First time-PLEASE HELP!!!!

[Andy Williams]

i am strictly a home naturist at the moment but I can't wait to do the one when I am with others in a public situation, or just in a group. I do have a worry though. I am worried that my excitement will show and I will have an erection. I've read about and heard from others that, in a non-sexual situation that naturism is, this is unlikely to happen but just being seen by a female when naked gets me excited as I love being naked as much as I can. I am only able to practice this at home at the moment, and only then when no-one else is in as I haven't told anyone yet of my true feelings on the subject. Please help someone!!!

[Andy Williams]

i am strictly a home naturist at the moment but I can't wait to do the one when I am with others in a public situation, or just in a group. I do have a worry though. I am worried that my excitement will show and I will have an erection. I've read about and heard from others that, in a non-sexual situation that naturism is, this is unlikely to happen but just being seen by a female when naked gets me excited as I love being naked as much as I can. I am only able to practice this at home at the moment, and only then when no-one else is in as I haven't told anyone yet of my true feelings on the subject. Please help someone!!!

[ncognito66]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>...but just being seen by a female when naked gets me excited... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Then you are in the wrong frame of mind. You can rest assured that the females will not be excited by seeing you, so get that out of your mind, and you shouldn't have a problem.

[greensunshine]

Amen to that statement :d

Greensunshine up here in the Pacific NW /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Female, Mormon, and not turned on by the majority of the Joes who are naked /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Vermont Nudist Radio:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>...but just being seen by a female when naked gets me excited... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Then you are in the wrong frame of mind. You can rest assured that the females will not be excited by seeing you, so get that out of your mind, and you shouldn't have a problem. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

[BareDaddy]

Andy,

The first thing you MUST do is strip off your ego ! !

I had my first experience at White Tail Park this week and I can assure you that no one is looking at any part of you or your antomomy!!

People of either gender look at each other, with glancing view, speak and then go about life. The fact you are nude is a non-event, since the playing field is level for everybody regardless of age, gender or size.

Residents, members, and or visitors to a resort are totally free to move about un-hindered regardless of the size or shape of any part of their anatomy.

A visit to a naturist resort is simply life as normal, without clothes.

The most unusual experience I had was when vehicles from the outside such as a FEDEX delivery truck or local propane company vehicle drove by and I was walking nude, but then I realized where I was and totally enjoyed the freedom from textiles and the social preasure that our American culture puts on the state of nudity.

Chill your attitude and your ego, no one will make more than a passing glance at any part of anyone's anatomy, you will be bare in reality and nude in attitude which equates to freedom from the pressure of keeping up with the Jones' as the textile world has come to expect.

[tidoublegerpb4]

The most important thing to remember is that EVERYONE has a first time. And your concerns were concerns for EVERYONE on their first time. You don['t know how you're going to react. And something might happen or sneak in your mind that might make you have to turn over on your belly or, if you're walking, stop and take a seat. But it's no big deal as long as you don't draw attention to yourself and YOU HAVE FUN!

[NudeAl]

First realize it is not about sex, not about you checking out others or them checking you out. It is just a cool way to relax and destress in my opinion. Erections are a continuing concern of many first time males. It honestly doesn't seem to occur all that frequently. When for what ever reason it does happen simply be discreet, cover with a towel, or roll over onto your stomach or jump in the water. There is virtually a ton of discussion on this particular topic on this site as well as every other nudist/naturist BB on the net. Seems you have a pretty common concern.

[carbuff]

Dont worry if you like to be nude like I do than the freedom of it will be great . Just like others have said you are going to enjoy nudity as long as thats your mindset you will be fine . Amd good luck hope to hear how it went

[carbuff]

Hey Nude Al Well Said, good job!!