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Are some or most of us those who who be classified as nerds?
I was born in the early 50's. My parents were older than average and, while not naturists, never though anything about being naked in front of each other or my sisters and I... in other words, a walk to the bathroom without clothes was hardly a
problem.
When I was young, I went to the Y and thought nothing of swimming nude in front of others. I went to highschool at the University of Illinois (a school that you tested to enter and my sister cried when I decided to attend because it was the nerd school). We had access to the university pools, which meant that no suits were required in the men's pool, and no one thought anything of it.
During college, I went to school in Arizona, where all of the pools were outside, so no one though anything about nude swimming, but outside of regular classes, steaking a graduate pool was common. I wasn't until grad school that I discovered that some universities were dropping nude swimming in non-coed pools.
After graduation, it is fair to say that I was still a nerd. I wasn't the popular "hot guy," just a great friend for everyone. Most important, I leaned to be comfortable with me, and not try to shine for anyone else. I traveled to other counties, went to nude beaches and thought nothing about it.
This is where the topic of being a nerd got to be OK. So what is I was smart and reasonably successful in my chosen field. I learned to be comfortable with me and not worry about impressing others with who I was.
I have noticed at clothing optional beaches that a good share of the people that my wife and I meet are not the "hot people," but average looking people in good jobs. They are the ones that can afford to take time off and go to places like St. Martin oe wherever that have clothing optional beaches. The people that I know that would be classified as hot, tend to hang around theor home base and be hot... the rest of us who are comfortable with ourselvels don't seem to mind as much letting it all "hand out."
Perhaps nerd is a negative term to some, bit I don'y think it really is. We are the people who learned along time ago to be comfortable with ourselves, as opposed to spending all of our time worrying about what other people thought of us - as a person as by our appearance. I have found that most people on clothing optional beaches and at naturist resorts are average people, not body beautifuls. In other words, not the "hot people" but those that might be considered nerds.
If people would classify me as such in the clothed world, I could care less. My wife and I are comfortable being nude at home, in our hot tub, at our cabin on the lake or in a nude appropriate area... we may not be body builders and we may be successful in our career choices, but we are very comfotable in who we are.
Any thought from the rest of you great people on this forum?
Are some or most of us those who who be classified as nerds?
I was born in the early 50's. My parents were older than average and, while not naturists, never though anything about being naked in front of each other or my sisters and I... in other words, a walk to the bathroom without clothes was hardly a
problem.
When I was young, I went to the Y and thought nothing of swimming nude in front of others. I went to highschool at the University of Illinois (a school that you tested to enter and my sister cried when I decided to attend because it was the nerd school). We had access to the university pools, which meant that no suits were required in the men's pool, and no one thought anything of it.
During college, I went to school in Arizona, where all of the pools were outside, so no one though anything about nude swimming, but outside of regular classes, steaking a graduate pool was common. I wasn't until grad school that I discovered that some universities were dropping nude swimming in non-coed pools.
After graduation, it is fair to say that I was still a nerd. I wasn't the popular "hot guy," just a great friend for everyone. Most important, I leaned to be comfortable with me, and not try to shine for anyone else. I traveled to other counties, went to nude beaches and thought nothing about it.
This is where the topic of being a nerd got to be OK. So what is I was smart and reasonably successful in my chosen field. I learned to be comfortable with me and not worry about impressing others with who I was.
I have noticed at clothing optional beaches that a good share of the people that my wife and I meet are not the "hot people," but average looking people in good jobs. They are the ones that can afford to take time off and go to places like St. Martin oe wherever that have clothing optional beaches. The people that I know that would be classified as hot, tend to hang around theor home base and be hot... the rest of us who are comfortable with ourselvels don't seem to mind as much letting it all "hand out."
Perhaps nerd is a negative term to some, bit I don'y think it really is. We are the people who learned along time ago to be comfortable with ourselves, as opposed to spending all of our time worrying about what other people thought of us - as a person as by our appearance. I have found that most people on clothing optional beaches and at naturist resorts are average people, not body beautifuls. In other words, not the "hot people" but those that might be considered nerds.
If people would classify me as such in the clothed world, I could care less. My wife and I are comfortable being nude at home, in our hot tub, at our cabin on the lake or in a nude appropriate area... we may not be body builders and we may be successful in our career choices, but we are very comfotable in who we are.
Any thought from the rest of you great people on this forum?
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