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  • #1

    A question for only the ladies.

    I am getting back into the dating scene, how shold I approach a woman to get the desired response? What are you women looking for in a man? What pushes your buttons? What should I NOT do at all cost? And would you think someone who is balding at 31 would have the same chance with women as someone with a full head of hair? What are your thoughts.
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    I am getting back into the dating scene, how shold I approach a woman to get the desired response? What are you women looking for in a man? What pushes your buttons? What should I NOT do at all cost? And would you think someone who is balding at 31 would have the same chance with women as someone with a full head of hair? What are your thoughts.

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    • #3
      Honest there ethaneion me an my sisters are not the one who are not looking for hairy men or non hairy men so really we don't date at all we only dance and bring spirits on my home Hawaii on USA.

      Cayca Stone

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      • #4
        quote:
        Originally posted by ethaneoin:
        I am getting back into the dating scene, how shold I approach a woman to get the desired response? What are you women looking for in a man? What pushes your buttons? What should I NOT do at all cost? And would you think someone who is balding at 31 would have the same chance with women as someone with a full head of hair? What are your thoughts.


        I know you said this question is for the ladies only but thought I would throw in a few comments. In order to get back into the dating scene, you just need to go out there and talk to women anywhere and everywhere you find them. This means at the supermarket, library, gas station, etc... Ask women in person the questions that you bring up here. Concerning what women are looking for in a man, this varies all over the place. The best place to start is to sit and think what interests you and then go to those places and events to meet others who share similar interests. You really need to know yourself and what you seek in a woman and then you can go and find it. As for what you should not do, you should not lie or be phony in any way. Yes, this kind of approach will bring some rejection as some women are looking for a certain 'illusion' that basically con men create for them but you don't need this in your life. Let these women tell you how they are looking for Mr Right but then have this pattern of finding nothing but losers. Don't be a loser yourself and if a women tells you that she has a history of finding losers, then run from her for subconsciously this is what she really wants. As for balding at 31, don't even give this a second thought. To any woman worth your time, it won't matter how much hair that you have or do not have. What will matter is your personality. If someone judges you solely by the amount of hair on your head, then they are obviously way too shallow for you. Once you get out there and start to work on dating, it will become easier as you build up your confidence. At first it will be hard but it does get easier so never give up. Remember there is someone out there worthy of you so get yourself out there and get to work! lol (Just kidding but you know what I mean I hope) Good luck!

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        • #5
          quote:
          Originally posted by Cayca stone:
          Honest there ethaneion me an my sisters are not the one who are not looking for hairy men or non hairy men so really we don't date at all we only dance and bring spirits on my home Hawaii on USA.
          Cayca Stone


          What is your native language Cayca?

          Just curious.

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          • #6
            JUst be kind, sweet and cociderate or their feelings. Also (for all guys out there) Most girls dont go for the loud one in the group they go for the quiet sensative one in the corner. This is just a sugestion but also just be yourself (I know you dont believe me).

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            • #7
              Hi i got suspended because my sister has messed up my account but my language?

              My language is naive and quirky and i mostly don't be aggressive honestly so i really when i hear men talk about women i go Naive for a while.

              But i am now modest.
              I have nothing else to say.

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              • #8
                quote:
                Originally posted by Rebecca:
                JUst be kind, sweet and cociderate or their feelings. Also (for all guys out there) Most girls dont go for the loud one in the group they go for the quiet sensative one in the corner. This is just a sugestion but also just be yourself (I know you dont believe me).

                It also depends on where you're looking for a woman. Most women I've met in bars are looking for Mr. Adventure (the loud type). I'm not a Mr. Adventure by any means and I'm not into someone who is because there's no telling what "adventures" she's had with "all" her other conquests. By adventures, I'm talking about diseases not positions.

                I got lucky because I met both my ex-wife and girlfriend in bars and they were very relieved to finally meet a nice guy for a change. When I met my girlfriend she told me that she thought she would never find a nice guy and would spend the rest of her life alone because her ex-husband and ex-boyfriends were Mr. Adventures and were either abusive or deceiptful (her boyfriends were married but never told her 'till they left her). Her ex-husband tried to kill her a couple times but obviously didn't. What he didn't know the second time he tried to kill her was that she's been practicing taekwondo since she was a kid and pretty much destroyed his apartment and him and his girlfriend along with it.

                It's not impossible to find a nice girl in a bar but it is very difficult. Whatever you do, you have to take your time.

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                • #9
                  I am far from an expert but I would echo the advice of others in that it would be a good idea to be yourself and know what kind of a woman you are looking for. Don't put on an act to impress her you will have to show your real self sooner or later better do it sooner. Don't try to be something you're not but try to be cosiderate and kind.

                  Just know you will eventually be in the right relationship but you may have to go through quite a few wrong turns to get there. Good luck

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                  • #10
                    My opinion is to go out there and do the things that you like to do. There you may meet a woman who has the same interests as you. Having things in common besides a bar is a wonderful thing.

                    If you meet a woman that you are comfortable talking to...then great, but don't talk just to hook up. Don't take up any thing that you normally wouldn't do, if you meet a girl who likes to do that and you really don't, you will resent it later on in the relationship.

                    ErcNy and I have been married for 17 years and we had alot in common when we met. We seem to have had a lot of the same tastes as well. We work well together on projects around the house, we have the same ideals on raising children. I love him more now, than the day I realized I loved him. We went fishing together, bowling, camping, hiking, played sports and so on....and we still do and more.

                    Go out there and enjoy what life has to offer, if you meet a wonderful womal along the way, then you got a bonus. Good Luck and Enjoy your ventures.

                    krc

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