I find myself driven to post on this topic often.
It's mid-summer here in the northeast and I still see people "uh, I need someone to help me." "I need someone to go with." "I don't know what to do."
DO YOU WANT TO GET INTO NUDISM AND TRY IT OUT? THEN DO IT.
Myth number 1 = there are no nudist facilities in my area.
Truth = aanr.com, naturistsociety.com fcn.ca all have listings of clubs in North America. Check out your state or province or surrounding ones. USE THE PHONE AND CALL. They will happily explain what they are about, but they may also ask YOU questions as well.
Myth number 2 = "I'm a single male. I won't be welcome."
Truth = In the last 20 years, the situation for single males has improved immeasurably. Radically. Yes, some do not accept singles.
Others have a "quota system" -- which can mean anything from "a single male has a snowball's chance" all the way to "we screen but if you're OK, we're OK with you."
And, many have NO restrictions -- even if they reserve the right to impose them in the future.
If a club admits singles, then it means that they're not ANTI-single. You will go, you will get a brief tour, a couple of introductions, and a few little social niceties, and after that - you're on your own. Most parks have sports, games, dances, etc., and create social opportunities.
Myth number 3 = "I need someone to help me. I've never done this before."
Hell, lots of people never did this before they did it for the first time. But let me tell you - this is blunt --
This is SOCIAL nudism. If you cannot bring yourself to picking up the phone and calling a site and going out and spending a day at a park -- this might not be for you. You have to be able to communicate and get along with others.
If you can and will take that step, you'll make friends. You'll laugh, cry, eat, dance, drink, share stories, and in all likelihood will expand the dimensions of your life further than you had ever expected.
Or you can spend your summer at the keyboard.
Your choice. Your call.
It's mid-summer here in the northeast and I still see people "uh, I need someone to help me." "I need someone to go with." "I don't know what to do."
DO YOU WANT TO GET INTO NUDISM AND TRY IT OUT? THEN DO IT.
Myth number 1 = there are no nudist facilities in my area.
Truth = aanr.com, naturistsociety.com fcn.ca all have listings of clubs in North America. Check out your state or province or surrounding ones. USE THE PHONE AND CALL. They will happily explain what they are about, but they may also ask YOU questions as well.
Myth number 2 = "I'm a single male. I won't be welcome."
Truth = In the last 20 years, the situation for single males has improved immeasurably. Radically. Yes, some do not accept singles.
Others have a "quota system" -- which can mean anything from "a single male has a snowball's chance" all the way to "we screen but if you're OK, we're OK with you."
And, many have NO restrictions -- even if they reserve the right to impose them in the future.
If a club admits singles, then it means that they're not ANTI-single. You will go, you will get a brief tour, a couple of introductions, and a few little social niceties, and after that - you're on your own. Most parks have sports, games, dances, etc., and create social opportunities.
Myth number 3 = "I need someone to help me. I've never done this before."
Hell, lots of people never did this before they did it for the first time. But let me tell you - this is blunt --
This is SOCIAL nudism. If you cannot bring yourself to picking up the phone and calling a site and going out and spending a day at a park -- this might not be for you. You have to be able to communicate and get along with others.
If you can and will take that step, you'll make friends. You'll laugh, cry, eat, dance, drink, share stories, and in all likelihood will expand the dimensions of your life further than you had ever expected.
Or you can spend your summer at the keyboard.
Your choice. Your call.
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