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    I am a single straight married male in 50's. Wife is supportive of nudism but no longer joins me. How would it be possible to have a female buddy to hang out with and play sports (volleyball, biking, etc). not looking for a hookup. I know this forum is not a dating site, but any ideas/direction how to solicit without using a dating site. A male buddy would be fine to but...either way.

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    I don't see how to pull this off without being shady honestly

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    • #3
      Yes I agree. The best way is to invite friends you already have, probably safer for both parties. Thought I would ask to see if there werra local groups that I can plan with.
      thanks for replying

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      • #4
        I feel as though you're most likely to have success joining a local naturist group and finding an activity partner through that. Awfully hard to say to even a good friend in a non-naturist-club context, "hey's let get naked and play some frisbee" - and especially hard for a man to say that to a woman. To paraphrase something F. Scott Fitzgerald is supposed to have said, "Don't ask your friends to become nudists, go to where the nudists are and make friends.

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        • #5
          It sounds like you would prefer a female friend for this anyway, then that's what needs to happen! However, what if the roles were reversed and she was seeking a male friend to do things with without telling you about it, how would you feel about that? If you found out somehow would you confront her about it or not and be like if she's happy then I'm happy? I think this is a situation where being deceitful would be acceptable

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          • #6
            nudedude, when I read the OP, i just assumed Jzmenu would be completely open with his wife about his plans. Best thing to do would be to discuss the situation with a travel club in his area if possible. He could also discuss the situation with the club he wants to attend. They may not have a problem with it.

            Bob S.

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            • #7
              Whether nude or clothed, the friends will come through the activity first. Swimmers will swim together, golfers play golf, etc. Then the nude part can be addressed. Who would engage in a regular activity just to be nude doing it when the activity is not anjoyable? I go to the beach to play in the water and sand. Being on a blanket or towel just to be nude is not worth going to the beach in my mind, but if I had to do that it would be more tolerable if I were nude.

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              • #8
                That is correct Bob S. I would not keep this from my wife. I will hold my commitments I have made to her.
                thank you all for you sincere comments, very helpful

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