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smoothmike
12-30-2006, 08:47 AM
Just sharing something that i feel is really wonderful.

My Auntie just recently moved back to Australia from Germany with her 3 children (and husband of course). They ended up living in our home for a short while till they could find their own place close by. Once settled I spent quite a bit of time there hanging out with the family, boy 3,girl 7 and girl 13. We had many discussions about nudity and knew i was a nudist from when they stayed at our place initially as i used to go to the shower nude and so on(and id explained it to them). The buty is, i asked first as i was not sure how she whould feel about the children seeing me nude and her reply was simply... its natural so it ok.

It gets better... as i used to often sleep at their house, quite often would just hang out nude sometimes my aunty joined me and the kids did once also.It was great as i could not even do that in my own home with my parents(not even me naked and them not). It felt so natural, i even used to bathe the younger ones and get them to bed, then have my shave(all in the nude) while i was shaving the oldest would come in and shower and then stay and chat with me while i shower after her. Both parents dont mind and the children all have very healthy outlooks on life and dont seem adversely affected by the experiences. It seem that its a normal thing even tho they are not a nudist family, they are very relaxed and open minded.I was also surprised to learn that even the second child had a firm grasp on the difference between nude and rude.The oldest incredibly bright and quite intelligent for her age has the concept locked down and understands better than some adults i know.

I guess thats why i enjoyed hanging out with them.

Now im in Japan and miss hangin out with my favorite cousins and aunty.

smoothmike
12-30-2006, 08:47 AM
Just sharing something that i feel is really wonderful.

My Auntie just recently moved back to Australia from Germany with her 3 children (and husband of course). They ended up living in our home for a short while till they could find their own place close by. Once settled I spent quite a bit of time there hanging out with the family, boy 3,girl 7 and girl 13. We had many discussions about nudity and knew i was a nudist from when they stayed at our place initially as i used to go to the shower nude and so on(and id explained it to them). The buty is, i asked first as i was not sure how she whould feel about the children seeing me nude and her reply was simply... its natural so it ok.

It gets better... as i used to often sleep at their house, quite often would just hang out nude sometimes my aunty joined me and the kids did once also.It was great as i could not even do that in my own home with my parents(not even me naked and them not). It felt so natural, i even used to bathe the younger ones and get them to bed, then have my shave(all in the nude) while i was shaving the oldest would come in and shower and then stay and chat with me while i shower after her. Both parents dont mind and the children all have very healthy outlooks on life and dont seem adversely affected by the experiences. It seem that its a normal thing even tho they are not a nudist family, they are very relaxed and open minded.I was also surprised to learn that even the second child had a firm grasp on the difference between nude and rude.The oldest incredibly bright and quite intelligent for her age has the concept locked down and understands better than some adults i know.

I guess thats why i enjoyed hanging out with them.

Now im in Japan and miss hangin out with my favorite cousins and aunty.

Cheffred
12-30-2006, 07:20 PM
[Thats great. But yes and I understand in Japan nudity isn't very prodominate.

smoothmike
12-30-2006, 07:30 PM
Cheffred

Yes, un-fortunately, and not by choice ive had to become an "at home" nudist. The only real place i can go in public is the sento(public baths), 1)their single gender so my girlfriend cant join me naked, shed be in another section, and 2) its not common for Japanese people to socialize or talk with people they dont know unless introduced. Especially in a sento, but i go any way and relax in the hot baths and sauna. I still have some sort of a nudist life so im still happy.

Chief78CJ7
12-31-2006, 12:44 AM
Awesome Mike..

Just goes to show that WAY too many nudists assume that others around them would be offended.. becuase they "just know xxxx wouldn't be accepting of it".

And those that think that too often act like there is something wrong with nudity and are squimish about asking...

Kudoes to you Mike for being honest about who you are and simple talking about it.

Owning enough property to be nude and having friends accepting of nudity is NOT luck! It simply takes making those decisions in your life to make it happen.

barebum
12-31-2006, 02:32 AM
Great way to live Mike, and best way for Children to be brought up with acceptance of own and others bodies! Wish I had been brought up that way!

smoothmike
01-06-2007, 06:58 PM
Thanks guys, it was just something i wanted to share and im glad to hear the positive responses.

Tampanude
01-06-2007, 07:09 PM
At least you have us here, Mike.
A disjointed collection of opinions and geographically stretched folks but a like minded nudist spirit nonetheless.

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wakaatimas?? (pretty poor phonetic japanese, i know)