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[nuggett]

hi,ive just met a girl,we r crazy about each other,ive been a nudist for a while,she is very nervous about her body image,she looks great,she said she might try it oneday,how can i get her to have confidence to join me in the nudist lifestyle

[nuggett]

hi,ive just met a girl,we r crazy about each other,ive been a nudist for a while,she is very nervous about her body image,she looks great,she said she might try it oneday,how can i get her to have confidence to join me in the nudist lifestyle

[Nudeinbama]

Take it slow and easy, use plenty of patients, and don'nt be pushy. Let her get used to seeing you naked,with her O.K., invite her to join, at whatever level of nudity she is comfortable with, At home and slowly take it from there. Keep Sex and Nudity seperated,for now, and certainly in public. You are one step ahead of some of us here if she will even talk about being nude, at home in private or at beches and resorts. Good luck. I hope it works out well for you both.
Nudeinbama

[Fuzzy Nuts]

It takes time and hopefully she will become a full-fledged nudist like you. The previous post offered some good advice.

I might add keeping some naturist publications around the house might also help. In these she will see that you dont have to have a perfect body to enjoy nudity.

[threadbare]

Plop her down in front of your computer, you won't find a more informative site than right here http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/blush.gif

[goofyone]

About 13 months ago we went to a nudist camp near us. My wife was not a nudist at that time. After we had gone and she was so warmly greeted even with her clothes on we discussed it and joined. She wouldn't even walk around the house nude. The key is take your time and don't push it.

If clothing optional is available, you may want to try that as your girlfriend will see that it is probably not as she sees it. There is all types of bodies and ages. No one will judge her on her body. After a couple times she will start getting more comfortable and start joining you and wondering why she didn't earlier.

A couple months ago my wife told me that after going to "camp" over the summer, even though she thought it would sound weird she said that she feels better about herself and her body now then she ever did.

Good Luck

[kphoger]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content"> use plenty of patients, </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
just make sure they're not from the psych ward...

[Bob S.]

As others have stated, nuggett, patience is a virtue. The best thing is to gradually introduce it to her. Go naked at home somethimes when she is over. It is nearing summertime and the weather is warming up (at least where you live). Seeing how you have been to a nude beach (assuming that is you in your avatar), you may invite her to accompany you. While there, she will see other women of various body types naked. It also gives her a chance to esperience nudism without having to get naked herself.

Bob S.

[DoctorSurferDude]

Patience, honesty.... always make her feel included and invited, even if she is unwilling to participate. Convince her that she is as pretty as you see her.

Never let nudism be a conditional requirement in your relationship.

Pretty soon....I bet she'll come around. You already have the Australia thing on your side. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif

[nudeM]

I guess it's unanimous, patience is key. Trust me from experience. You must make sure she is truely comfortable being, or seeing you nude in the confines of your house/apartment. From there, the boundries could be expanded to outdoor activities in either a nudist resort near you, or a beach.

Lots of luck. Let us know how things work out. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/smoking.gif

[nuggett]

thank you all for the advice,i will surely take it;i am a member of a nudist club,and yes thats me in the photo,at swanbourne beach,(indian ocean),in perth west australia,i will keep you posted,thanks again,cheers nugget

[RCH44]

Tell her not to be afraid. I am overweight and proud of my body and who I am.

Ralph


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hi,ive just met a girl,we r crazy about each other,ive been a nudist for a while,she is very nervous about her body image,she looks great,she said she might try it oneday,how can i get her to have confidence to join me in the nudist lifestyle </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

[nuggett]

yahhhh it worked and she loves it,she was terrified at 1st,she said never let go of my hand,within 15 mins, she was talkin to everyone,we r both goin to be nudists for life,,thank you all for your advice,,cheers nugget

[tinner666]

http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif I've always loved happy endings. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif Welcome to the forums. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif