small penis again

crosseyed2 · #1 09-07-2008, 04:04 PM

Hey all. I've been on this site for a while, but i'm new to posting, so bear with me. I've been a home nudist for as long as I can remember, but have never been nude in public because I'm overweight, with a small penis. It's strange, because I couldn't care less about what other people look like naked. I want to go to a local resort, but I'm single, and worry what people will think of me. Any advice would be appreciated.

Rebecca · #2 09-07-2008, 04:50 PM

If it has been said before it wont change over time. You wont be judged by how you look. On all of the beaches and the few clubs I have been to, I have never heard or thought "Look at that mans penis" its the same with women and breasts or anyone with weight. that is one of the reasons I got into all this. As long as you dont talk about the subject, no one else will.

Naturist Mark · #3 09-07-2008, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by crosseyed2

Hey all. I've been on this site for a while, but i'm new to posting, so bear with me. I've been a home nudist for as long as I can remember, but have never been nude in public because I'm overweight, with a small penis. It's strange, because I couldn't care less about what other people look like naked. I want to go to a local resort, but I'm single, and worry what people will think of me. Any advice would be appreciated.

Stop worrying. You are far from unique. Very very far. You might even be among the majority. But even if you were completely different - no one will care.

As for being single - that is not a problem at most resorts. Be sure to call first & ask if there will be any problem - they might tell you about a gender balance policy - but those are seldom used to prevent visits.

-Mark

JeepNude · #4 09-07-2008, 05:26 PM

How often must we answer the same concerns??....

Honestly, the only person that will ever notice your 'imperfections' is YOU! Just go to a resort and see for yourself. You will only be judged on the size of your smile. That's a fact.

crosseyed2 · #5 09-07-2008, 05:53 PM

Thanks, Rebecca, Mark, and, Jeep. I know you're probably right, but it's hard to take that final step. Body issues. I just want to lie out nude in the sun, and read a book by a lake.

Journeyman · #6 09-07-2008, 06:31 PM

Buddy,

In my visits to naturist resorts and beaches in many countries, I have seen nudists who (1) have severe psoraiasis (spelling?); (2) have had one or two breasts removed due to cancer; (3) have been in wheelchairs, some with a colostomy bag; (4) have been disfigured or scarred due to burns or teenage acne or chicken pox; ((5) are blind or deaf...

..in other words, with all due respect, there is *always* someone else who has a bigger problem than yourself. Being overweight can be overcome, and a lesser-than-regular sized penis is not a big deal, in the grand scheme of things. Does it work OK? That's the most important thing.

The other posters are correct. I think we are all so grateful to be in an environment that allows us to be nude makes everyone so much more accepting of one another -- and accepting of the deficiencies that we (stupidly) see in ourselves.

Good luck,
J.

David77 · #7 09-07-2008, 11:12 PM

Crosseyed2,
Many overweight men merely appear to have a smaller penis because the "supra-pubic tissue", that is, the excess fat above the penis falls down by gravity and covers up part of the penis making it look smaller, or retrograded (pushed in) with little more than the tip showing. If you went to many nude functions you would see that you probably appear no different than many other overweight men.

Running Bear · #8 09-07-2008, 11:27 PM

I was about to add my own content and Journeyman beat me to it.
Naturism is about tolerance of all and respect for individuals with the removal of shame (IMHO). Now, if you wore a codpiece that would be considered strange :-) ...actually if you wore clothes that would be considered very strange but then I cannot help that thought; after all I am normal!!!

nakedjohn · #9 09-08-2008, 12:35 AM

Crosseyed2,
do not worry about it. there is nobody uglier than myself running arround nude at a resort. I have scleroderma, right hand amputated and like you, a small penis. But who cares: NOBODY.
I feel the best, when I can walk arround in the nude, it gives me something very positive back.
Do not worry nobody will care how you look.

**krcNY** · #10 09-08-2008, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by JeepNude

Honestly, the only person that will ever notice your 'imperfections' is YOU! Just go to a resort and see for yourself. You will only be judged on the size of your smile. That's a fact.

That is definately true.