two people at work

[ranul]

they are two people at work that you have become good friends with and are thinking of dating

[ranul]

they are two people at work that you have become good friends with and are thinking of dating

[wannabenaked2001]

I don't have a clue as to what this is about. /infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif

I don't understand either. Just what are you asking? /infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif

[ranul]

how important is nudity to you . would you go out with a person that agrees with you about nudity but is a jerk other wise .
or a person that can't stand nudist but is really great other wise

[Snoboy]

I would recommend that you reword your survey where it is understood clearly. I think I understand but it really needs more clarification. Have a super day nude.

[florida-david]

i think the survey is trying to say that this guy has the opportunity to date two women in the office, one who is a nudist but they don't agree on anything and the other a non-nudist but they share similar philosophies. i am surprised to see that people would rather date the person they don't get along with just cause they are a nudist. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif i would date the person i get along with and once they see how easy the nudist lifestyle is, they will change their mind and become naked a bit. if she shares other of your beliefs, than nudity is a pretty minor point of non-agreement, don't you think!! than again, my wife loves to be naked, so don't shoot me /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

[wannabenaked2001]

Hey if it's just a date, go out with both and then decide which one (or maybe neither) you would like to develope and exclusive relationship with. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Stevedaoust]

It sounds like this person is asking that if two people work together and start to date, shoudl they or shouldn't they.
I say no. From experience, sorta.
I had a couple of employees that worked for me sometime back that were dating and made every effort to keep this fact from me. Well, this secret didn't last long. I took one of them aside and said that I could care less that they were dating BUT it stays outside. Once they come in the door, the arguments, fighting, etc stays out side the door and they become regulars associates. Period. It was agreed by both. The relationship lasted about 4 months and fell apart. NOW they had to face each other at the work place and they worked closely with each other. Soon afterwards one quit just to get away from the other. So there I was minus one long-time employee and an umcomfortable situation. Would I advise dating and working? Nope. To many what-ifs.

[Rik]

Not much point voting in a poll if no-one can agree what the questions mean.

/infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif Rik

[ranul]

vote

[missouriboy]

No, thanks.