Nudist Companionships with the Opposite Sex

NudeTC · #1 03-01-2003, 06:19 AM

Is this possible?

I am a male around 44 years of age, living in the UK and am trying to find a special Lady to share the honest joys of nudism with me, but no joy so far... where are you all hiding??

NudeTC · #2 03-01-2003, 06:19 AM

Is this possible?

I am a male around 44 years of age, living in the UK and am trying to find a special Lady to share the honest joys of nudism with me, but no joy so far... where are you all hiding??

#3 03-01-2003, 08:28 AM

There just aren't all that many single women nudists in existence. Your best bet is to find one that isn't a nudist and would be willing to give it a try.

Your chances of finding one online are even more slim as there are way more men than women online as well.

Finding them on a messageboard will be hard because most of them don't make their boards a friendly enough place for women to speak up. This one and most other nudist boards aren't hard enough on flamers and allow remarks to stand that would scare off many women from wanting to participate. I know I've complained about a few posts here and last I looked those posts were still there and I never got a response to my complaints.

NudeTC · #4 03-02-2003, 02:54 AM

quote:
Originally posted by cyndiann:
[qb]There just aren't all that many single women nudists in existence. Your best bet is to find one that isn't a nudist and would be willing to give it a try.

Your chances of finding one online are even more slim as there are way more men than women online as well.

Finding them on a messageboard will be hard because most of them don't make their boards a friendly enough place for women to speak up. This one and most other nudist boards aren't hard enough on flamers and allow remarks to stand that would scare off many women from wanting to participate. I know I've complained about a few posts here and last I looked those posts were still there and I never got a response to my complaints.[/qb]

NudeTC · #5 03-02-2003, 03:03 AM

I haven't got the hang of these postings yet...

Thanks for your reply and advice Cyndiann - you confirm my own feelings on this. I have tried to find someone online with zero success. It sure is a challenge as most of my female friends are horrified at even the thought of being nude in a social situation - society has told them I guess that unless they have the so-called "perfect model's physique" they should hide their bodies, which is so sad.

However I'll keep looking..

florida-david · #6 03-02-2003, 06:48 PM

hello if you accidentally create a post that only repeats what the previous poster said, than use the edit/delete key and go in and edit the post. please do not leave it there as it makes the posts long and boring

thanks

david

RIVERRAT · #7 03-04-2003, 08:51 PM

quote:
Originally posted by NudeTC:
[qb]Is this possible?

I am a male around 44 years of age, living in the UK and am trying to find a special Lady to share the honest joys of nudism with me, but no joy so far... where are you all hiding??[/qb]

I've been where you are for years, In nortern NY, there aren't any ladies of any age who will admit they are nudist or skinnydippers or anything that imploys clothes optional, I know of a couple of families that skinnydip, that really does me no good, say, sir, would you mind if your 15 year old daughter went to the nude beach with me, dugh, I don't think so tim, well how bout your wife, SLUG. guess not??

llewnam · #8 03-20-2003, 10:55 AM

Hi,

I'm a single guy, and I actually met a beautiful nudist girl on a nude beach! We soon found out however that nudism was pretty much all we had in common.

We see each other maybe once a month. If it's colder, we hang out at a local clothing optional spa; if it's warmer, we hang out at the beach. We get along fine, but I just don't see us ever becoming a couple.

I guess my point is simply finding a nudist gal pal doesn't guarantee romance, or even a close friendship. Nudism is just like any other hobby or interest -- just because two people share a love of it, doesn't make them soulmates. Best of luck to you guys. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

florida-david · #9 03-20-2003, 02:59 PM

i agree, there have been polls on this website that seem to suggest that just because two people like to get naked, they will have a lot in common. i say if you find a non-nudist someone open minded about all facets of life, than they can probably become a nudist over time. or if nothing else, at least they will accept you as the nudist that you are.

missouriboy · #10 03-21-2003, 01:49 AM

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Originally posted by llewnam:
[qb]...simply finding a nudist gal pal doesn't guarantee romance, or even a close friendship. [/qb]

There are many men seeking just that situation, mainly to gain entry to couples-only venues. Some are even married, but their wives won't go, and they claim to have their wife's blessing.

Others are widowers who feel insulted to lose their former acceptance in those venues. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif[/img]