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    The need for designated places?

    Quote Originally Posted by nuovonudo View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by jasenj1
    To place myself in a camp [...]: ... The "nude for recreation" position would be a nice ideal. It'd be great if places where people enjoy the sun and outdoors could be truly clothing optional - but it's not gonna happen (especially in the USA).

    "Designated places" is where I fall. In the USA it's a struggle for nudists to be recognized as a legitimate group of users. Getting more beaches and other public lands designated for nude/CO use would be a big win.

    - Jasen.
    Jasen, your post highlights how much our culture here in the u.s.a. has changed in the last fifty or hundred years. it used to be the case that there were areas, designated more by tradition than by law, where naked swimming ("bathing") was the norm. you can find all sorts of historical references to this practice, both in art and in literature. there was even a children's movie (i can't recall the title offhand) that showed naked kids at a swimming hole as part of the title sequence. norman rockwell's paintings of daily life often included depictions of innocent, ordinary nudity. no one thought anything of it.

    why the culture has changed and become more "gymnophobic" is a matter of speculation and debate. my own view is that the hypersexualization of culture (due mainly to widespread explicit and implicit media portrayals of sex acts) is in part to blame; in the minds of americans nudity is today more linked to sex than it used to be. another factor, i believe, is the erroneous perception, encouraged by the gay agenda people, that a large percentage of the population is homosexual. (according to one recent study, the perception in the u.s. is that 25 percent of men are gay; the actual number of gay men is closer to 2 percent. but if the perception is that one in four is gay, no wonder so few men want to be naked in the locker room any more.)

    all this fear of and repression of nudity is unfortunate. my experience is that being naked is life's simplest pleasure. but for naturism to become more widely accepted (or at least tolerated) some major attitude shifts are going to have to take place.
    You raise some interesting points. In the USA in the past*, a semi-remote body of water would be a good place to skinny dip. But today people are far more concerned about being discovered and reported (at least I am). Is that fear warranted? Are people (textiles) more tolerant than naturists give them credit for?

    The rise of sex offender penalties has probably cooled nudity. Who wants to be charged with indecent exposure and be put on a list for the rest of their lives? The actual risk may be low, but the penalty is HUGE. All it takes is a call on a cell phone and you can be reported instantly.

    * How far back? 20s? 30s? 1800s? 60s? 70s? I think the shift had certainly occurred by the 80s.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    No comprendo...did you carve out part of a thread and use it for a new topic? Your post is somewhat confusing...

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    Quote Originally Posted by NudonyII View Post
    No comprendo...did you carve out part of a thread and use it for a new topic? Your post is somewhat confusing...
    Yes. If you click on the little arrow control to the right of nuovonudo you will be taken to the original thread. The topic here strayed far enough from the original that I thought it worth pulling out to its own thread.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    The cell phone has definitely made a difference, but many places they don't work. Go to mountainous areas for example. I agree that one does have to be more careful, but it is still possible to be nude in many places.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    while the risk of arrest or of being labelled for life as a "sex offender" (or both) is real, i think in practice it is very, very slight. one reads all the time of people caught either skinnydipping or streaking, and quite often the charges against them (if any) are dropped. the courts here seem to be pretty reasonable in distinguishing between behavior that is nonsexual versus predatory sexual behavior. likewise, folks in law enforcement seem to be fairly reasonable. i remember having a discussion with a guy who works as a ranger at oak mountain state park south of birmingham. (now remember, this is alabama ... baptist country) and he told me that the policy there was to issue a warning if they found people hiking or swimming nude. the only way someone there might be arrested is if they refused to comply with the ranger's warning.

    as to when the cultural shift began, my own sense is after the 1980s. i remember skinnydipping in my early 20s (c. 1983) at night with a group of friends from my high school (male and female) off "the point" in chicago (lake michigan). now, at the high school and grade school i had attended there, showering together after gym class was the norm, so the boys were used to seeing other boys naked, and likewise the girls. (the showers and lockerrooms were obviously not co-ed.) what was unusual about this episode was that the guys and gals were comfortable being seen naked by the opposite sex. (well, most of us: there was one guy in the group who did not participate....) it wasn't a huge deal. today it might still not be a huge deal, but because kids that age today have been bombarded with lust-enducing images for most of their lives, they are naturally more shy about exposing their bodies; they understand, intuitively, that by exposing their bodies, they open themselves up to be used sexually (if only as mental fodder for another's lustful fantasies.) and no one wants to be used.

    seems like common sense to me. but then, common sense has become somewhat uncommon of late, sad to say. i think it is up to us as naturists and would-be naturists to set the right example. so for example, when at the gym, we should insist on the normalcy and naturalness of showering naked. i mean, duh!!! there are certain things that were meant to be done naked. c'mon people!!!! it frosts me when i see guys at the gym (especially guys above the age of 30) wearing their swim trunks or boxers in the shower room. but i understand (i think) where the paranoia is coming from.

    all this points to the need for places designated for social nudity, whether beaches, swimming holes, nature trails. my concern is that if grown men are afraid (for whatever reason) to avail themselves of the opportunity to be naked in a place as "safe" and traditionally nude-friendly as the lockerroom at the gym, it may be very difficult indeed to secure legal recognition of places set aside for naturist activities. nevertheless, i believe such recognition should be sought.
    Last edited by nuovonudo; 08-21-2012 at 04:54 AM.
    May God bless our original nakedness! (cf. Gen. 1:21 & 2:25)

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    I think that we do need designated places or the use of places at designated times (the latter being say for swims and saunas). There has been a cultural shift at least in the US and UK.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    Quote Originally Posted by nuovonudo View Post
    today it might still not be a huge deal, but because kids that age today have been bombarded with lust-enducing images for most of their lives, they are naturally more shy about exposing their bodies; they understand, intuitively, that by exposing their bodies, they open themselves up to be used sexually (if only as mental fodder for another's lustful fantasies.) and no one wants to be used.
    If what they wear is any indication of being afraid to expose their bodies, then I disagree that they are afraid. Boys maybe, yes. They wear loose fitting clothing with shorts so long I would call them pants. It goes for beach wear too. On the other hand, girls are wearing shorts that are so short they barely cover their butts. The tops are skin tight, low cut, and either strapless or have very thin straps. Their beachwear covers just the pubic area, which they must shave to keep from having hair exposed outside of the bikini bottom. The tops are so skimpy that they leave most of the breast exposed, covering only the nipple and surrounding area. The straps are really strings that tie behind the back and neck. So, they are not afraid to expose their bodies though they may have body issues, they just don't expose the parts we in the United State have determined to be illegal. I wonder what beaches would be like here if they really were clothing optional.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    Having some designated areas would just be huge improvement. I think once people started to see the benefits change could come quicker but it seams it has slowed or taken a step back in the last 5 or 10 yrs. If we could put a anti-nude filter on cameras (so they would not take a nude pic) it would help.

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    Re: The need for designated places?

    Quote Originally Posted by maxx View Post
    If we could put a anti-nude filter on cameras (so they would not take a nude pic) it would help.
    That I actually disagree with. I think in a few years a large percentage of "kids" will have naked pictures out on the internet. As today's teens - for whom the naked pics are a BIG deal to their parents and other adults - age into their 20s and 30s, naked pictures will be no big deal. And may lead to real life, in person nudity being less feared.

    I guess my point of starting this thread was that MAYBE (in the USA) clothed & naked people can co-exist more peacefully than we tend to think - maybe. I'd certainly like to see more explicitly designated CO/nude places, as well. But maybe we can get away with a little more than we tend to think.

    - Jasen.

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