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    Who has told their neighbors that they are nudists? I was wondering who keeps it a secret and who here decided to be open and tell their neighbors. What does everyone believe is the best way to bring this topic up?

    I am friendly with my neighbors but not super close and go back and forth between telling them and continuing to keep it to myself. I have a fairly private back yard but sometimes find myself quickly having to hide to avoid my neighbors seeing me naked. It would be great to be open with them and not have to worry anymore if they see me but don’t know how to bring the topic up and if it’s worth doing so

  • #2
    We will soon! Lol

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    • #3
      I was working in my kitchen with the door to the garage open. I heard, "The nudist colony is down the street." So I turned, walked to the door, and had the conversation that answered the question that he had for me. Your neighbor may have no problem with you being nude in his presence as was mine. Stop hiding, it may be unnecessary anyway. If you don't want to just get caught, ask.

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      • #4
        Haven't told them yet, but I'm not close to them.

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        • #5
          I told mine. We're friendly so I asked if he was able to see in our yard. Joked "I didnt wanna get caught skinny dippin" They said they wouldnt think much of it if they did catch us so we dont worry about it much now

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          • #6
            When I decided to take the plunge into nudism, I was leery about being nude outside. I would hunker down, keep a low profile almost to the point of "hiding". One day, with the assistance of alcoholic beverages, I decided to go around and ask the adjoining neighbors. Keep in mind, I was not in a stupor state, but enough to drum up the courage.
            We have four neighbors with adjoining fences (back yard is split with two backyards). To my surprise, there were no objections. One lady just stated "we'll see". I took that as an okay. Another one stated he had seen me and didn't mind. The other two, they said it was okay with them. I just told them I don't wear anything and if it was okay with them if I was in the back. I further told them it was purely for recreation and there would be no "wild sex parties", just to put their minds at ease.
            That was back in 2002, and to this day, I enjoy the backyard totally clothesfree. One of the back households has since changed hands, so I was again, leery. One day, the guy apologized for his Sons snied remarks. I told him it didn't bother me. Whew

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            • #7
              nudeM: That is a great account. It probably reflects reality that many people, at least, do not really care. A key point of the story seems to be that it does not hurt to ask.

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              • #8
                I don't advertise to all that I'm a nudist but I don't keep it a secret either. I'm nude in my apartment as much as possible with the door open but the security screen makes it hard for passers by to see in without putting their face right up to the screen. If someone does that and sees me, I could care less. I do have a "ANNR" bumper stick on my truck, which has started a few conversations with strangers. I explain what it's all about and invite the to hang out naked with me. Seems the older I get the less I care what people think about me or what I like to do.

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                • #9
                  Last summer I decided to venture out into my backyard, as it is fairly private. One neighbour knows as he has young kids at home and it was for a heads up. I usually mention it to them when I'm going outside. My other neighbour, tat shouldn't be able to see me went out of their way to 'have a look' by removing the screen from their window. All I heard was, "Oh, the neighbours out suntanning again." They never did say anything about it, and I've been outside without getting anymore comments.

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