Newcomer, my boyfriend has told me a few days ago that he was a nudist.

[lenne]

Now I would like to learn some more about it.
In first place, why do you like walking arounth naked?
(this really isn't to insult people or something, I just would like to know more)

[lenne]

Now I would like to learn some more about it.
In first place, why do you like walking arounth naked?
(this really isn't to insult people or something, I just would like to know more)

[myllanac]

Well I'm new to it, but I just enjoy the feeling of being free. It's also very comfortable (in warm weather) and most of the time wearing clothes is silly (after a shower, in bed, etc).

I hope you don't write him off as crazy. Be open to talking with him. If you don't want to join him, that's your choice, but at least don't be close-minded.

Read this too:
http://www.clothesfree.com/Why.html

[EricNY]

Lenne,

It is actually much more popular than you think. In fact nude recreation has boomed into a very commen form of travel and living. You meet folks from all walks of life, maybe even people you know.

Big enough that growth of resorts through out the world are expanding to keep up with the multi billion dollar industry.

To naturists it is much more than running around naked. First, it is far more comfortable and closer to nature. It is also about body acceptance and accepting others for who they are. It is about removing the last barrier between you and others, and truly getting to know someone. Rest assured that it is not about sex for the majority.

Naturists are some of the best around. Give it a try and you will understand. My wife and I have never looked back and are raising our kids as nudists too.

I hope you do not discount your boyfriends ideals, it is a great way of life, it has been great for us, and we have met some wonderful people and formed some very good friendships.

I am sure that others will add to the list of what it is all about, but to me the people are what makes it special.

[lenne]

I'm not mad at him, I still love him.
I just didn't expect but I still love him.
Maybe I'll become a nudist 2 but first I would like to learn some more about it.
After all, you don't hear much of this subject in real life.
Thank's for the link, I'm really going to read it when I've got time.

[lenne]

thanks for the reply ercNY.
I really appreciate your comment

[nakednudists]

Basically, lenne, its just like ercNY said. When you are nude, you feel closer to nature and it also does give you a better understanding of body acceptance. We try to go to a resort whenever we can, and when we do, we have a great time. My girlfriend is also a nudist and she wonders what took her so long to try it. I think that you are definitely taking a step in the right direction. I feel that it is important to learn and ask questions about the lifestyle, practice your nakedness at home with your boyfriend, and then set your sites on a resort. You don't want your first visit in public to be at a beach.....too many gawkers! Try a clothing optional resort; that way you don't have to get naked right away...you can get naked when you want.
There is no better feeling than being nude outside and I think you will enjoy it tremendously. Give it a try and I think you will be glad you did http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif.

[need2Bnude]

Hello Lenne, I appreciate the fact that you did not get mad at your boyfreind for being a nudist. Understanding that nudism/naturism does not have anything with perversion is probably the first thing that needs to be understood. I believe most people who detest naturism/nudism is because they associate it with some kind of sexual perversion.
Being a nudist has to do, with like the responses you've seen posted so far. Its about being free, comfortable, being free of judgement of others, and plain and simple, just being happy with who you are. I enjoy being free because there are no clothes restricting me. I feel I have nothing to hide when naked, and I'm just alot more comfortable around others who are also nude and free.
Hope this helps, good luck to you.

[nakednudists]

Cool avatar lenne...pasco doug could probably crop it down to size for you.

[lenne]

oops, looks like my avatar is a little bit over-sized http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif
Sry folks, I'm still learning!
Anyway, thx for the comment need2Bnude and nakednudists. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[nakednudists]

No problem...I see you changed your avatar...disreguard my previous message...any more questions, don't hesitate to ask...there are some good people in the forum.

[lenne]

Thx for the reactions everyone.
I've just spoken to my mother and, to my surprise, she told me that she and my dad are also nudists.
I have got to go now but I'm sure that I'll visit this site frequently and maybe I'll become a naturist 2.
Bye!

[John Spooner]

Dear Lenne.
My compliments on the excellent pic.
Here is a smaller sized copy which you can copy and use if you wish.
Best regards. John S.

[John Spooner]

Or if we press a little harder, we can make it even smaller.!!
I understand that French is the spoken language in Belgium, is that correct.?
Best regards. John S.

[need2Bnude]

WOW, how ironic is this, I'm glad that your parents have been nudists, now I hope you will be much more open to looking at this way of life. Best of luck to you and yours. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by lenne:
Thx for the reactions everyone.
I've just spoken to my mother and, to my surprise, she told me that she and my dad are also nudists.
I have got to go now but I'm sure that I'll visit this site frequently and maybe I'll become a naturist 2.
Bye! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[nakednudists]

Lenne, how is it that your only 16 and you didn't know your mom and dad are also nudists? Sounds a bit weird to me but if that is the case, your the golden child!

[lenne]

Thx 4 the pic John, appreciate it and, yes, they speak french in Belgium but also Dutch and I'm Dutch http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
And to reply on your question nakenudists,
I think it's because I've never spoken with my parents about that subject.
Maybe they did mention it once (that's why I knew my mother wouldn't be mad at me) but we've never really talked much about it.

[nakednudists]

So are they active nudists now and how do they feel now that you are interested in nudism? Also, are they ever nude at the house. Sorry so many ?'s, but just trying to get a feel for the situation.

[Naturist4Ever]

Lenne, another dutch person her, hoi dus http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

For dutch speaking people I recommend also http://www.nfn.nl, the site of the dutch naturists organisation, which again has links to the (very active) youth division within the nfn. They also started a discussion group recently, so that may be useful if you want to get some dutch-spoken input on the whole thing (there are also a number of separate discussion forums on naturism in the dutch language, however since they are largely unmoderated they suffer from considerable trolling. Avoid those. http://www.naturismeforum.nl is one example)

Just about belgium: as you already may know there is only one nude beach (Bredene, it was 200m long but I read somewhere that it may be extended because of the populairty) and several naturists clubs (most of them called Athena). There are some nude swims here and there. There is a website that has all the details, your bf will most likely know.

>> you don't hear much of this subject in real life.

Not in Belgium which is quite conservative when it comes to naturism and public nudity. Most Flemish naturists trek to the Netherlands. In fact, one Belgium nudist club IS located in the Netherlands.

>> So are they active nudists now

If one's parents are *active* nudists one would notice no?

>> In first place, why do you like walking arounth naked?

That's a misconception. SOME do like to walk naked (seemingly mostly men), but for most people by large it is sunning and swimming nude that comes first, either on the nudebeach or at a naturist resort/club. People like to play games, like volley, tennis or badminton, boules, etc. It's a great feeling, and it is described at many places here and there.

Lacking access to nude recreation facilities, or not wanting to "come out of the closet", or not interested into meeting anyone else with the same interest, also many people just practice home nudism.

Veel success...

Lenne,

I don't understand how your parents can be nudists without ever introducing you to it or encouraging you to participate, or do they believe it's something that only adults should do?

[Buzzer]

http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gifTry it some time when alone in the privacy of your own home. Perhaps you'll see. Give it a few hours and a couple of tries, though. It's not for everyone, but My wife & I like it as do most of the folks on this site.

[DoctorSurferDude]

Hi Lenne,

It's very mature of you to seek resources and learn more about nudism. Many women 2 or 3 times your age are not nearly as mature when it comes to accepting the idea that the man they love has an interest in nudism.

I think by far your best bet would be to ask your parents how they feel about it. Let your boyfriend explain to you why he feels drawn towards being naked, why he enjoys it, etc.

Here are a few links that I used to educate myself on nudism many years ago. (This forum is also a wonderful place to ask questions and get answers). Welcome http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

http://cgd.best.vwh.net/home/naturism/nudelink.htm

http://www.4nudistlinks.com/

http://cheef.com/

http://www.netnude.com/

http://www.aanr.com

http://www.naturistsociety.com/

http://www.clothesfree.com (this website's mainpage)

If you Google the word "nudist" you'll find a mix of good links and bad links. Unfortunatley nudism is a target for people who get the wrong idea about it. BUT....there are a few good links for you.

Thank you for keeping an open mind, and good luck on your quest for knowledge!! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[ken0254]

DoctorSurferDude,

A lot of the links listed under "Nudist & Naturist links in the cgd.bes.vwh link were either no longer listed or just didn't seem to exist. I didn't look at links under the others.
ken

[lenne]

WOW, I've got a lot of replyes but I'm gonna try to answer all of them.
Let's see...

Naketnudists,
my parents aren't really to be called "active nudists" but my mother has comitted that she and my father somethimes run arount in the house naked when I'm not home.
They also never went to a nudist-camp or beach but they would really like to give it a try somethime.

Naturist4ever,
first of all, hallo http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Thanks for the link, I'm really going to check it out when I've got some more time.
I appreciate your comment, many thanks.

Jon-Marc,
First of all, as I already said to nakednudists, I don't think I can call my parents "active" nudists.
I'm shure that they don't believe that it's just something for adults to do because, now I've told my mother of my boyfriend being a nudist, we had had a longer talk about it that usual and she encourages me to try it somethime when I'm alone at home so I think I'll give it a try someday. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Buzzer,
Thanks for the reply, and as I said to Jon-Marc,
I think I'll give it a try when I'm home alone.
Also, the more I read and hear about it the more I beginning to like the idea of skinny-dipping with my boyfriend.
I would really like to try! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Jason Lee,
Thanks for the links, I'll check them when I've got some more time.

DoctorSurferDude,
So many sites and so little time (but I'll do my best) http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif
Many thanks for your comments, I really talk a lot with my boyfriend about it now and I'm getting more and more interested to.

I hope I haven't forgotten anyone.
Sry for the late post but even naturists have to get some sleep http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

Feel free to keep responding but be patient for answer.

[nakednudists]

Lenne, are your parents willing to give it a try with you. Since they know you are interested in nudism and they are "semi" nudists, maybe you all can check out the local resort together for your first time. What a great family trip that would be!

[DoctorSurferDude]

yeah, I agree with NakedNudists.... you're lucky to have a family where you can be so open to share your "my boyfreind is a nudist" situation and have them not only admit to being nudists themselves but also have an interest in exploring that with you. What an adventure http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

I think you have all the elements you need to adjust to this new idea....

[Hooked]

This whole thread is strange to me but it reminds me of my situation right now so I thought I'd share. I was seeing this girl and as soon as I let her know that I've been known to visit the nude beach here, she has all but avoided me save for the occasion IM on instant messenger. I was surprised to get the cold shoulder since she's a year younger than me and seems pretty progressively minded in other things. I really, really like her too so it's a shame. It would have been better if it was someone I didn't like as much LOL So just a reminder to all of those out there with accepting or participating signigicant others, APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE!

[BackpackerBrian]

Hi Lenne -

When I lived in the Netherlands a few years ago, I went to a great naturist pool/sauna event that the local naturist organization sponsored monthly in Gennep (http://www.homepages.hetnet.nl/~eefvanbaal/index.html). It was a blast, and had several young people there, oftentimes with their families.

The Young Ones (http://www.theyoungones.nl/) is a Dutch naturist group which has events. There's a schedule on the homepage. I had a couple of friends involved with them, and the group was cool!


And then there's also the Naturist pagina (http://naturisme.pagina.nl/) which lists all Dutch naturist links (and Belgian too!).

Sorry that these are all Dutch . . . but it isn't all that far away, depemdimg on your location in Belgium.

PS - Hooked, sorry to hear about your situation. Ahhhh, if she were only as enlightened as you are http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[Hooked]

Thanks Brian...it's alright, everyone has their own issues and choices. Time will tell

[pek1]

Can I weigh in since I'm still somewhat new? You know, Lenne, since I've been nude around other clothed people (I model for an art class, this is my third class since February this year), the "sexual feelings" are not there. When I did run around the house when younger and home alone, it would feel "sexy" to me. Given time and age, that feeling has gone. I haven't been to a resort yet, but have been to an area where others are nude, just no women have been there when I was.

I said all that to say this: You will feel quite self conscious about being nude, especially with your bf, as I felt that way being a model. I now think nothing of it. I know my artists aren't looking at me or wanting to do something other than drawing. With two disabilities, though you would never see it if you met me in person and told you about them (crippled hand from birth as well as hearing loss), being nude has really helped me deal with my own self image and self esteem. I was given the "left hand of fellowship" at a college when I started doing this and would never give this up. Being nude has helped me in ways that college and people like those that attend there and like colleges never have.

Above all else, be true to yourself.


Pete

[GAR]

When my wife and I first met she was not a nudist. So when I told her she was shocked. As she was thinking about it she was kind of scared but she said she would try it once. She did and was hooked and now our daughter is being raised as a nudist. We are all happy with our lifestyle. Give it a try and you will like this lifestyle. We hope you will give it a try so good luck

[fred950]

lenne, I think I can relate to discovering your parents were nudists. When I told my parents just what sort of place Mazo beach is, my father's reply was that he wanted to visit a (now closed) nudist resort near our home, but was never quite 'brave' enough.

Getting back to your original question, I like (love, really) nude for the feeling of "oneness" with God and nature. For me that feeling is especially strong when I am nude outdoors. I hopr that helps you.

[shuyin]

okat all of you that wondered who is lenne's boyfriend, it's me http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif I dunno how much know me but hopefully a few. I don't post a lot, only when the subject really interests me or I feel like I should answer. Also the explaination to our nicknames is that Lenne and Shuyin are lovers in Final Fantasy 10-2. Oh and guys be gentle with tessa, she's only just knows and still getting used to the lifestyle. Anyway this is the end of my post, I'll be checking regulary too.
see you guys around sometime

Jeffrey

[shuyin]

okat=okay, sorry about the misspelling

[lenne]

Oke, let's see...

Nakednudists,
maybe we will some time.
Anyway, my parents would like to give it a try and so do me and my boyfriend.

DoctorSurferDude,
Thx 4 the post, and yes, I'm really happy that my parents took it so well.

Jason Lee,
That's a large comment but I think I get the point.
Thank you very much for the explanation.

Hooked, I really feel sry for you and I really, really hope that you can get a girlfriend who appreciates you.

BackpackerBrian,
Thx for the links,
I'll visit them whenever I've got the time.

pek1,
Much thanks fot the post.
I hope I haven't offended any people here when I maybe have said that I think I won't feel comfortable when I'm on a nudy-beach because there can be persons who are interested in...whell...other things than just walking around naked.
I really think it's brave of you to be a model because I don't think I can stand naked in front of a bunch of people.

GAR,
Also, thx for the comment, I'm really glad for you and your wife and kids and I also wish you people good luck http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

fred950,
Thx for the comment, since many people always answer my question with the same answer (because it feels good and because it brings you closer to God,...) I think I got the point http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
But I also think I can really understand the feeling you guys have got when I try it myself because now, it still sounds a little weird to me. (no offence of course)

Hey shuyin,
I really love it that you've posted something.
I love you, and lots of kisses from me. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

[Naturist4Ever]

Now that's ultra cool, j&t http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

Keep up the good spirit you two, have fun.

[shuyin]

Come on people keep the advice and the answers coming. Don't let this thread go to waste. We need all the info we can get (speaking for me and lenne). First time experiences, do's and dont's, etc just keep this thread going.

[tinner666]

When you can wake up, pour a coffee, and walk outside , to take in the morning, without dressing, You will be there!! http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
That's how it is at the camp I spend weekends. And my neighbors are 'like-minded'. It's natural, normal, and can't be beat. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gifJust don't slosh the coffee. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_redface.gif Other advice you got here was well worded and I can't add but so much to it. Frank

[Nude in the North]

My wife didn't understand it at first either. But once she got used to seeing me nude around the yard, and trying it herself, she realized how great it feels.

It's not about walking around naked. It's about feeling free.

So tell us Lenne, How do you feel about it now after a little time has passed?

Steve

[lenne]

How do I feel?
Whell, I'm used to the idea now that my boyfriend is a nudist.
We're still concidering to go to a sauna or something but the problem is that I'm always very busy working for school.
Anyway, I know now that nudism isn't so rare as I first thought.
I still don't know for sure wether I'll become a fully active nudist but maybe with some help of shuyin and by taking small steps in the beginning...

I really appreciate all the comments I've got so far and I understand that it becomes a bit hard to add something more.
Still, I would like to say that I still check this board so if you have got some advice or tips that haven't been said yet, there welcome!

[Daveinct]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by lenne:
Oke, let's see...

pek1,
Much thanks fot the post.
I hope I haven't offended any people here when I maybe have said that I think I won't feel comfortable when I'm on a nudy-beach because there can be persons who are interested in...whell...other things than just walking around naked.
I really think it's brave of you to be a model because I don't think I can stand naked in front of a bunch of people.
</div></BLOCKQUOTE>

This is understandable, but keep in mind that those people are around us all the time, such as when we're out shopping or at work. The difference at a nude beach is that their intentions would be more obvious, and that they may make some false assumptions about you because you're nude. If you're with your boyfriend or parents, they probably wouldn't bother you. Unfortunately, the best advice for women going to nude beaches is to avoid being alone. It's a shame that it has to be that way.

Dave

[nakednudists]

Sounds like everything is going good. Feel free to ask anymore questions if you have any. My g/f wasn't a nudist either when I met her, she is now. Take your time and go from there.

[Nude in the North]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">the best advice for women going to nude beaches is to avoid being alone. It's a shame that it has to be that way. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

Unfortunatly, That's the way it is in nearly every other part of society too.

Steve

[nudeM]

Hey lenne, you are taking baby steps into nudity? Good for you. When I decided to be a nudist, I just dropped my shorts on the living room floor, right in front of everyone. My wife thought I 'lost it'. But over time, she has since become accepting of me wearing nothing. She is also a contributor here (hw).

Although she does not participate as much as I, she will go nude when the house is empty. When we go outside, she will cover up until she sits, unlike myself, I stroll freely around the backyard without any covering.

Like some of the others have commented, take it slow. You will eventually become used to wearing nothing. Try staying nude after a nice shower, try sleeping without anything on, and try become familiar to walking around the house without anything on. With you and your boyfriend, you have the opportunity to try different 'adventures' together.

Lots of luck to you and your boyfriend. At least you are ahead of the game in that your parents have been nudists, only you weren't aware of that. Now is the time to ask the questions of them. I'm sure they would be glad to share nudist issues with you.

Take care and look forward to reading more from you. Let us know how things turn out. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

[lenne]

hello Daveinct,
I guess it to that it's safer to go to a nudy beach with my bf or parents but I would probably NEVER go to a nudy beach alone in the first place.
You see, actually, I'm a very timid girl so this is all still a bit of adapting.

nudeM,
when I first read your comment, I really had to laugh.
Plz don't be insulted but I've just picktured it before my eyes how your friends/familly would react.
As I said to Daveinct, I'm a very timid girl so I would probably never do something like that http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Anyway, I've slept already a night in the nude and I must say that it felt pretty good.
To walk naked through the house is a bit harder...
It's not that I'm ashamed for my parents or something, but it's not that they are active nudists.
So if I do, I want to try it when I'm alone at home. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

But I've got one question 4 you nudeM, how did you came to the thought of pulling your pants down in front of everyone.
I mean, where you a nudist then already or did you just got the thought like: "I want to become a nudist"
I mean, can you also become a nudist just from one day to another just like that?

[lenne]

P.S. plz forgive me when I spell some mistakes but it's usually evening when I check this board and it's sometimes a bit hard to concentrate after a whole day of school and after studying French or Math.
I'll try my best but I don't assure that I'll type without any faults so again...
sry for that http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by lenne:
P.S. plz forgive me when I spell some mistakes but it's usually evening when I check this board and it's sometimes a bit hard to concentrate after a whole day of school and after studying French or Math.
I'll try my best but I don't assure that I'll type without any faults so again...
sry for that http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

You already post better than some on here that have English as their primary language (or only language).

[lenne]

hehe, thanks for that Cyndiannakes http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Trying to to my best.

[lenne]

Sry, *Cyndiannaked
See, it's evening again. http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

[Avionics6]

How very sweet! Love in bloom on the forum. I love it!<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by shuyin:
okat all of you that wondered who is lenne's boyfriend, it's me http://clothesfreeforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif I dunno how much know me but hopefully a few. I don't post a lot, only when the subject really interests me or I feel like I should answer. Also the explaination to our nicknames is that Lenne and Shuyin are lovers in Final Fantasy 10-2. Oh and guys be gentle with tessa, she's only just knows and still getting used to the lifestyle. Anyway this is the end of my post, I'll be checking regulary too.
see you guys around sometime

Jeffrey </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[shuyin]

Yeah, love is growing day by day