INCIDENT I just experienced

jozimmer · #1 06-01-2008, 09:55 AM

While at a very nice resort I was out walking at 2:30 a.m. because I couldn't sleep. Another guy was awake also walking. I am straight and getting married to a wonderul woman in 4 weeks and everyone at the resort knew this (including this guy).

To make a long story short, he groped me and asked to play with my d**k. He made comments about the size and how much he liked it. I just kept saying, "No, NO No NO NO NO" and he said, "please" I said, "no" , he said Please again, i said no and left.

This is pretty damn disturbing to me. I know this isn't typical but I'm wondering if anyone else has run into something like this.

Fitz1980 · #2 06-01-2008, 10:04 AM

Can't say I've had that. I've been hit on by gay guys at the nude beach but they've always been respectful and when I tell them that's not what I'm down with they are cool about it. Given that it was 2:30 AM was he drunk by chance? Late nights and lots of booze can turn many into inconsiderate, pushy, personal barrier invading jackasses; just ask any girl who's ever been in a bar around last call.

**Boreas** · #3 06-01-2008, 10:14 AM

Hi jozimmer, have you mentioned this to anyone at the resort? Have you talked to anyone in person about this?

If you were female, people would be clammering to get you to charge that guy with sexual assault. You do have that option as a man too for the record......IF YOU CHOOSE.

Basically you were assaulted and it does not matter if the other guy was drunk or not.

Please do not let this experience sour you on the resort and all naturist activities.

Take care

**EricNY** · #4 06-01-2008, 10:17 AM

My opinion is that you have the responsibility to report this to the resort management. Chances are this is not an isolated case for this guy, and he may cause the resort more harm.

Croydon · #5 06-01-2008, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Boreas

Hi jozimmer, have you mentioned this to anyone at the resort? Have you talked to anyone in person about this?

If you were female, people would be clammering to get you to charge that guy with sexual assault. You do have that option as a man too for the record......IF YOU CHOOSE.

Basically you were assaulted and it does not matter if the other guy was drunk or not.

Please do not let this experience sour you on the resort and all naturist activities.

Take care

I for one do not believe a damn word that he said. Like Judge Judy always says, if it doesn't make sense, it is usally NOT true.

Sanslines · #6 06-01-2008, 10:18 AM

What is the name of this resort???

Eric6420 · #7 06-01-2008, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Croydon

I for one do not believe a damn word that he said. Like Judge Judy always says, if it doesn't make sense, it is usally NOT true.

It surely looks like a made up story just to sread homophobia. It is like saying that a drug dealer was trying to sell you illegal drugs in front of a policeman.

In most nudist resorts, people are watched closely and a story like that is virtually impossible.

Croydon · #8 06-01-2008, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Eric6420

It surely looks like a made up story just to sread homophobia. It is like saying that a drug dealer was trying to sell you illegal drugs in front of a policeman.

In most nudist resorts, people are watched closely and a story like that is virtually impossible.

I didn't say it was a made up story to spread homophobia. I am not quick to call the poster homophobic.

To clarify: I simply don't believe the situation occurred. The story does not make sense or add up.

I first call into question: "I am straight and getting married and everyone at the resort know (including this guy)"....my question is: what resort is this and did he personally go to every attendant of the resort and announced his sexuality and his engagement?

I further don't believe the "he groped me and commented on the size of my dick, how much he liked it"....and the no no no no and then he asked again...sorry not ask he BEGGED, and poster said no again and left....this is where I don't believe the story AT ALL.

Assuming the incident actually happened, it is considered assault. As he was "assaulted" he didn't immediately...apparently he had to say no many times before he got the clue to leave the situation? Riiiight. I think most people would be immediately offended and walk away quickly.

Also, assuming this actually happened, why didn't he notify the proper authorities..for ex: the resort manager or even the police? Wouldn't you let the resort management know about this so they can rectify the situation so this person doesn't harass any other members?

I simply think the poster just wants a little attention.

Eric6420 · #9 06-01-2008, 12:56 PM

It is like creating a racist story like this:

"I went to a nudist resort and there was a black family, that black family was smelling very bad. They had a very noisy radio and they respected no one..."

I does not take a specialist to understand the goal of such a post. The homophobic story above is clearly like that.

Eric6420 · #10 06-01-2008, 01:32 PM

I would also add that walking outside in the middle of the night is not a smart thing to do in most places, unless the area has extreme security. And you have more chances to get harmed by a drug addict who needs money than by a gay man looking for sex.