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**greensunshine** · 12-24-2002, 03:13 PM

To All US Females who are always Whining about not meeting that Special Someone [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

How many of US would like to meet MR. Right , or some great looking guy (and we are not just talking Great Looking Bodies, MINDS are included in things we find attractive in this description about this someone as well... I know I would like to at some point in my life [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] (Greensunshine, tries to whistle at some cute guy she sees on the beach).

I figured since I had opened up the subject on things these guys could do to improve themselves for us, turnabout was fair play...

So Guys, here is your chance to let us females know what makes us attractive to you [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif[/img] (and this topic includes helping us improve our attitudes and whatever)...

Oh, and Guys, while you are at it, we need to know what it is that totally annoys you to the point of wanting to giving us our brooms back so we can have them all to ourselves [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_redface.gif[/img]

Greensunshine [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

PS

The only ground rules in giving us this advise, is no swearing, name calling, and finally keep your comments clean (remember minors also read this post, and that is primary reason behind these rules)...

**nudist_in_Tn** · 12-24-2002, 03:32 PM

In my opinion first and foremost act like a Lady if you expect to be treated as one.

**Mic** · 12-24-2002, 04:10 PM

Young ladies, if you want men to change for the better consider the following:

Quit accepting guys who dress "cool" and look like bums. If you are going to clean up and wear neat clothes, expect him to do the same.

Quit giving it away for free. Stop wearing revealing clothes in the mistaken belief that you will attract a guy. Once he has seen your belly button, it is not an attraction in the future. In short make him earn the right to see more of you.

Expect guys to look like guys not unisex. Women who strive to dress and look like men do not attract men. Same goes for men who dress and act like a woman, let them know that you want to be seen with a man not your alter ego.

Don't accept what you don't like. Be selective, you are really in control of the relationship. Never accept as a fact that you have to attract a man with your attire, men who select a woman based solely on her looks will expect more than a thinking woman will want to give. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

**Frank R** · 12-24-2002, 05:07 PM

Things that make a woman attractive would include but not be limited to: [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]
The ability to have an intelligence conversion about current events or politics or pets or anything except sports. I always like having a person I am speaking with look me in the eye. Body language counts too.
A good sense of humor and the ability to laugh. This is very important to me.
A woman who has opinions different than mine and is willing to state them. I find I tend to find people who agree with me on everything to be rather boring. At the same time, let's not count someone out of the fellowship because we do agree on some point.
To me at least, someone who likes pets.
While I would think it would go without saying I will add a woman who is neat and clean.

Things I dislike: [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif[/img]
So much perfume that I almost want to gag. A little goes a long way.
Using so much cosmetics that I am not sure who I am really seeing.
Being unwilling to discuss things without arguing. We can disagree in an agreeable manner.
Smoking is something I find disgusting (in anyone) but especially in an enclosed area.
A woman who does a 180 degree turn in behavior after having a few drinks. While I do not drink, I have no objection to someone who is a light or even moderate drinker.
While many people may not be bothered by it, I dislike profanity, especially the more harsh terms far too many use.
A woman who is cruel to animals. Actually, I dislike anyone who is cruel to animal but it seems to bother me more if a woman does it.

**Guest** · 12-24-2002, 08:00 PM

I agree with all that Frank said, and here are a few more.

Things I like: (1) a woman who takes pride in her appearance. I had a crush on a girl as a teen who was rather plain looking, but she took pride in doing the best she could with what she had, and she had a great personality. (2) A woman who is as faithful to me as I will be to her. (3) A woman who isn't afraid of work. (4) Someone who likes to cuddle; I'm one who likes to cuddle. (5) One who likes children as well as animals. (6) For me a woman who loves to cook and bake because I do. Yea, I know; that's not a macho thing. (7) For me a woman who believes the same as I do as far as religion. (8) For me a woman who loves nudity as much as I do.

Things I dislike: (1) Women who are too skinny or too obese. (2) Women who are lazy. (3) Women who scream in an argument instead talking intelligently and calmly. (4) Women who like to criticize and find fault for no reason other than to put down. (5) A woman who cannot be trusted because I know I can be. (6) A woman who is spiteful; both my wives were. Is this a woman thing? [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif[/img]

**chuckie30** · 12-24-2002, 08:02 PM

here is something for both sides to consider, how about being a little less demanding? Accept me for who I am, I am a nudist and am comfortable with myself. To your other post, yes I am a male and yes I am overweight. However I waqs not always like this. I was a very active person involved in many sports. One day I was riding a horse who stumbled and fell, I had no choice but to go with. I have had ongoing problems with my back for almost 7 years. I cannot do any of the sports I used to do. Slowly I am starting to get active again, but I will never be what I was, now because of that will women like you not be interested in me? Just as a question because I am quite happy being single, I have found a club that accepts me for who I am and can enjoy my nudist lifestyle there.
So get to know people before making snap judgements and lets not be so demanding........
merry x-mas to all

**Bob S.** · 12-24-2002, 08:34 PM

My biggest thing would be to be yourselves. Putting ona false front when meeting someone is never a good idea. And realize that how you act will attract a certain group. Like if you were to dress in skimpy clothes and act s bit slutty, you will attract men who prefer that in their women.

And for both genders, go after your potential mate as if you were looking for a good friend because that is really what you want in a bf/gf. You want someone whom you can trust, rely on, and be yourself around. If you go after a relationship with some other agenda, it will be much harder to make it work. And treat a relationship as in the here and now. Don't always look into the future; think about how this relationship is making you feel in the present.

Bob S.

**sw1sweendog** · 12-24-2002, 08:51 PM

good call chuckie/bob,i feel the same don't judge a book by the cover,read it then make the call.sun thank's for the flipside

**No Threads** · 12-25-2002, 04:10 PM

Well as the old saying goes, there is a man for every woman or woman for every man. Be yourself, love and happiness will follow.

**Trailscout** · 12-25-2002, 07:57 PM

I believe we are talking about two different things.

If you want body acceptance, I will give it to you no matter what you look like. I had a gal pal who was 250 pounds and 5'2". She was a dear friend, but I was not attracted to her in the slightest.

I recently dated a girl whose ex reportedly had no interest in her physically, but frankly I found her so attractive that I had to exercise great restraint when we kissed. A girl deserves having a fellow who is strongly attracted to her. And maybe we should not have to feel guilty that we feel that way.

Some of "beauty" is biased by conditioning and cultural expectations, but many physical traits that men and women regard as the "classic beauty" are simply indicators that the one we admire has a healthy body. If you hope to raise a family and find a spouse who has a reasonable chance of living with you for a long time, maybe it is just plain common sense to pick a marriage partner who is beautiful (or handsome).

I am not condoning discrimination or partiality in any way. Some of my friends are quite ordinary looking, but have a heart of gold.

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