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Longing to go to a clothing-optional facility. Any other closeters out there?
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Closet Nudists for many years until we found out, most of the population is nude at home too
I am serious...since we have been more open about letting tidbits slip...we found many neighbors, friends and even relatives are nude at home. Some we would have never guessed have even been to nude resorts. Hey you never know!Comment
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Yeah, generally unless it's freezing I sleep nude, my house is as yet to be declared C-O, but I have edclared my room as such.Comment
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I am beginning to believe what krcNY said, that there are many more people nude at home than we imagine.
My husband and I have mostly only been nude at home, or in remote areas near our home. I joined a Canadian forum and very quickly discovered that I knew someone on there in real life. Suddenly I was in a spot where I felt I had to put my money where my mouth is and try out social nudism. Oh, I live in a small city in northern Canada.....somewhere I did not expect to "meet" someone I knew online.
Anyway, this person invited us out to his home and hot tub when another member of the board was in the area. We went out to dinner with the other two couples and back to the hot tub. We have been back once since then, and now are talking about getting a small club going here since there are some interested folk.
I am really glad I took the step. We are getting a chance to develop a new friendship and I found I was pretty darned comfortable in the social nude setting.
Now I want to go somewhere warm and sunny!Comment
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Isn't it great!!! Just like my wife krcNY stated we found out a lot of people are just like us....
What we did was just started with our closest of freinds and just dropped very subtle hints and some loaded questions. Based on the response or reaction to that we would get deeper into the conversation and a bit more bold with the hints or questions.
Long story short; we found out that the people that we were afraid to tell...were also afraid to tell us.
Imagine if no one started that conversation there would be two sets of people with the same secret and too scared to spit it out.
Now that we are much more open we have been finding naturists all over the place. (some of them just don't know it...yet)
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We just had a discussion of sorts a couple of weeks ago on the Labour Day weekend. We had a friend come down for a visit. This was her first visit to our home, and also the first prolonged social visit with her since she was a work colleague of mine who has since become a friend.
Anyway, we wanted her to feel comfortable and told her she was welcome to have a bath in our wonderful soaker tub. The first night she said it was too close to bedtime and that she'd never be able to sleep because she'd be too hot from the bath. I reminded her the next day around supper and she declined saying she'd have to be naked after the bath and that we wouldn't want that after all! Anyway, I told her that would not be a problem and she looked at me with incredulity and commented that we wouldn't mind seeing "THIS" body? I assured her that would not be a problem. The conversation veered off about then, but it was interesting none-the-less. It is one piece of evidence that suggests to me that more people hang around the house nude than we might know.
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quote:Originally posted by Still_Boreas:
with incredulity and commented that we wouldn't mind seeing "THIS" body?
Funny you just hit on something that I have been thinking about for a while....
So many times I find, when talking to people, that they seem to think that social nudism is about being seem or seeing others.
That is too bad, because they are missing the real feeling of expriencing others in their most relaxed and true state.
After a short time of thinking wow all these people are naked, you move to seeing people for who they really are, inner beauty so to speak.
You don't see people trying to suck in their belly or pumping out their chest and pretend to be something they are not. You actually see the person that most never see. The real them.
In visiting nude recreation venues and nude gatherings with others I have found that once people are over the initial "I'm naked" stage, they become themselves.....its so refreshing.
It is so easy to strike up conversations and make freinds etc when everyone is so relaxed and "real" The only bad thing about it is sooner or later you have to leave.
(also happily married)
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Hi Pieguy, use to be a closeter. But after discovering the joy of being open which; which wasn't too long ago, I have enjoyed it so much, and have met many great people, I now regret not coming out sooner. I'm just loving it now, and every moment I can. Just jump! You'll be happy you did.
quote:Originally posted by Pieguy:
Longing to go to a clothing-optional facility. Any other closeters out there?Comment
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quote:Originally posted by ercNY:
That is too bad, because they are missing the real feeling of expriencing others in their most relaxed and true state.
After a short time of thinking wow all these people are naked, you move to seeing people for who they really are, inner beauty so to speak.
You don't see people trying to suck in their belly or pumping out their chest and pretend to be something they are not. You actually see the person that most never see. The real them.
In visiting nude recreation venues and nude gatherings with others I have found that once people are over the initial "I'm naked" stage, they become themselves.....its so refreshing.
It is so easy to strike up conversations and make freinds etc when everyone is so relaxed and "real" The only bad thing about it is sooner or later you have to leave.
(also happily married)
I have only been in a couple of small social nude settings, but I do agree with you. And this woman earned her body. She gave birth to two children and has lived a full live for 50+ years. She has nothing to be ashamed of!Comment
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quote:Originally posted by Pieguy:
Longing to go to a clothing-optional facility. Any other closeters out there?
I am, and I also really want to go to a C/O resort too.Comment
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I also go nude when i'm at the house, inside and out. The wife doesn't care for it and won't participate and frowns when i do.Would also like to try social nudity in a small group sometime.Comment
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once was but now that i have had the privelege of going social, wouldn't have it any other way. nude home visits are great too. clothing optional is a great start til you get used to the idea of being nude in front of others.Comment
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Nods in agreement on everything that has been said. It's so liberating once you try and just be yourself. Eventually, I just thought "what's the big deal?" and the rest is history. I feel more me nude - get out and enjoy it. There are LOTS of people that enjoy it. Some times, I think the challenge is meeting those still in the closet or uncomfortable admitting or talking about it. I think that's the most helpful thing about these forums - you see other people enjoying it, hear from every day people from all walks of life, etc. I applaud you for coming here and giving it a try - even if in the closet. Enjoy and welcome!Comment
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My wife & I would be considered "closet" nudists. Though, my wife has no trouble telling others about my beig a nudist. Nor do I. I just haven't been nude socially since I was a kid at camp. And, I won't be without my wife.
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