Talking to a Girl

[nakedstudent]

I just finished a conversation with a girl who I am interested in dating in the future.

Somehow nudity came up (I think she started it) and I told her of how I enjoy simple nudity. I was pleasantly surprised at how the conversation went. If things turn out right, I think I may have a partner willing to experience nude recreation with.

To top it off, she's a wonderful girl. Mature beyond her years and a whole lot of fun at the same time...

I promise to keep ya'll updated!

[Ren]

Good for you! I told my partner straightaway and she was fine with it. I think honesty at the very beginning makes for less headaches down the line.

[Fitz1980]

Me and you are about the same age and for years I was affraid to tell friends and "prospects" about my nudism. Turned out that pretty much anyone who I told about it was fine with it, many thought it sounded cool and wanted to try it. Others said that it wasn't for them but didn't think any less of me for liking it.

My current GF went with me to Haulover Beach and loved it. Back when I was with my previous GF she was nervous about going to Paradise Valley but said she'd try it because I wanted her to try it but she insisted that her best friend come with her, for moral support. All three of us had skinny dipped together before but both girls said they they weren't sure about taking anything off themselves. When we got there it took about 15 minutes for both girls to get totally nude and I was the guy at the nudist resort who brought 2 naked 21 year olds. Also important lesson from that day, if a girl wears a bikini she has more options. The GF did and started with the top and than the bottoms a few minutes later. The friend wore a 1 piece and had only 2 choices totally off or totally on.

I've also gotten several friends to try the resort or the beach. The best thing to tell a newbie if they are unsure is "it's clothing optional you don't have to take off anything that you don't want to."

[nakedstudent]

Originally Posted by Ren

Good for you! I told my partner straightaway and she was fine with it. I think honesty at the very beginning makes for less headaches down the line.

It's so hard to get to that point though... we had a conversation a few weeks ago that didn't make it look like she was that accepting. But last night, things were different... I'm not sure why initially she seemed uptight, but I thought it best to avoid it. Then it all just kind of spilled out.

Like I said, very pleased with the way it went.

[Nu]

Good luck!
You seem to be off to a great start.
My wife has been so far reluctant to try social nudity.

[Pumpkinpie]

First step honesty and openly good for you guys take it one day at a time all the best for you both.

[nakedstudent]

Originally Posted by Fitz1980

Me and you are about the same age and for years I was affraid to tell friends and "prospects" about my nudism. Turned out that pretty much anyone who I told about it was fine with it, many thought it sounded cool and wanted to try it. Others said that it wasn't for them but didn't think any less of me for liking it.

My current GF went with me to Haulover Beach and loved it. Back when I was with my previous GF she was nervous about going to Paradise Valley but said she'd try it because I wanted her to try it but she insisted that her best friend come with her, for moral support. All three of us had skinny dipped together before but both girls said they they weren't sure about taking anything off themselves. When we got there it took about 15 minutes for both girls to get totally nude and I was the guy at the nudist resort who brought 2 naked 21 year olds. Also important lesson from that day, if a girl wears a bikini she has more options. The GF did and started with the top and than the bottoms a few minutes later. The friend wore a 1 piece and had only 2 choices totally off or totally on.

I've also gotten several friends to try the resort or the beach. The best thing to tell a newbie if they are unsure is "it's clothing optional you don't have to take off anything that you don't want to."

We're nowhere near ready for a social setting yet. I haven't experienced one myself yet and I think I'd much rather do it without someone I'm attracted to before taking her.

I don't think she has either and the discussion of nudity was based on the private aspects of it.

Like others have said though, we'll take it one day at a time and see what comes.

[Fitz1980]

Originally Posted by nakedstudent

We're nowhere near ready for a social setting yet. I haven't experienced one myself yet and I think I'd much rather do it without someone I'm attracted to before taking her.

I don't think she has either and the discussion of nudity was based on the private aspects of it.

Like others have said though, we'll take it one day at a time and see what comes.

And when I took my GF it was when she was firmly "my GF" not when we were first dating. But it's nice to let her know what's up near the beginning so it doesn't become a stumbling block later on.

[nakedstudent]

Originally Posted by Fitz1980

And when I took my GF it was when she was firmly "my GF" not when we were first dating. But it's nice to let her know what's up near the beginning so it doesn't become a stumbling block later on.

haha... it's amazing what things will come up in common conversation. If I remember correctly, the topic of a hot tub came up after a long workout we shared together at the YMCA in town... one thing led to another and the logical way to enjoy a hot tub (or anything else for that matter) was brought up.

[soflonudist]

Congrads, finding a person that accepts you for who you are is a difficult thing in itself. Glad that your getting along well and that she allows you to be you. Hope you find much happiness.