cares. However, there are long threads talking about circumcision or not. There are also long threads talking about erections. It is clear that nudists do look and do care.

If you want to attract more people to nudism, you need to be inviting. In order to be inviting, you have to accept all questions, even those already addressed.

For Zammit;

If you want to send me a private message, I will attempt to help answer any questions without criticism.

As far as your question is concerned, one's penis has a variety of states and sizes. Erection or not, temperature, coming out of water, etc. affect penis size. If someone sees your penis, that person will not really know what the size is. Therefore, don't worry about it.

For everyone else;

If you want to attract new people to nudism, you must be inviting. Please be warm and gracious to new nudists.

I'll apologize! When you put it in that light, I can see I was too harsh. But I was trying to point out 'It isn't an issue!' Nudists and naturists don't care.
Maybe somebody making a pass at you will care? Or Not, if they're making a pass at you! But that wouldn't be appropiate in most venues. IMHO

OZJames

08-08-2007, 05:40 PM

Being a boring accountant I couldn't help but to look in the dictionary -

the long and the short of it
something that you say when you intend to tell someone something in the quickest and simplest way possible. Anyway, the long and the short of it is that he's not going to be working for us any more.

Cambridge International Dictionary of Idioms © Cambridge University Press 1998
the long and the short of it
the truth of the matter The long and the short of it is that physical activity is extremely good for your health!

Cambridge Dictionary of American Idioms © Cambridge University Press 2003

the truth of the matter is that it doesn't matter. People generally worry about their body image . The great thing about nudism is that nudists do not care they just ENJOY.

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/beam.gif <span class="ev_code_RED">JAMES</span> http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/beam.gif

DoctorSurferDude

08-08-2007, 07:56 PM

What size is your appendix?

MJ_KC

08-08-2007, 08:46 PM

Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
What size is your appendix?
Mine is long gone along with my spleen.

GaryCooper675

08-09-2007, 05:36 AM

Once again, I'm blown away by the insults on these posts. Zammit is a new member. Lighten up guys!! Why is his question so out of the ordinary? Just because you're pros at being naked? You think he wants to be a part of this community when even the simplest question is slammed back in his face? Seriously, it amazes me the venom that flows through these postings. RELAX!!! Let's get naked!

walter05

08-09-2007, 02:33 PM

Zammit;

Please feel free to ask any questions. Tinner666 and I welcome them.

Walter

Naturist Mark

08-09-2007, 03:34 PM

Y'all claim that no one cares. However, there are long threads talking about circumcision or not. There are also long threads talking about erections. It is clear that nudists do look and do care.
I wouldn't assume that the people who repeatedly post about their own and other people's penises are nudists. In fact, do not assume the majority of people on this site are nudists - many come here out of curiosity, or a desire to learn about nudism and/or to see if it is something for them. Or to see and talk about naked people and their penises. All of that is just fine, learning is always a good thing. But please do not assume that nudists have a penis obsession just because online nudist boards are full of penis topics - that is typical of the internet but atypical of nudists.

Here are some facts, plenty of nudists have small penises, particularly those of us with big guts - that can make the penis length when in a standing position recede to zero. A very few nudists have large penises. Nudists really do not seem to care. Sure we can see each other's equipment, but it just isn't an issue at the resort, or on most beaches. No one is going to refuse to be your friend because you are too big or too small. Or because you are bald, or hairy, or have surgical scars.

Non nudists find it nearly impossible to believe, but learning to leave clothes out of the equation does not make the appearance of the body more important in social interaction, it makes it LESS important.

Rest assured, the people most concerned about your penis, or any other body part, are not nudists.

MJ_KC

08-09-2007, 05:06 PM

Originally posted by Naturist Mark:
Rest assured, the people most concerned about your penis, or any other body part, are not nudists.
What Mark said is correct. They have something else in mind other than just being a nudist.

David77

08-09-2007, 06:00 PM

I think that the persons most concerned about their penis size, are those who are most insecure about their manliness. To them, their penis symbolizes their manhood. Possibly they did not get a chance in childhood to identify enough with their father and his manliness to feel entirely strong in their maleness.

As we know, boys identify with their father's in their maleness and girls identify with their mother's femaleness. If we see a boy with mannerisms like his father's, we can be glad that he had a strong bond psychologically with is father. If he has not had this good fortune to identify enough with his father or father figure, possibly he is insecure about his manliness, manhood.

To compensate, he may become extra macho acting. In any event, he may feel insecure about his penis size which to him is a great symbol of manhood - unfortunately, he may not feel that his penis size has nothing to do with his being a real fine man.

If genetically, this same type person has a small penis, he may be apprehensive in letting women see it, as he may feel that his love asperations, women, will feel that he is inadequate - which he is not - but that is another story.

Persons need to know what this board is telling them, that is, physical variations and penis size do not set them apart in a nudist venue but that they are accepted by all, according to their behavior and friendliness.

walter05

08-10-2007, 08:40 AM

With all due respects to Naturist_Mark and MJ_KC, I agree and disagree.

The circumcision and shaving threads are dominated by nudists.

The erection threads have also included numerous contributions from true nudists.

It is clear that if a person walks up to me, I see the person. If the person is a male and nude, I will also see his penis. However, the notice is momentary along with all other body parts and features. After that, it is ignored.

I agree that appearance of any parts of the body does not really matter not only to nudists but to real human beings.

Rabid_Clam

08-10-2007, 02:07 PM

To speak to the ED comment, I was speaking of someone who had an erection. If a person has ED, well, I would not know unless he mentioned it. Either way, erect or soft the penis is acceptable in any form. As are any other body shape. We are just people.

TheNorm

08-10-2007, 04:58 PM

Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
What size is your appendix? Now THAT'S a trick question! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/laugh.gif

Fuzzy Nuts

08-10-2007, 06:01 PM

Mine went years ago.

webbguy

08-10-2007, 09:18 PM

Well, a few here accused me of having a semi erect on my pic,which is a lie, but I really do think a real nudist will not even see it, everyone is human , so we are all not non sexual, but as nudist we all just love the sun and friendship and want to meet SINCERE friends here.

toadfish327

08-11-2007, 02:01 AM

Zammit,
Are you sure you have a small penis? Have you been comparing yourself to others in a locker room? In my humble opinion, you are never too old, too young, too thin, too fat, too short, too tall, too scarred, etc, etc to enjoy being nude. I met a guy through this forum who lived at a nudist resort that was very small in the penis category. He was extremely pleasant to talk to. Just get out and get naked and you will soon lose the fear of having a small penis and gain a better image of your body.

RichNH

08-11-2007, 03:52 AM

Originally posted by DoctorSurferDude:
What size is your appendix?

I DON'T KNOW!!! I'm too shy to let it see the light of day much less even look at it. Some things are simply improper and I think that this is one of them, methinks the doctor crosses the line! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/sad3.gif

Rich
http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/laugh.gif

RichNH

08-11-2007, 03:56 AM

Oh and BTW, the day the picture that I use for my avatar was taken, my penis was particularly small, testes were pretty tight too... Just in case anyone was wondering....

Rabid_Clam

08-11-2007, 11:19 AM

Well, RichNH, that is natural! The penis and scrotum will shrink in cold to maintain body heat and avoid thermal damage to the parts.

But having a small penis even in warm weather is no crime either. And if the owner can get all he needs out if it, then that is all that counts.

kelly99

08-11-2007, 02:12 PM

Don't be too self-concious. I've been a naturist for 35 years and the only time I was ridiculed for being small (1.5") was by 1 guy and 2 female teens. I shrugged it off and moved down the beach.

Terry nude

08-11-2007, 02:13 PM

Originally posted by Zammit:
I never measured myself with anyone, but I sort of have a small penis. What will people think?

My advice...get over it.

nacktman

08-11-2007, 02:26 PM

Originally posted by Zammit:
I never measured myself with anyone, but I sort of have a small penis. What will people think?

You could always purchase a penis extension, such as the one depicted below!

<span class="ev_code_RED">(But you'd better hurry the opportunity to get a penis extension like this doesn't last long! It'll only be around for a short time!)</span>

Terry nude

08-11-2007, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by nacktman:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Zammit:
I never measured myself with anyone, but I sort of have a small penis. What will people think?

You could always purchase a penis extension, such as the one depicted below!

<span class="ev_code_RED">(But you'd better hurry the opportunity to get a penis extension like this doesn't last long! It'll only be around for a short time!)</span> </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Or he can really be dumb and try nonsense like this...

http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/217XRVJHMSL._AA280_.jpg (http://ec1.images-amazon.com)

But I think it would be better, in this case, that he simply except who he is and get on with life. Some things can be changed, some things are better left as is.

MJ_KC

08-11-2007, 03:20 PM

Originally posted by nacktman:
You could always purchase a penis extension, such as the one depicted below!
Got one already.

Bob S.

08-11-2007, 07:59 PM

People, realize that zammit may be a teen. He still lives with his parents who view nudity as obscene and has never been out of his house naked.

He is absolutely a newbie.

As for the original question, as Tinner and others have mentioned, nudists don't care.

Bob S.

shaneone

08-11-2007, 08:37 PM

I agree with you Bob, but there are loads of penis threads in here and they all end with the same conclusion, who cares?? you have what you have, live with it

Elendil

08-11-2007, 11:55 PM

Originally posted by shaneone:
I agree with you Bob, but there are loads of penis threads in here and they all end with the same conclusion, who cares?? you have what you have, live with it

Here, here!

Rabid_Clam

08-12-2007, 05:37 AM

we have all this on penis, what of belly buttons? Innies and outties?

I just sold my corvette. A boat is a hole in the water you throw money into, a vette is a pair of bucket seats on 4 wheels you throw money into.

NCguy49

08-12-2007, 05:52 AM

Originally posted by Rabid_Clam:
we have all this on penis, what of belly buttons? Innies and outties?

Yeah, there ya go! Now I can relate to that 'cause I sport a very large outie. (aka naval hernia) I have never measured it, but I'm sure I'm near the top when it comes to belly buttons. LOL

Rabid_Clam

08-12-2007, 11:21 AM

I suppose there is a group out there that will argue that your belly button is obscene and you 'have' to do something about it!

The world of 'supposed to'

RichNH

08-12-2007, 06:46 PM

I have an innie, a very proud and deep innie, Sometimes, as Rabid once pointed out, my innie is the only thing that's clothed on me.

Rabid_Clam

08-13-2007, 07:14 AM

Well RichNH, a nice deep innie is a great place to have chip dip when eating chips and dip in bed.

bikerboy

09-04-2007, 03:23 PM

Originally posted by Rabid_Clam:
Well RichNH, a nice deep innie is a great place to have chip dip when eating chips and dip in bed.

That is a good IDEA. I will have to try that. LOL Now this is a thread that can be fun. What else can we do with bellybuttons (innies or outies)?

RichNH

09-04-2007, 03:40 PM

You know Rabid, that's not too bad of an idea, but I have this absolute resolute thing about crumbs in bed. Hmmmmm, perhaps some carrot sticks...

bikerboy

09-04-2007, 08:18 PM

I personally like salsa and chips. But I don't think I want to try putting salsa there. Chili pepper is not something I would suggest anybody put on for fun. LOL However, still like where this is going. How wierd can this get????????

David77

09-04-2007, 08:19 PM

What else can we do with bellybuttons
Some persons use the bellybutton as a depository for cologne.

nudebushwalker

09-04-2007, 10:58 PM

NCGuy49
Yeah, there ya go! Now I can relate to that 'cause I sport a very large outie. (aka naval hernia) I have never measured it, but I'm sure I'm near the top when it comes to belly buttons. LOL

Actually, the medical term is 'umbilical' hernia, for the navel - I naturally have an "innie", but last year it 'popped out' to give me a temporary "outie" - which I had repaired (only day surgery, but it still takes several weeks for full recovery, afterwards..)- so once I'm back in shape, I will have my natural (though this time round, well scarred..) "innie" back again..
In my case, with me doing physical work, and being physically active, this had to be considered as an 'essential' operation (and even for those people who don't exert themselves, not getting it repaired means there is still the risks of 'strangulation', even 'rupture', and then complications from there..).

chuckincville

09-05-2007, 06:47 AM

Originally posted by nacktman:
Aw look, another penis thread! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/bonk.gif

Instead of calling this a "Forum" maybe they should call it the "Old Boys Network" I get really tired of the superior attidude of some of you old timers. As newbies we are well aware of our ignorance which is why we ask "stupid" questions. (Croydon)
If a topic or "thread" doesn't interest you why on earth do you bother to post?? - or even read it? If you don't have something positive to contribute why not click on something that does interest you? You guys evidently have way "to much time on your hands".
Maybe you'd rather we stick to the "New member" topics and stay away from your your domain (read "click")?
People like Walter05 and David77 you're my heroes. Thanks for your positive and insightful posts.

Chuck

P.S. Hope this topic isn't so old that you guys don't read this!

David77

09-05-2007, 07:16 AM

Chuckincville,
Wow! Thanks. I hope that you have noticed my new PMs.

walter05

09-05-2007, 07:59 AM

Chuckinville;

Thanks for the kind words. If you have a question and are afraid of the fire breathing responses, just PM David and me. We will be happy to answer.

I do understand the veterans being tired of seeing the same topics over and over. However, for a new person, the topic seems new.

I will answer the question on size as I have before and see if it helps you.

The size of one's penis is not static. Temperature, water, how fat one is, how warm and hence how far the testicles hang down allowing for the penis to hang down further affect the appearance. Even erections vary in size. Therefore, since any one penis can have so many different sizes, people who are used to seeing penises don't notice if one is small or not.

Therefore, don't worry about it.

roaddog

09-05-2007, 01:09 PM

Thinking of bellybuttons, I have an inny, and a question has always vexed me. Why, Oh Why, if the fluff that gathers there always a different colour to the shirt I am wearing? When I am wearing one that is. And where the hell does the fluff come from when I am not?????
Cheers
Mick
;-)

Nuddion

09-05-2007, 02:20 PM

Originally posted by walter05:
We have several threads focusing on attracting new nudists. We also have threads wondering what it will take to get more acceptance for nudism.

Zammit registered on July 27. He has been on the forums for two weeks. He is told he has a stupid post, a trick question, etc.

Y'all claim that no one cares. However, there are long threads talking about circumcision or not. There are also long threads talking about erections. It is clear that nudists do look and do care.

If you want to attract more people to nudism, you need to be inviting. In order to be inviting, you have to accept all questions, even those already addressed.

For Zammit;

If you want to send me a private message, I will attempt to help answer any questions without criticism.

As far as your question is concerned, one's penis has a variety of states and sizes. Erection or not, temperature, coming out of water, etc. affect penis size. If someone sees your penis, that person will not really know what the size is. Therefore, don't worry about it.

For everyone else;

If you want to attract new people to nudism, you must be inviting. Please be warm and gracious to new nudists.

I have to admit, his seemingly controversial question hit home for me because I am also a new nudist and I found out firsthand last weekend what happens when you jump into a reservoir naked and then climb out into a bit of a chill. When you are new to it, its something you have to go through in order to find out if naturism is for you, I guess. I thought it was more of a human nature question than a dumb question. Hey women probably go through the same insecurities regarding their breasts, so what, its still worth it for that feeling you get that you're involved in something so un-evil and cleansing.

Nuddion

Rabid_Clam

09-05-2007, 02:35 PM

When it is cold the penis will 'deflate' to conserve body heat. That is quite normal. You can end up with a pimple on your back side if cold enough.

Otherwise if you have a small penis, so what! If it works for you in what you need it for, then its big enough.

simonsebs

09-09-2007, 01:15 PM

Originally posted by chuckincville:
As newbies we are well aware of our ignorance which is why we ask "stupid" questions. (Croydon)

The best advice I can give to new members is to look around first. Search around the main site and scroll through a few pages on the forum before you ask a question. Because more than likely the question has already been covered. This way you can get your question answered and not have to worry about getting your head bit off by all of us who are tired of redundant topics, most about the penis.

windowphobe

09-09-2007, 01:28 PM

So far as I can determine, 50 percent of penises are smaller than average.

Fuzzy Nuts

09-09-2007, 01:50 PM

Yes, but 50% are larger!

newton

09-09-2007, 02:27 PM

Originally posted by Fuzzy Nuts:
Yes, but 50% are larger!

That is not strictly true. Because of the large number involved, some are, in fact, just average.

RichNH

09-09-2007, 04:00 PM

well, I guess it all depends on just how many decimal points you include in the measurement. You could get to the point where nobody at all is exactly average... http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/wink3.gif

Naturist Mark

09-09-2007, 04:26 PM

Actually well over half of all penises may be smaller than average, or larger, depending on the distribution of sizes.

But half are larger or smaller than the MEDIAN size.

-Mark

Fuzzy Nuts

09-09-2007, 04:53 PM

NakedGa;ry - Glad someone else agreed with my stats course in university!

JohnE44

09-10-2007, 06:37 AM

The only thing I can add is when I was in my 20s it took two hands to cover myself,know that I am in my 40s it only takes one hand and my hands have gotten bigger.

chuckincville

09-10-2007, 10:33 AM

Originally posted by simonsebs:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by chuckincville:
As newbies we are well aware of our ignorance which is why we ask "stupid" questions. (Croydon)

The best advice I can give to new members is to look around first. Search around the main site and scroll through a few pages on the forum before you ask a question. Because more than likely the question has already been covered. This way you can get your question answered and not have to worry about getting your head bit off by all of us who are tired of redundant topics, most about the penis. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Thanks for the input.
Not all of us have tons of time to peruse the extensive posts on this site and so ask questions you've obviously answered before. Rest assured, I for one, will be checking out the lists before I ask another question here - or I'll ask someone with a little more patience.

With my very limited experience I thought all nudists were "nice" helpful people - tolerant of newcomers --- so much for gneraliztions, eh?

No one, as yet, has answered the question as to why post or even read a topic you're tired of?

Anyway I find the forum very helpful (overall), sometimes irratating and always entertaining!

At any rate I appreciate your feedback - advice noted and taken.
Thanks
chuck

simonsebs

09-10-2007, 03:26 PM

Originally posted by chuckincville:
Thanks for the input.
Not all of us have tons of time to peruse the extensive posts on this site and so ask questions you've obviously answered before. Rest assured, I for one, will be checking out the lists before I ask another question here - or I'll ask someone with a little more patience.

With my very limited experience I thought all nudists were "nice" helpful people - tolerant of newcomers --- so much for gneraliztions, eh?

No one, as yet, has answered the question as to why post or even read a topic you're tired of?

Anyway I find the forum very helpful (overall), sometimes irratating and always entertaining!

At any rate I appreciate your feedback - advice noted and taken.
Thanks
chuck

I can only speak for myself, but for the most part I do say off of redundant topics. The only reason I've posted on this topic is because I saw what you and Walter05 wrote and felt the need to set the record straight. The only reason I can give as to why people post on certain topics is out of bordem. That would explain all the jokes we see on topics like these.

Also as I said earlier I think some members have said what they have out of worry. We're trying to show the world, and any visitors to this board, that nudism is more then the stereotypes about sex. All the topics about penis size, erections, and shaving don't help our cause.

Now I agree that people here should be nicer and answer the questions of new members. Still even the most patient person will get tried of answering the same questions over and over again sooner or later.

ctmike345

05-25-2008, 05:26 PM

mine's about an inch soft. i was worried and after about 10 minutes was over it. only twice ever has anyone said anything, one was some high school girl who was being obnoxious and i just moved on one was a little kid who asked 'why that mans thingy is so small' i just smiled and laughed with the mom who was more embarased than me. it happens.

David77

05-25-2008, 07:29 PM

A stand-up commedian said,
"I come from a long line of short penisis".

I think that heredity has a lot to do with it, just as features of other parts of our body are inherited - such as size of hands, thumbs, etc.

Pizzaguy

05-27-2008, 10:03 AM

mine's about an inch soft.
Mine too. "Inflated", I have no reason to be worried, but since no one sees it that way, I kinda wondered too.

But I went to my first event two weeks ago, only 3 other guys and 3 women were there .... all of us guys looked remarkably similar.

And beside, NO ONE CARES - nudity is about body and personal acceptance. And for me, it isnt' about other nude people anyway - - it's about MY nudity!

Sure, this is an old, tired topic (and I'v only been here 3 weeks or so), but it is understandable that a guy would worry about this. I know I did, but I don't any more!

valley_nudies

05-27-2008, 12:08 PM

if you are going to places in hopes of somebody lookin at your little one, then that's not nudism. and everyone else is right about what might be small, your knowledge. can't put clothes on on your ignorance.

keep the peace!

Josh-here

05-27-2008, 01:28 PM

You will find shallow and superficial people EVERYWHERE. But I think the vast majority of nudists are the least shallow concerning this type of thing. So no worries. We don't care if you are round and fat or skinny as a skeleton, if your penis or whatever else is tiny or large. We are what we are physically and comfortable in our bodies.

Mosquito_Bait

05-27-2008, 07:11 PM

When I was a boy, I was very thin and I hit puberty early. As a result, I dangled quite a bit lower than my friends and I was actually teased for being too large. Now that I am old and fat, I dangle quite a bit less. I would probably have a complex about it if it weren't for my experience as a kid.

fre2bnude

05-30-2008, 10:13 PM

There's always some of the time when it's small, and some of the time when it's not. I'm not self conscious any more and size don't matter.

andy_ma

05-31-2008, 02:43 AM

I agree with all - who cares! And frankly, at the right beach in some very cold water, any "member" can look small. The best thing about being a nudist, NOBODY cares! It's not important!

Garden

05-31-2008, 07:55 AM

Enjoy your younger years account as one gets older there will be shrinkage.

Garden

Sigmund

05-31-2008, 02:22 PM

Now that I'm old, maybe I can claim that as the cause.:laugh:

fre2bnude

05-31-2008, 11:03 PM

I've heard that as people get older some parts of the body, for instance ears and nose, continue to grow even though you tend to shrink in size generally. Maybe it's a good thing that the penis doesn't continue to grow otherwise it could look ridiculous. Don't think mines shrunk any, nor has it grown.

Mrs. Natura

06-09-2008, 05:34 PM

We are all BEAUTIFUL ~ so don't fret! :)

Nashoba-nowa

06-13-2008, 08:06 AM

Everyone is different, and people really do not care, at least the ones I know do not, small, average, large, there are every type imaginable. Enjoy naturism.

Franklyminim

06-13-2008, 09:21 AM

Won't a small one absorb less sunlight meaning there's more for other people on the beach?!

eagle59

06-13-2008, 09:58 AM

no one will care what size your penis is. If there are people there judging you by your penis, you are at the wrong beach...
It's amazing, you never see threads or posts from women worrying if their breasts are too small?

David77

06-13-2008, 10:19 AM

Sue Johanson, sex therapist on the Oxygen channel on Sunday nights, seems to indicates that "bigger is not better" as a woman's vagina measurements are 4 and a half to 5 and a half inches long, and can not feel sensation past about her first two inches. She states that is why a woman can not feel a tampon far up. Thus a long penis will not give more sensation.

She also states that some men with extra long penises do not have enough blood supply for such a large organ to become erect properly.

So let's hear it for smaller penises"!!! Applause!

steve-o

06-13-2008, 12:57 PM

I never measured myself with anyone, but I sort of have a small penis. What will people think?

Too small for what?

connorsdad

06-13-2008, 01:24 PM

Won't a small one absorb less sunlight meaning there's more for other people on the beach?!

Thats just wrong! Funny but wrong!

connorsdad

06-13-2008, 01:25 PM

fre2bnude

06-19-2008, 10:25 PM

Well, you're the lucky one I suppose, but I'm happy enough just being average and nobody gives me a second glance.

G I Joe

06-20-2008, 11:55 AM

Well I would have to disagree with you here....as I can account for, I have a few tell me, WOW your so "Big" and so forth.....they don't call me tripod for nothing, and I got that name in 1st grade!

Good for you tripod. Pray for the rest of us. There's no envy quiet like penis envy!

David77

06-20-2008, 05:34 PM

Good for you tripod. Pray for the rest of us. There's no envy quiet like penis envy!

Very funny. I do not envy an <i>exceptionally</i> large one.

Oh well, Michaelangelo's statue of David that every one admires seems to have been short-changed in the size department.

nakedbear

06-20-2008, 09:35 PM

David was not short changed - the fetish our culture has for large penises is quite different than what was considered to be aesthetically pleasing in classical Greece - the style of Greek sculpture was Michelangelo's inspiration for David.

Playgirl magazine twenty years ago used to show lots of guys with small or average size penises - would never see that now - part of the super-sizing of America

fre2bnude

06-20-2008, 10:18 PM

MissionNudists

06-21-2008, 03:21 AM

Zammit:
Like baldness it will be noticed, but like baldness not many will care.

For the rest of you folks:
Penis size varies greatly depending on the time of day and the weather conditions; so measuring it is like measuring a fish with a rubber ruler.

Fitz1980

06-21-2008, 05:09 AM

Well, before becoming a nudist I always thought I was below average size, but now I have others to compare with I realise that I'm about average, at least on a warm day. I'm quite happy with that and would never want to have an overlarge one. The man with the worlds largest penis, Jonah Falcon, isn't too happy with his.
Question is connorsdad, how much bigger than average is yours? Do you really stand out in a crowd?

I always though I was average before becoming a nudist at 18, turns out that I'm above average. I never played on a team sport in school so I had never showered in the locker room. I had seen guys in porn films (what teenager hasn't?) but using that as the measure would be like girls judging their breast size based on porn girls; that would lead C-cup women to think that they were the president of the itty bitty titty committee.

baregreg

06-21-2008, 12:32 PM

I think it boils down to wanting more confidence in ones self.

Just like why guys or gals lift weights and exercise there bodies, Whether to have a healthy body or to feel good about themselves.

To the thread starter (or others)- I can give you a link to website that is absolutely "free" if you would like tips on how to increase you penis size. If that's what you would want.

Feel free to PM me for the link. They don't sell gadgets and etc...

MrNaturist

06-21-2008, 03:54 PM

[QUOTEWell, you're the lucky one I suppose, but I'm happy enough just being average and nobody gives me a second glance.

I must agree with this statement!

nuovonudo

06-21-2008, 08:06 PM

Well, before becoming a nudist I always thought I was below average size, but now I have others to compare with I realise that I'm about average. . .

what he said.

fre2bnude

06-24-2008, 11:41 PM

Why do most men want a bigger penis? Because they think it looks more pleasing, in the same way as good muscles and a trim body, not because it needs to be any bigger.

G I Joe

06-25-2008, 05:54 AM

Unfortunately, probably because of the same reason women with small breasts often want larger ones. It's mostly about how we see ourselves. Society has dictated to us that more is better than less; full is better than empty; and bigger is better than smaller regardless of what you are talking about. Body image falls into that same thinking. Average is totally acceptable, but less than that is usually not. And those of us "less" fortunate, will never be able to totally get the "average or above" to understand how it feels. Because they can't.

fre2bnude

06-25-2008, 10:51 PM

Yes, that's it, everybody wants wants to be better than or have more than the next person. It's the, mines bigger than yours so that makes me better, syndrome.

Fitz1980

06-26-2008, 04:55 AM

I know that among the girls that I know it often seems that they all want whatever they don't have. Often the ones with the big natural boobs say they would rather have smaller perky ones. They often feel that they have saggy gross boobies and that they "need" to wear a bra all of the time while if they had smaller ones they could wear backless tops and braless tank tops. Of course much like guys thinking they have small penises (because most guys don't see that many and they ones they do see in porn are huge) textile girls all think they are saggy because they see strippers and playboy models topless and other girls in bras and base their judgment off of that.

baregreg

06-26-2008, 04:58 PM

Yes, that's it, everybody wants wants to be better than or have more than the next person. It's the, mines bigger than yours so that makes me better, syndrome.
The word "everybody" never seems right to me.
"SOME" folks would be better.
And I don't think this really has anything to do with "mines bigger than yours so that makes me better, syndrome."

NudonyII

06-26-2008, 07:12 PM

The word "everybody" never seems right to me.
"SOME" folks would be better.
And I don't think this really has anything to do with "mines bigger than yours so that makes me better, syndrome."

How about: "His is bigger than mine so I must be inadequate" syndrome?:o

baregreg

06-26-2008, 07:53 PM

How about: "His is bigger than mine so I must be inadequate" syndrome?:o
If that's "How" you feel. But no.

astaroth

06-30-2008, 03:07 PM

I have to say that some friends of mine (girls) can't stop laughing at smalls penis in a nude beach :p

astaroth

06-30-2008, 03:24 PM

Don't be too self-concious. I've been a naturist for 35 years and the only time I was ridiculed for being small (1.5") was by 1 guy and 2 female teens. I shrugged it off and moved down the beach.

1.5 the max size?

by the way the small penis humiliation is so heavy...u was authorized to hits this guy and the female teens (I hope beautiful girls...whatever) :D

Fuzzy Nuts

06-30-2008, 06:33 PM

astaroth - Although I am better than average in the male parts I am horrified at your comments. Does that mean that males should be laughing at all the small breasted ladies out there? I hope not!!!!

G I Joe

07-01-2008, 05:49 AM

I have to say that some friends of mine (girls) can't stop laughing at smalls penis in a nude beach :p

Well, all I can say is that this kind of behavior speaks volumes about your friends (and, hopefully, not you). They obviously are not naturalist--just gawkiers. They belong in a funhouse--not at a nude beach! I would say their "shortcomings" are a lot more than the men they are laughing at!

fre2bnude

07-01-2008, 11:16 PM

MissionNudists

07-02-2008, 04:02 AM

Yes, that's it, everybody wants wants to be better than or have more than the next person. It's the, mines bigger than yours so that makes me better, syndrome.

Yeah, but if we could change to "as good as" or "my best" and want only what we needed, most of our problems would go away.

baregreg

07-02-2008, 10:27 AM

Well I don't know about the rest of you but I'm very much affected by the temperature. On a cool day everything is embarrasingly small and withdrawn whereas on a hot day it all relaxes, hangs better, looks better and makes me feel better. OK it doesn't really matter how small but it still affects how you feel about yourself.
Reminds me of the Seinfeld episode with George and his "shrinkage" issue. If you remember Elaine's line (when George mentioned it to her) "They do that?" :D

Griffin

07-21-2008, 06:29 AM

The short penis issue is mitigated by lots of things, including the fact that some men are growers (their flaccid penis is very small and it can grow to much larger, so its smallness is deceiving); or they are showers, as in show-ers (they show large flaccid and are about the same size when erect). So flaccid size can be deceiving. Obviously, it has been said here a gazillion times that people are not judged -- nor should not be judged - by the structure of their genitals. We cannot really change what nature dealt us.