Need Advice, Opinion!!!!

[Naked In Florida]

Hey well actually its kinda to late for advice but I wouldnt mind your opinion. I have pm'd a girl on these forums and she wrote back and I wrote her back and told her I was interested in her. I am not sure what it is but I really like her, she is cute and seems nice. I was very poliete about it and I hope I didnt come off to strong. The only thing that might be tough is we live on opposite sides of the states. For her protection I dont wanna say who it is. I just wonder what ya'all think, was it ok what I did, kinda asking her out and telling her I like her. I dont want her to think I like her because she is a nudist, I told her that I think. If she reads this she will know who she is. Well what do you think, was it ok what I did? Be honest please! I really like her!

[Naked In Florida]

Hey well actually its kinda to late for advice but I wouldnt mind your opinion. I have pm'd a girl on these forums and she wrote back and I wrote her back and told her I was interested in her. I am not sure what it is but I really like her, she is cute and seems nice. I was very poliete about it and I hope I didnt come off to strong. The only thing that might be tough is we live on opposite sides of the states. For her protection I dont wanna say who it is. I just wonder what ya'all think, was it ok what I did, kinda asking her out and telling her I like her. I dont want her to think I like her because she is a nudist, I told her that I think. If she reads this she will know who she is. Well what do you think, was it ok what I did? Be honest please! I really like her!

[tarsus]

well now,you like a girl,and you want to know what some of us think,and i found the thread.
mmmm,am i gonna have fun.lol
hey man it don't matter what we think all that matters is what she thinks. all i can tell you and her is yes means yes and no means no,nothing else.
story time- i asked a lady out once to dinner,just dinner--i got this long drawen out thing about not wanting to get into a serious relationship---- h*ll i asked her to dinner,not to go and pick out the china and linen.--so don't read more then there is to read.feel the vibes,not yours but the person you like,you will know.

[Bob S.]

Well, this is one good thing about this site. We can PM each other and the email addresses will still be kept private. She may also feel more in control with the distance that separates you two. Not likely that you two will run into each other.

What I will say is just realize that you are just intersted in getting to know her more. So far, all you have to go by is the pic that she provided and her online personality. Realize that online personalities can be vastly different than real-life personalities. It sure is the case for me. For now, I would suggest you not think of it as "asking her out" but rather getting to know each other better.

Bob S.

[Trailscout]

I had an online relationship with a girl in Kentucky. We managed to meet once, but it was hard to arrange. She was fat even though she told me she was trim and in good shape. She also was also in an online relationship with some guy out west, but I did not learn about it until after she sent me a wedding invitation.

When you are far away it is just too easy for someone else to keep you in the dark about things that you need to know.

Your experience might be very different. If you can, talk on the phone every day, write letters, send photos, don't let the communication stop. It's still hard because unless you have video conferencing, you don't see her body language, her emotions coming from her eyes.

Good luck!

[Naked In Florida]

Thanks!!!!!! I just gotta wait for her to respond now, hope she is single!

[missouriboy]

Well, yes it's too late now, but you asked for opinions, so here's mine. A Private Message is just that: PRIVATE! So my opinion is that you have just betrayed hers (privacy) by starting this thread in the first place. It just might be that she wasn't ready to reveal everything that you did in your first post above. But it's too late now!

[Buzzer]

Any relationship is only okay or not for those involved & to those involved. Please keep it between yourselves.....until the wedding invitations are mailed! Good fortune to you both.

[melissastarr]

I doubt I'm alone in my experience, so I'll spew out my experience. As a female nudist, I receive many pm's from men who would like to get to know me more. I doubt it's because of my wonderful personality or gorgeous looks but has more to do with the fact that I'm female, a nudist, single, and 28 years old. My guess is that the woman you wrote to, like me, receives many pm's. Some of them are interesting and will receive a response. Some are not worthy of a response (ie. Let's get together. I have a 10 inch penis.) So if she's interested, she'll write you back. If not, she'll delete it with the many other pm's she's received. No harm done and there's nothing wrong with finding out if she might be interested in developing a relationship.

Melissa

[Naked In Florida]

Thanks Mellisastar

[tarsus]

true a large problem is men who constantly look for women on the net. its a problem i run into with group. it makes it difficult to get young women to join because the one thing you cannot do is hide your e-mail address. its set up that way so i can ban those who have no business being there.
but sadly a lot of women play this same game--teasing men because its fun to them,they simply do not see the danger in doing this. i have seen some of these profiles and cannot belive it,young kids posting their pixs, saying they like to party,older men,etc. like where are parents? when mine there that age the computer was in plain view.i know nothing is fool-proof but you got to do a little to guidence.

[Naked In Florida]

Oh and missouriboy I didnt betray her trust because I didnt say who she is, I respected her trust in that way!

[Rex]

Hi Naked in Florida,
I don't think you've done anything wrong, but it's likely to be unproductive.

You live on opposite sides of a big country.

Real life isn't like Hollywood. You're not going to fly over there, your eyes are not going to meet, you're not going to realise that you're meant for one another, fall into one another's arms, and live happily ever after.

You are much better off socialising, in whatever way is meaningful to you, [as long as your socialising includes ladies], and meet REAL people.

If you can do that, fine, DO it.

If you feel you may lack social skills, they can be learnt.

Not being negative, just being helpful, and best wishes to you.

[Trailscout]

Naked in Florida,
A relationship with a girl from the west coast might work for a guy from West Palm Beach. Even if she lives in Sarasota, Ft. Myers, Tampa or any of those places, such a trip might be a little long, but if she's a cutie, it should be worth your while.

[Guest]

Although I don't care to "date" anyone notin my area I know a lot of people that have met their mates online. Some didn't even live in the same country.

If you are really interested then go for it!