surprise visitor

[ranul]

You are watching Tv expecting a friend to come over for a visit. They are also a nudist. There is a knock on the door. You yell out, the door is open, the door opens up and is not your friend. How would you react?

[nudeyooper]

On those occasions, few that they were, I put some clothes on.

[Bob S.]

A total stranger would not likely enter, nor would a delivery person. That would mean for the most part, the person you let in knows you. Your reaction would then depend on your relationship with that person and why they were there. However, the right thing to do would be to just apologize and cover up with whatever clothing you have nearby. The visitor should then either accept you getting dressed or say it isn't necessary.

Bob S.

[Noodfellaz]

Or don't be lazy and get your *** up off the couch to see who you are letting in your home, especially if it could be someone who isn't prepared for that.

[ranul]

Or don't be lazy and get your *** up off the couch to see who you are letting in your home, especially if it could be someone who isn't prepared for that.

but he was expecting someone that was prepared for it.

[nudeyooper]

In my case, the door is always open to the best of my friends, and we routinely enter each others houses without waiting for someone to come to the door. I have a special knock as I open the door and he usually just hollers hello.

[Noodfellaz]

but he was expecting someone that was prepared for it.

But it obviously wasn't and thusly could have gone very badly

[Noodfellaz]

In my case, the door is always open to the best of my friends, and we routinely enter each others houses without waiting for someone to come to the door. I have a special knock as I open the door and he usually just hollers hello.

I have friends who do the same but obviously, they know what they're probably walking in to

[Bob S.]

If you knocked on someone's door whom you didn't know and they called you to enter, would you? The only thing I could imagine would be a major problem would be if it was a minor like the girl scouts looking to find orders for or or delivering cookies. It would also depend on what the person can see when they enter. I don't know too many homes and furniture arranged in such a way where you could call out to a person to come in and they immediately see you straight on.

Of course, it is best to just get a doorbell camera just for this instance or better, as Nood stated and I was thinking when I first read this, just put something on and answer the door.

Bob S.

[ranul]

If you knocked on someone's door whom you didn't know and they called you to enter, would you? The only thing I could imagine would be a major problem would be if it was a minor like the girl scouts looking to find orders for or delivering cookies. It would also depend on what the person can see when they enter. I don't know too many homes and furniture arranged in such a way where you could call out to a person to come in and they immediately see you straight on.

Of course, it is best to just get a doorbell camera just for this instance or better, as Nood stated and I was thinking when I first read this, just put something on and answer the door.

Bob S.

Most likely if it was a girl Scout or a kid selling cookies hopefully they would have enough sense to yell out I am sorry not allowed to come into a stranger's house

[nudeyooper]

You can do, "What iffs." forever and make up scenes that could be offensive to some. Real life is usually different and in my case someone coming to my back door who is not friend or family is UPS and USPS. They fall into a time window. that is very consistent. Family can be different, but my wife usually knows who is coming when and makes me get dressed. Though the grandsons and I share the hot tub nude, and they have seen me nude in other places of the house, Grandma does not think it is appropriate. I have unlocked the back door for them then turned away to get dressed. I certainly do not want to see the kids abused, but I also believe that seeing Grandpa without clothes is not abusive and that sheltering them does more harm.

[EltonJ]

You can do, "What iffs." forever and make up scenes that could be offensive to some. Real life is usually different and in my case someone coming to my back door who is not friend or family is UPS and USPS. They fall into a time window. that is very consistent. Family can be different, but my wife usually knows who is coming when and makes me get dressed. Though the grandsons and I share the hot tub nude, and they have seen me nude in other places of the house, Grandma does not think it is appropriate. I have unlocked the back door for them then turned away to get dressed. I certainly do not want to see the kids abused, but I also believe that seeing Grandpa without clothes is not abusive and that sheltering them does more harm.

I am glad to have a nudist wife, and we can raise our kids to be nudists themselves. Raising them the way our parents raised us could cause insecurities that would take a lot of time to get over.

[Bob S.]

"Real life is usually different and in my case someone coming to my back door who is not friend or family is UPS and USPS"

nudeyooper, you have given here a what if. Your real-life scenario is very specific and cannot be simply be applied to others .You suggest that you have a difference in entrances to your house and only certain people use the back door. Many people do not have that option and all visitors use only one door, the front door that is available to visitors.

As for your grandsons, what do their parents think? Your wife may be more prudish regarding being dressed around them, but if their parents don't mind, that should be between you , your grandsons', and their parents.

Bob S.

[nudeyooper]

I never intended my situation to be applied to others but only to demonstrate that a residence could very commonly be entered by family or friends without having to answer the door. If I were on the otherside and the resident shouted for me to just come in, I would do so. Perhaps, that person was busy with something that could not be left for even a minute or in a physical condition that made going to the door very difficult. If I did notd know who was at my door, I would put on the minimum of a pair of shorts before going to answer it and would never shout for someone to just come in without knowing who was there. Remember that the hypothetical situation said that a nudist friend was expected. When our door is locked and someone is expected, we routinely unlock the door ahead of time.

The grandsons are just fine with me being nude, their mother not likely to be comfortable with my nudity for herself, but there is no indication that the boys should be sheltered. Lastly, no matter what others may think, my wife rules if we know what is good for us. I'm just concerned that the boys are being brought up with this warped sense that nuditty among men is damaging instead of it being a normal state of being and nothing to be ashamed of nor shied away from.

[Noodfellaz]

Strangers aren't coming in but friends do and not all of them are nudists, and some would rather not be exposed to nudity & I think that should be respected too